Speaking Mandarin with Chinese ML

[afterhours99]

From experience, is there any benefit to speaking in Mandarin to Chinese MLs? My Chinese is not the best, so usually I'd stick to English. They're usually more quiet if I say I don't speak Chinese. Any thoughts?

[jacky43]

Learn Chinese, by all means. Even Gurmit Singh tried his best. He need it in his jobs. And carried balls.

[magicgree]

Bro... Language barrier of cause quiet. If not how to communciate.
Its like saying i go thailand find thai ml
I have limited thai. Kapkunkap. Sawaderkar.
And they are usually quiet.
Any thiughts?

[kcpro]

You have no idea bro, I've learnt Dongbei and Sichuan dialects.
You get a much stronger response from the MLs if you speak a few words.
Breaks the ice and helps them open up - literally.
I have many instances where they say they feel more qinqie / intimate.

[kthan10]

Its common wherever you go. If cannot speak the same language, means cannot communicate, it's naturally hard for others to talk to you since they cannot understand what you want to say

[kombust]

if you go thailand/vietnam, how would you feel if people keep talking to you in thai/viet? how would you feel if people are willing to converse with you in broken english? its a human thing.

[Heartlandlover]

Originally Posted by afterhours99

From experience, is there any benefit to speaking in Mandarin to Chinese MLs? My Chinese is not the best, so usually I'd stick to English. They're usually more quiet if I say I don't speak Chinese. Any thoughts?

Unless u wana chit chat. Else it's the same lah. Not as if there gonna be more service like free BJ or cheaper when u speak in mandarin.

Just learn the basic nego in pricing. Say the services that u want. Then enuff liao. Hahaha. My Malay friends also like that.

Just enjoy the moment to be serve by the ML and FL. Release pay and leave.

BTW I find sometime talk too much. They lose focus on the massage. They stop pressing. Hahahaha.

[ChiongQuest9]

No harm speaking in your limited Chinese bro. You will never know where it may lead you. Like other bros said, it helps build some connection.

Doesn't matter if you already know the place is gonna give you the extras, and you want to hit and run. But, with those places where things are a bit more hidden, hey, it may just open up a whole new world... if you have time to invest in la... So, try it bro!

[789550]

Tell ML that you want to learn chinese and need a part time chinese tutor. Ask her if she can help please. Add bait if required. You can teach her English too. When she is hooked, move slowly from theory to practical lessons.

[sladang]

Originally Posted by Heartlandlover

BTW I find sometime talk too much. They lose focus on the massage. They stop pressing. Hahahaha.

I thot they press the wrong place? ..

[octane67]

You never know where things may lead. There's a certain charm in a non chinese speaker trying to speak chinese. When things were a bit heavy during 1 session, I was asking my regular ml who i thought was unlockable..'suck me?' She asked 'fuck me?' and asked if got condom..the rest is history....

[afterhours99]

Appreciate all the positive opinions bros! Actually I ask because recently I told ML I spoke a little chinese (even though I am). And then she suddenly became very pushy and being new to this I kena chop hah. So I think when she know I understand her, all the pattern come out. In the end still my fault la

[Herald]

Good to communicate in Mandarin so you are able to nego on price and as well make the ML more comfortable.

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by kombust

if you go thailand/vietnam, how would you feel if people keep talking to you in thai/viet? how would you feel if people are willing to converse with you in broken english? its a human thing.

True. It’s not difficult to understand another human. Just put yourself in their shoes.

[HeyHo]

Or can just use hand signs ✊👈🏼 👉🏼👌🏼