My wife accuses me of pawning her stuff which she cannot find. How do I prove my inno

[parrotkid]

My wife has a bad habit of misplacing her things. In the past I did pawn her items to get by tough times when she refused to lend me money. Now that I am doing very well and she recently cannot find her things, she claimed that I must have pawned them again since I did so in the past.
How do I prove thAt I am innocent?

[Andylin24]

Let her find herself

[parrotkid]

It will take forever and will never happen since she is top lazy to look for them. If i look for them and find them, she will say i pawned them and recently redeemed it to show her. Looks like a lose-lose situation for me.

[orangeproud]

Bro, sometimes if the trust is no more there, d more u try to explain to her also tend to be useless. The house only u two of them, or hv maid & tenants? If she has d bad habit of misplace thing, that's a high possibility of misplacing again. Try to help her to search tgt, maybe she misplaced in the office or other places. Tell her to place her valuable Jewellery in a lock drawer or safe to prevent misunderstanding occur again.

Since u r doing very well now, consider buy a safe if she dun hv??

[garfield97]

Then, don't sell bro ...

J/K. Ask her why she think that way.
It takes time to build trust bro ...

All the best!

[parrotkid]

Why should I be paying a price for her bad habits. The onus of proof that I have pawned them should be on her. Will the pawnshops have a record of what was pawned under my name? Since I did not pawn anything, I am not afraid to have a check under my ic no.

[parrotkid]

Then again, she can always accuse me of selling to black market that is why no records. Like that never ending one leh!

[archer69]

Buy her a new one to regain her trust and that would prove you don't have to pawn her things.

[DeannaTroi]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

My wife has a bad habit of misplacing her things. In the past I did pawn her items to get by tough times when she refused to lend me money. Now that I am doing very well and she recently cannot find her things, she claimed that I must have pawned them again since I did so in the past.
How do I prove thAt I am innocent?

Why do u have to prove u are innocent?

[parrotkid]

I gave her $2000 to replace what she claims is lost by buying them back. It is not about the money. She keeps accusing me just because I did it once. She believes a leopard will never change its spots.

[DeannaTroi]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

My wife has a bad habit of misplacing her things. In the past I did pawn her items to get by tough times when she refused to lend me money. Now that I am doing very well and she recently cannot find her things, she claimed that I must have pawned them again since I did so in the past.
How do I prove thAt I am innocent?

If someone comes up to me an accuse me of theft, the onus is on the accuser to prove I did it. No?

[orangeproud]

Bro, ask her nicely to place her precious valuable Jewellery properly & carefully better in a lock drawer or safe where she's d only one own d key & password. Or else, there's never ending for accusing & finger pointing. I think both of u also feel very vexed & tired, rite?

[parrotkid]

The immediate issue is I cannot find the items she claims are lost. In future a safe would be useful.

[sadfa]

This kind of small family squabble you oso wan to air in public.

Just tell her ya limpeh did it.
You don't shutup limpeh oso pawn u later.
N drink a bottle of stout bottoms up.

Show her who's the man of the house.

[LtData]

Originally Posted by sadfa

This kind of small family squabble you oso wan to air in public.

Just tell her ya limpeh did it.
You don't shutup limpeh oso pawn u later.
N drink a bottle of stout bottoms up.

Show her who's the man of the house.

2 thumbs up. Petty things want to bring here. Mo lan yong.