Safe window period to have sex for women? pls advise...

[trancer]

I have a question that needed the advice from all bros here....

i understand that there is this 'safe period' of women to have sex with their partner sometime before or after their menstruation cycle (dunno exactly whether is it 1 or 2 or 3 days after their period has ended or wat)....as this reduces the risk of pregnancy.....how true is this statement?? when exactly is the best time to have sex for women who want to control pregnancy issue?

hope any bros can offer some good advice as my wife and me are not ready for children yet but we just had sex (on raw) shortly after her period has ended and she is worried of getting pregnant as i have been using cap during our sexual intercourse all the while but not this time.......

hope to receive some advice from the bros here....

thanks in advance

[milo_man]

Actually i like to ask a bit diff qn from e 1st

Wat r e chances of preg if the menstruation will come in 2-3 days? I went to get those pills n doc told me shd be ok. But my lan jiao itchy next day n this time even worse..no pill. She told me she will get them but i dunoe she will not..so will she be preg?

[evo3]

i heard is 3 days before her period is safe and 3 days after her period is her high climax stage.

[flirt king]

Originally Posted by evo3

i heard is 3 days before her period is safe and 3 days after her period is her high climax stage.

Hear the pro speak confirm no worry

[trancer]

Originally Posted by evo3

i heard is 3 days before her period is safe and 3 days after her period is her high climax stage.

hi bro evo3,

like to clarify with you so izzit safe for sex during her high climax stage 3 days after period, sorry didn't quite get your statement.....kindly advise
as i may need to get her the anti pregnant pills just to make absolutely sure....

thanks...

[plman2002]

Pardon me but all ladies should know when is the safe period n when is the fertile period.
When they say dun know, maybe its becos their mense is always irregular n they cannot keep track.

[angie II]

cannot lidis say.. tio.. dey shud know betta.. bud if dey dun like u.. dey won't let u "dapat" no matter wat..

if dey like u.. even during period no matter how messy.. she will let u do it in bathroom during shower
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[PacWizard]

As what I know, it's 1 week before and after the mensuration cycle period "safe".

Another time is for breastfeeding mums. As long as after giving birth and she continue breastfeeding the baby, it is "safe" until her mensuration comes again usually about 6 months later.

Cheers ~

PacWizard

[solidrock]

When Does Pregnancy Occur? Study Shows Few "Safe" Days During Menstrual Cycle

Forget everything you have heard about when pregnancy occurs. According to researchers at the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences, only about 30 percent of women actually have their fertile period between days 10 and 17 of their menstrual cycle. This adds validity to what many 'accidentally' pregnant women, including myself, have long suspected.

Researchers found that the potential for fertility exists on almost every day of a woman's menstrual cycle. Most women in the study were between the ages of 25 and 35--prime reproductive age and the age when menstrual cycles are most regular. The window of fertility was found to be even more unpredictable for teenagers and women approaching menopause.

Data on tests of 213 women during almost 700 menstrual cycles concluded that even women with normally regular menstrual cycles should be advised that their fertile window can be significantly unpredictable. The NIEHS' Allen J. Wilcox, M.D., Ph.D., statistician David Dunson, Ph.D., and epidemiologist Donna Day Baird, Ph.D., described the results of these tests of otherwise healthy North Carolina women in a recent report in the British Medical Journal.

Women who seek to use their cycles to avoid pregnancy may face poor odds, according to the new scientific report. Data from the study suggests that there are "few days of the menstrual cycle during which some women are not potentially capable of becoming pregnant-- including even the day on which they may expect their next menses to begin."

According to Dr. Wilcox, "If the average healthy couple wants to get pregnant, they are just as well off to forget 'fertile windows' and simply engage in unprotected intercourse two or three times a week."

Researchers showed that 2% of women started their fertile window by day four of their menstrual cycle, and 17% by day seven. Day one of the menstrual cycle is the day that menstruation begins. More than 70% of women were in their fertile window before day 10 or after day 17. Women who regarded their menstrual cycles as "regular" had a 1 to 6 percent probability of being fertile even on the day that their next period was expected to begin. This leaves few "safe" days for natural birth control methods such as the "rhythm method." Women who participated in the study were required to provide daily urine samples that were tested for estrogen and progesterone. A sudden change in these hormones marks the occurrence of ovulation. This test was used to identify ovulation days during 696 menstrual cycles.

Previous reports by Dr. Wilcox and colleagues had shown that the fertile window spans six days and ended on the day of ovulation; however the new report found that even women whose menstrual cycles are normally regular can experience sporadic ovulation. Late ovulation causes 4 to 6 percent of women to potentially be fertile during the fifth week of their cycles--more than 28 days after menstruation last started.

Having sexual intercourse on your fertile day does not guarantee you will become pregnant. Other factors including the viability of the sperm and egg, and the receptivity of the uterus, as well as other individual factors among couples also influence whether pregnancy will result.

According to the NIEHS researchers, this report is the only modern test data that they are aware of on the range of the fertile window. During World War I, a German physician reported 25 pregnancies that were produced by single acts of sexual intercourse that occurred between menstrual cycle days 2 and 30 while soldiers were on leave--today, 84 years later this study suggests that the doctor's report was entirely plausible.

http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/pre...npregoccur.htm
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[goodyoldshoes]

Had seen a report saying raw sex on last few days before period begin is considered safe. (have to do homework like record down the dates of period starting) After practising for 2 yrs still haven got accident yet.

[tk-king]

correct me if i m wrong
all this is basic on avg

28 days cycle
start of mense = day 1
end of mense = day 5
start of ovulation = day 14
dead of egg = day 16
sperm survival = 3 days

by right day 1 to 11 is safe but 1 to 5 cant do so 6 to 11
then day 16 to next mense

be ultra safe as sperm may leave to 5 days n egg might surivive for 3 days so left 6 to 9 and 17 to next mense
hope this help

btw i tried once on day 12 luck din kana
my gal keep asking dear i wan cim inside
quick cim inside me n my small head is taking over
i will never ever do dat again sia
scare for 2 wks lei

[JJjumper]

from my own experience, the safest period is from day 1 to 8 and 20 to 28

any other period is not safe.

as for woman that had given birth, they are most fertile after birth, even if they are breast feeding. trust me, i kanna the second month after birth of my ked so can you imagine have 2 kids born in the same year!

heed my advice, i am an old man now

[Malaysian Datuk]

Originally Posted by PacWizard

As what I know, it's 1 week before and after the mensuration cycle period "safe".

add something on for novices.....during mensuration period is the safest.

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by Malaysian Datuk

add something on for novices.....during mensuration period is the safest.

Datuk like red....... *cough* *cough*

long time no see~

[Siong2]

Originally Posted by evo3

i heard is 3 days before her period is safe and 3 days after her period is her high climax stage.

Must learn, must learn for all the lao jiao.