Fucked Up situation

[energybost]

Just wondering if any bros or sis have been in the same situation as the one I am facing right now.

My ex and I broke up a few months back, and it wasn't something that ended well(Close to 3 years). No matter, I still tried to chase her back but she did not wanted it initially. So then, to me, the only option was to move on. However, a few weeks back, we got close together and started having sex again(It just happened, dont really know how to elaborate on it either). So I took it as a hint that she wanted to patch, and hesitated about it cus I was afraid of the commitment. And now I've hesitated too long and it seems like she has already fallen for my good friend who started chasing her recently as well. Just FYI, my good friend is the sweet talker kind and pretty much a player, whereas I am quite quiet and serious in a relationship.

I asked her to patch up, and she said no directly because she was tired of waiting and pretty sure we wont last again. Now I am regretting every night that I did not take that step earlier... I feel so fucked up right now...

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by energybost

I asked her to patch up, and she said no directly because she was tired of waiting and pretty sure we wont last again.

U've got your answer... Just move on bah.

[theHerring]

Just move on bro..there are def better ladies out there for you..and I'm certain you being serious in a r/s will draw many sweet ladies to you.

[metamorphosis76]

Originally Posted by energybost

Just wondering if any bros or sis have been in the same situation as the one I am facing right now.

My ex and I broke up a few months back, and it wasn't something that ended well(Close to 3 years). No matter, I still tried to chase her back but she did not wanted it initially. So then, to me, the only option was to move on. However, a few weeks back, we got close together and started having sex again(It just happened, dont really know how to elaborate on it either). So I took it as a hint that she wanted to patch, and hesitated about it cus I was afraid of the commitment. And now I've hesitated too long and it seems like she has already fallen for my good friend who started chasing her recently as well. Just FYI, my good friend is the sweet talker kind and pretty much a player, whereas I am quite quiet and serious in a relationship.

I asked her to patch up, and she said no directly because she was tired of waiting and pretty sure we wont last again. Now I am regretting every night that I did not take that step earlier... I feel so fucked up right now...

I dun know how old r u....and right you in a mess now.... As what the other bro said, move on...and of coz easier said than done....take time to heal that broken heart.... Ai zai lah bro!

[energybost]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

U've got your answer... Just move on bah.

Want to but not easy to just do it. Maybe its just fate ba

Originally Posted by metamorphosis76

I dun know how old r u....and right you in a mess now.... As what the other bro said, move on...and of coz easier said than done....take time to heal that broken heart.... Ai zai lah bro!

Not very old This time round dk how long it will take to heal my broken heart

[GrieGzEters]

Originally Posted by energybost

Just wondering if any bros or sis have been in the same situation as the one I am facing right now.

My ex and I broke up a few months back, and it wasn't something that ended well(Close to 3 years). No matter, I still tried to chase her back but she did not wanted it initially. So then, to me, the only option was to move on. However, a few weeks back, we got close together and started having sex again(It just happened, dont really know how to elaborate on it either). So I took it as a hint that she wanted to patch, and hesitated about it cus I was afraid of the commitment. And now I've hesitated too long and it seems like she has already fallen for my good friend who started chasing her recently as well. Just FYI, my good friend is the sweet talker kind and pretty much a player, whereas I am quite quiet and serious in a relationship.

I asked her to patch up, and she said no directly because she was tired of waiting and pretty sure we wont last again. Now I am regretting every night that I did not take that step earlier... I feel so fucked up right now...

Just move on then. You can't really fault her for rejecting u cos u make her wait for too long. Maybe after she got together with your friend, she will know u are the best after all and come crawling back to u.

[energybost]

Originally Posted by GrieGzEters

Just move on then. You can't really fault her for rejecting u cos u make her wait for too long. Maybe after she got together with your friend, she will know u are the best after all and come crawling back to u.

I understand that. Here's where its fucked up, I want her to be happy with the decision she has made. I would rather she last long with my friend than crawl back to me.

[fictionman]

Like the bros hv said...move on...The last time u 2 had sex mayb she was horny at tt time & needed a bonk...

[pearlnjewel]

trust the bros, move on. I'm sure you will regret first if you patch up with your ex. Many other girls out there

[waaaaaa]

I guess you shd just fucked the brain out of her and move on. shes back and having sex with you but interested in your good friend. if your gf is those who are easily sweet talked.can you imagine how many sweet talker, better and more eligible than your friend shes going to meet out there?

[energybost]

Originally Posted by fictionman

Like the bros hv said...move on...The last time u 2 had sex mayb she was horny at tt time & needed a bonk...

Originally Posted by pearlnjewel

trust the bros, move on. I'm sure you will regret first if you patch up with your ex. Many other girls out there

I guess I should ba, even my friends are saying the same things. But its not easy to just forget about a r/s that lasted that long

Originally Posted by waaaaaa

I guess you shd just fucked the brain out of her and move on. shes back and having sex with you but interested in your good friend. if your gf is those who are easily sweet talked.can you imagine how many sweet talker, better and more eligible than your friend shes going to meet out there?

I am not sure if I did, kinda a newbie at sex Hais I guess I didn't see her true colors properly back then..

[siri]

Just move on..don't look back. Time will heal. do things that make you happy. she's not the only girl and she's not into you anymore.

[energybost]

Originally Posted by siri

Just move on..don't look back. Time will heal. do things that make you happy. she's not the only girl and she's not into you anymore.

Since Siri said so, I should listen hor?

Haha maybe time will heal everything ba...

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by energybost

Since Siri said so, I should listen hor?

Haha maybe time will heal everything ba...

NB...
Siri say u listen...
All the bros say you don't listen...

[SnowLeopards]

Ladyboy, you weren't serious enough.

Probably you should log in using your 20 pointer.

Pierre.