Appeal and help.. Abuser

[Blongwhale]

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

[oshkosh]

He look like a typical asshole to me

[archer69]

Not one-sided story? How old your sister?

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by Blongwhale

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

1 sided story. It could be a dumped vindictive woman trying to get back at that clueless bloke.
If you need help, go to the police or NGO or AWARE for help. Coming to sbf is just so wrong. This is a sex forum... your story and the logic full of loopholes.

[bigbadbear]

Given the brief facts that you have mentioned, it is likely that this is a case of VCH, s323, Cap 224. Voluntarily Causing Hurt is as the Police mentioned a non-seizable (or non-arrestable) offence. What this means is that the usual police power of investigation are not triggered by such an offence, that said, it does not mean that there is no recourse. I am most certain that SPF informed you that with your Police Report, you may lay a complaint before the Magistrate at the State Courts, this is akin to taking private action and is free. The Magistrate would issue an order for the Police to investigate (if he or she so deems that an investigation is necessary) and invest into the Police all normal power of investigation, pursuant to CPC, Cap 68.

The Police have done nothing wrong and are not authorized to act in the situation that you described, they operate within the boundaries of the law. If there is any anger, it should be directed against the relevant statute and party responsible for such statute.

That said, if your sister is being smacked around, then is she consenting to this? Does she intend to do anything about it? Is she willing, prepared to leave this person? The issue about law is that it can only protect a person where the person wants or desires or is willing to accept help.

Originally Posted by Blongwhale

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

[Pentito]

Cant view the profile.

Any pics of the bruises?

[Big Sexy]

are u sure u went to the correct authority?
and why does your sister continue to go on date this jerk?

read these links
http://statutes.agc.gov.sg/aol/searc...th%3A0;rec =0

http://statutes.agc.gov.sg/aol/searc...Ainforce;rec=0

Originally Posted by Blongwhale

has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here?]

[squiggle]

Originally Posted by bigbadbear

Given the brief facts that you have mentioned, it is likely that this is a case of VCH, s323, Cap 224. Voluntarily Causing Hurt is as the Police mentioned a non-seizable (or non-arrestable) offence. What this means is that the usual police power of investigation are not triggered by such an offence, that said, it does not mean that there is no recourse. I am most certain that SPF informed you that with your Police Report, you may lay a complaint before the Magistrate at the State Courts, this is akin to taking private action and is free. The Magistrate would issue an order for the Police to investigate (if he or she so deems that an investigation is necessary) and invest into the Police all normal power of investigation, pursuant to CPC, Cap 68.

The Police have done nothing wrong and are not authorized to act in the situation that you described, they operate within the boundaries of the law. If there is any anger, it should be directed against the relevant statute and party responsible for such statute.

That said, if your sister is being smacked around, then is she consenting to this? Does she intend to do anything about it? Is she willing, prepared to leave this person? The issue about law is that it can only protect a person where the person wants or desires or is willing to accept help.

Yes, if police report doesn't work and provided that bastard stays in Singapore, your sis can still apply for PPO.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Blongwhale

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is?

Yes I do. That's Russell Lee.

[VietnamMan]

Originally Posted by Blongwhale

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Why don't you stay to protect her?

[earlstone]

Originally Posted by VietnamMan

Why don't you stay to protect her?

Never take the law into your own hands . It will make matters worse.

[Slaveatwork]

Stupid. Actually come on sbf looking for help like this. Obviously fake and if it isn't, the OP truly has shit for brains.

[Blongwhale]

thanks to the few bros who actually PMed me....Honestly, lodging a magistrate complain, i dont even know what they can do. Sometimes i think SG law can be so difficult to swallow

If any of you have any other information.. please feel free to PM. I would graciously appreciate the help

And sorry for the bros, who has got nothing nice to say to help another human being, just pray that nothing unfortunate comes to your own loved ones

Thanks guys

[Greendevil]

TS, my suggestion is to take this guy head on, direct in the face. no point play all the dirty trick or illegal stuff. go to his face, ideally his workplace, home or where people around that his face mattter, and be straight, lay the cards with him. as a elder brother, you have every right to tell the guy off, verbally. law doesnt say you cannot argue.

if the confrontation turn ugly, let police handle it. the only thing the guys need to worry is that you are not dead, and if you are dead, he even need to worry more lol.

end of the day, your sis will be taking the firing from him again, but if she know what is good for her and have any sense why you did it, she will appreciate it one day; probably for a start will be super pissed off with you.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

1 sided story. It could be a dumped vindictive woman trying to get back at that clueless bloke.
If you need help, go to the police or NGO or AWARE for help. Coming to sbf is just so wrong. This is a sex forum... your story and the logic full of loopholes.

Total agreement. Too little info. If the sister is in such an abusive relationship, only she can get out herself. If the guy still harress, then she can take up a PPO.