How do you actually handle it?

[kennyX]

For fellow SBF pals here, how do you manage the "guilt" when one have sex with another lady, when one is already married or attached?

I'm not a person who pushes moral standards on others, nor do I judge people for the right and wrongs, because we all have a choice to do that thing.

[Spikerman]

it's just sex ? plain and simple ?

[DemonicSS]

TS, I dun think anyone will feel guilty in the case you mentioned. Why should the guy feel guilty? It should be the girl feeling guilt instead because the person cheating is her and not the bros

[tnuc]

u mean when guys cheat how do we handle the guilt?

no guilt bro

[wolverman]

TS i wonder whether your (attached) partner felt the same way as u. Guilt?

[Hardstick15by5]

if your lust for that woman is there... and the woman wants it too...

don't think so much.. life is short bro..

[MaoSanWang]

Chonging is a calling.
If you are feeling the guilt. then it is not your time yet.

May the Force be with you.

Originally Posted by kennyX

For fellow SBF pals here, how do you manage the "guilt" when one have sex with another lady, when one is already married or attached?

I'm not a person who pushes moral standards on others, nor do I judge people for the right and wrongs, because we all have a choice to do that thing.

[4getful]

A woman once told me, she can have sex with other men but her heart is always with me. N she says sex n love is two different things. If you have sex with other ppl before you met the current partner, aint it all the same. If you feel guilt after you attached, why aint you feel guilty if you have sex with other before you met her.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by kennyX

For fellow SBF pals here, how do you manage the "guilt" when one have sex with another lady, when one is already married or attached?

I'm not a person who pushes moral standards on others, nor do I judge people for the right and wrongs, because we all have a choice to do that thing.

Veteran & still asking newbie question?

Don't do it & you'll be at peace but the inner desire strays. Welcome to sinfuland

[Raddy69]

TS if you have a tendency to feel guilty after having sex outside , a very simple solution for you "Don't do it " .

[bridge]

What's there to handle?
Something I saw on wechat today...
中年以后，
过一天，少一天；
过一天，乐一天；
过一天，赚一天。

[Optimus_Prime]

Bro, if u still have that guilty feeling, than your soul is still not corrupted. Pls quickly delete your sammyboy account and stop punting and lead a normal life. This is a normal life that most of us cheongsters can no longer go back to ever again, so you should turn back while u still feel guilty.

Leave all the sex to the rest of us condemned souls here. There is no help for us already.

[alanthedevil]

Originally Posted by kennyX

For fellow SBF pals here, how do you manage the "guilt" when one have sex with another lady, when one is already married or attached?

I'm not a person who pushes moral standards on others, nor do I judge people for the right and wrongs, because we all have a choice to do that thing.

it depends on individual values. some people believed that as long as their heart is still with the wife, they could live with having physical contact with other females. this is just one of the many examples.

[erikvondarkmoor]

The first time I ever did it, I couldn't "finish the job", if you know what I mean. Too much guilt, maybe. And after the first time, I beat myself up constantly...not literally of course, but mentally. Kept telling myself I was the worst person in the world...a beast...a soulless being. I just couldn't deal with what I had done.

I got better at dealing with the guilt as time went on but for me, I don't think the guilt will ever go away. Sure, I feel more numb these days about doing it, but the guilt is still there. I feel it. Almost like it's behind me, staring over my shoulder. It never goes away. I've just learned to ignore it. But sometimes it taps me on the shoulder and I'm forced to deal with it. How? By rationalising why I did what I did.

I put it this way: humans need food to survive. Without food, humans suffer, and after a long enough time, eventually die. If there isn't any food at home for me to eat, then I obviously have to go out to buy my food. What else can I do?

So to the above paragraph, just replace the word 'food' with 'sex'.

[retsmas]

Originally Posted by kennyX

For fellow SBF pals here, how do you manage the "guilt" when one have sex with another lady, when one is already married or attached?

I'm not a person who pushes moral standards on others, nor do I judge people for the right and wrongs, because we all have a choice to do that thing.

Well, if u hv the guilty feeling means u feel this is a 'crime' ... maybe due to ur believe or religion. If thats the case, repent and stop committing this crime. But trust me, a leopard will nvr change its skin. Ie u will do it again.