My boyfriend isn't interested in me anymore?

[Curiousgirl87]

I'm just an average looking girl, 160cm/56kg. Been with my boyfriend for around 5+ years but he doesn't seems to be interested in me anymore. Whenever I'm naked in front of him, he didn't even bother to catch a glimpse of me. Well, he did mentioned to me that he's low in testerone but he watches porn/visit porn site every other day.

So just want to know does all man does the same thing?

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by Curiousgirl87

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So just want to know does all man does the same thing?

No.

I can guarantee unless u look like a Ho ching clone, tons of guys here will fuck u for yr boyfren n no none of them love you

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Curiousgirl87

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So just want to know does all man does the same thing?

It is quite common for either gender to lose interest in sex after spending 5 years together.

Both of you need to acknowledge the reality of the situation and come up with ways of spicing up the relationship.

The other option is to give him a bit of competition. Once he senses that someone else is interested in you, he'll be forced to rise to the occasion.

[BondageKing89]

Originally Posted by Curiousgirl87

I'm just an average looking girl, 160cm/56kg. Been with my boyfriend for around 5+ years but he doesn't seems to be interested in me anymore. Whenever I'm naked in front of him, he didn't even bother to catch a glimpse of me. Well, he did mentioned to me that he's low in testerone but he watches porn/visit porn site every other day.

So just want to know does all man does the same thing?

Try something new like same room Sex or let a guy massage u infront of him or vice versa. Open up. Try to talk to him. Been with my gf for 9 years and recently we tried same room and even Mmf (no penetration ) she gets wet easily nowadays.

[Summerhillt]

I think your bf sian of your body and pussy Liao. Imagine you everyday eat chicken rice for 5 years. Not sian meh?

But sis guys are more physical in a relationship than girls who are more emotional lah. Girls tend to put more emotions mah.. Guess your boy still loves you.. Just that you might need to spice up your sex life. Like let him cum in mouth. U swallow his sperms.... You dress slutty and go out with him.. You ass rim him.. Alot la

[maxman]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

It is quite common for either gender to lose interest in sex after spending 5 years together.

Both of you need to acknowledge the reality of the situation and come up with ways of spicing up the relationship.

This is true. Do a Google search on waning chemistry and libido in relationships, and you will find this to be a common problem.

The excitement, emotions and lust felt at the start of a relationship usually subsides 12-24 months later, and is measurable by scientific methods. Our brains eventually stops producing the chemical high that is felt when a man and a woman first got together.

It tends to get worse after marriage where for many adults work-life balance becomes a challenge, worse when there are children to feed and school.

I agree with others here to try spice things up. Even in marriages, couples must continue to date each other to try keep the "fire" burning and maintain sexual interest. If over time, you have become complacent in your dressing (routinely wearing boring t-shirt and jeans), dress better or provocatively (low-cut short dress) every few days. Get his hot blood flowing.

[squiggle]

TS, you can do what like what other bros said, make your sex session more exciting or simply just find out why your bf not interested by asking him.

TBH, 5 years in relationship long time ago or now you should probably both marriage together already (if the guy is financially capable and both are able to click.). Unless there is some issue in your relationship.

[pussylicious12345]

Originally Posted by Curiousgirl87

I'm just an average looking girl, 160cm/56kg. Been with my boyfriend for around 5+ years but he doesn't seems to be interested in me anymore. Whenever I'm naked in front of him, he didn't even bother to catch a glimpse of me. Well, he did mentioned to me that he's low in testerone but he watches porn/visit porn site every other day.

So just want to know does all man does the same thing?

Very normal. Men will not be satisfied with just one pussy, we need a variety of pussy meats to satisfy our ego and lust. Even if he continues to show interests in you, he may still be fcuking ard outside. If you want to feel better, go fcuk ard yourself too. Enjoy!

[James PCT]

U ask people opinion but you sound like insult them I can believe that ur bf lost sex with u because of ur problem

[ilovelmy]

TS, you still have us.

[MattJB]

Its normal in most relationship.
Married couple also face the same problem.
Sex become dull, or less sexciting.
They keep the marriage for the sake of family & kids.

Your bf have low testosterone with the same partner, but still have desire in more attractive & sexy girl.
Thats why he like watching porn, which stars by sexy girl.

Like some bro advise, do something to make him find you sexy & attractive again.
Or get yourself another filng or fb.
Or just move on.

No worry sis, many other men would still find you sexy & attractive.
Give yourself (& other guy) a chance

[Sandunes]

TS, i think you may need to bear with this, cos if married couples will seldom have sex. most of the times, after married, wives are too tired to have sex or have work / study commitments which is a put off.

so some guys tend to look for FL or geylang for alternative means. if he surf porn means he still ok, maybe just wank himself or just use you as a substitute to fantasize abt the girl he saw in the porn...

If you are hungry for sex, maybe can try to comfort yourself with toys and use it to entice your bf as well. some spice in the sex will improve things.

[Johnbass]

XMM... Go tell your SI GINNA bf don't PCC every other day...

[TheHornyDevilz]

Originally Posted by Curiousgirl87

I'm just an average looking girl, 160cm/56kg. Been with my boyfriend for around 5+ years but he doesn't seems to be interested in me anymore. Whenever I'm naked in front of him, he didn't even bother to catch a glimpse of me. Well, he did mentioned to me that he's low in testerone but he watches porn/visit porn site every other day.

So just want to know does all man does the same thing?

Sometimes, getting half is more sexy than getting all. Have you tried wearing provocative lingerie?

or even a lightly coloured t shirt with just a pair of bright red or black thongs?

[acidicavex]

Stale state which alot of cpl experience do something about it. Have a talk or surprise him or observe what tickle his prick or sexcitment. Try it chanGE or sleepwear.... get sexy lingerie. Get more kinky action if all still don't work than suck it up and stop whinning or find someone else.