I'm new here need some advice.

[Jackie12]

I'm 28, i'm a shy person when comes to girls, i only have sex with girlfriends.
i can do all kind of foreplay for them, oral, licking, finger till they orgasm.
they didnt say anything bad.. some even said i could last quite long.

but i always think that i'm not skillfull enough, like trying different position and such. i'm dick is roughly 5" which is consider short so i didnt have confidence to try some positions with my girlfriend (later no face)
and most of the girls just lying there and i have to do all the job

I have friends who visit brothel every weekend since early 20s and the way they said it is like, they are very skillful and girls enjoy it very much..

practice makes prefect? currently i'm back to single, i have been thinking for a while to look for paid sex to brush up my skill and to satisfied my lust, (u can say i'm humji) but really paiseh to meet a stranger, like no confident in myself.
the first step is always hard to step out, how did u guys manage to do that?





and i didn't have my dick circumcision, for better sex, shaving does make it looks more clean (i clean my dick when i bath) and better oral for girls.
would it be better if i shaved the hair? i am not going to have a stranger waxing for me, so shaving would be a better which i can do it myself.

does any brother here shaved or waxed? i heard they said it will be very itchy when the hair grown back... will the hair be rougher too? any advice u could share here.

thanks in advance.

[Midnightiger]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

I'm 28, i'm a shy person when comes to girls, i only have sex with girlfriends.
i can do all kind of foreplay for them, oral, licking, finger till they orgasm.they didnt say anything bad.. some even said i could last quite long.

And you are a shy person when it comes to girls????

I would thought that a shy person is one who only engages in commercial sex and don't have GFs cause they are too shy to approach girls.

[sean69]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

I'm 28, i'm a shy person when comes to girls, i only have sex with girlfriends.
i can do all kind of foreplay for them, oral, licking, finger till they orgasm.
they didnt say anything bad.. some even said i could last quite long.
.

SHY??!!! and have girlfriendssss ??? and SOME still can say u can last quite long?? meaning you have been bonking them already..

knn.. seems like different pple got different definition of shy... when i say i'm shy, i dun even dare to hold their hands, let along BONK them!!

[Jackie12]

Originally Posted by Midnightiger

And you are a shy person when it comes to girls????

I would thought that a shy person is one who only engages in commercial sex and don't have GFs cause they are too shy to approach girls.

Originally Posted by sean69

SHY??!!! and have girlfriendssss ??? and SOME still can say u can last quite long?? meaning you have been bonking them already..

knn.. seems like different pple got different definition of shy... when i say i'm shy, i dun even dare to hold their hands, let along BONK them!!

shy in the way that, i have sex with only pple i know..
all the girlfriends i had, are those i know them for quite some time.

if u want me to strip naked in front of a stranger, very paiseh and awkward.

[qpsters]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

shy in the way that, i have sex with only pple i know..
all the girlfriends i had, are those i know them for quite some time.

if u want me to strip naked in front of a stranger, very paiseh and awkward.

u can always pay the gal and just chit chat with them intro ureself make friend with her then the next time u go again can bonk her liao lor if still fail repeat again

[7strike]

woot brother, perseverance plays apart

Try hinting to her if she wants to **** better than just thinking of ****ing her

Maybe he never kio kway before so shy to kio kway ...
But got gfs, y the need to kio kway , and seems like not difficult to get gfs somemore ... maybe he meant he 18 yo and not 28 ... typo ...

[Jackie12]

i'm 28 riao lah but i really never kio kway before..

i know i beri beh kan, i used to accompany my friends to GL or JB massage, they always kio kway, me always go for traditional..

currently i no gf, my ex run off with another man...
so some times it makes me wonder, isit because i not skillful enough...

think i going to pay for school fee for lesson riao... prolly a local FL who is friendly enough...

[peanut123]

I don't think a girl cares if you are circumcised or not. Shaving or not is up to you and ur gf. No one here can advice you, and judging from the guys here who bonk commercial sex workers, I don't think they bother what the workers think.

And I think that if you are looking for a hooker to brush up your skill, I think maybe you might be mistaken. A hooker is paid by you, so she'll say you are good and moan like a porno actress no matter how bad you are. You may find a frank hooker, but how would you know if she's frank or not ?

Wanna improve your skills ? Find a girlfriend and experiment with her. Every girl is different. My ex-gfs all like different things. One was uncomfortable with receiving oral sex, but was great at giving it after some coaching. Another was the opposite : she wouldn't blow me, but loved recieving a tongue job. What you learn from a hooker might or might not apply to your gf anyway.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by peanut123

. No one here can advice you,

Should be "No one here can ADVISE you....".

"Advice" is a noun.

[7strike]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

i'm 28 riao lah but i really never kio kway before..

i know i beri beh kan, i used to accompany my friends to GL or JB massage, they always kio kway, me always go for traditional..

currently i no gf, my ex run off with another man...
so some times it makes me wonder, isit because i not skillful enough...

think i going to pay for school fee for lesson riao... prolly a local FL who is friendly enough...

hope you don meet a FL who is a stiff block and does not do anything to hint or guide u . best wishes in ur FL roaming. Hope you attain a higher learning in sexification

[Jackie12]

Originally Posted by peanut123

And I think that if you are looking for a hooker to brush up your skill, I think maybe you might be mistaken. A hooker is paid by you, so she'll say you are good and moan like a porno actress no matter how bad you are. You may find a frank hooker, but how would you know if she's frank or not ?

Wanna improve your skills ? Find a girlfriend and experiment with her. Every girl is different. My ex-gfs all like different things. One was uncomfortable with receiving oral sex, but was great at giving it after some coaching. Another was the opposite : she wouldn't blow me, but loved recieving a tongue job. What you learn from a hooker might or might not apply to your gf anyway.

my ex, wouldnt blow me too, and most of the time, other than riding on me, i'm the one doing 90% of the work... i'm still very inexperience in sex.
whenever i thinks of her with another man, i feel interior.. and wonder why.. isit because i'm not good enough?

the why i have filter down my targets to local friendly FL... not going to for those prc or thais which we don't even have any common topics
at least a local would still give me a gfe kind of feeling..

Originally Posted by 7strike

hope you don meet a FL who is a stiff block and does not do anything to hint or guide u . best wishes in ur FL roaming. Hope you attain a higher learning in sexification

yah, i have shortlisted a few after reading the fr...

[InsertinGently]

Perhaps if u are shy, maybe u would wana go try the FLs/WLs with ur friends first?

[scott999]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

think i going to pay for school fee for lesson riao... prolly a local FL who is friendly enough...

FL, local or not, is not gonna help you at all.
You need a life coach.

Some of us can already tell that your main problem lies in the lack of self-confidence and low self-esteem.
Your so-called short 5" tool is also not the cause for concern as well.

Lastly, i suspect that you may have some hidden agendas too.
Are you trying to seek major consensus from fellow samsters here so that you are finally take your first step down the FL lane...

[pocketrocket]

IMHO, I feel that it's all up in your mind...If you're not willing to step outta your comfort zone, than even with heaps of practices, also to no avail.

One ya set your mind to be, then you can try taking it slow for now (as per Bro Qpsters's advice)...You can try paying the girls for just chatting. I know at least one person does that initially when he first started cheonging.

Once you get pass this barrier, then it's easy to move on to the next base...Just like dating

Good luck my friend.