Been single for more than 10 years

[jnudes]

Hi bros and sis,

This year I am 35 years old. I have been single since June 2002 until today. After the breakup did tried several attempts to court gals but unsuccessful. Either one of us did not like each other or we both have high demand. In summary no love destiny for us.

To release the stress of broken heart I also tried cheonging at Thailand, watch porn and have almost everyday PCC at home. I also visit spas, MPs and freelancers for their sex service, about few times in a year.

The older I get I just feel marriage is starting to become obsolete as more and more couples are getting divorce. I got to know two ex-classmates (one male & female) already divorced. This for me influenced me in certain ways and make me look more on negative side on marriage.

Actually I am doing fine in my everyday life. Working and sleeping alone. And in my free time I also go walking at park alone. Not really expecting or chasing anyone. Marriage is unthinkable for me now. I just feel single life give me more freedom and independent life that I truly enjoyed.

The purpose of this post is not to find new gf thru SBF or gain sympathies from members here. I just want to know humble opinions from single bros and sis on how they cope with their everyday single life.

Thanks for reading this and sharing your opinion.

[Summerhillt]

Bro don't worry man. I mean if this is your perspective on life , why not ? Its your life you live only once.. i think that not setting up a family is nothing wrong at all with the absurd living cost of sg.. raising a family is fucking hard..

You live alone.. you can do anything you want.. no commitments.

I rather you take care of your parents really well thats all which matters.

Go thailand or vietnam once in a while and go wild there is really more shiok ma

[stillgottheblue]

You don't have to be married to feel complete. You don't need to have kids to feel complete.

There are always advantages and disadvantages in both situation.

[xiaoxiaosot]

i got a feeling i will be same as you

[joncheong]

Perhaps you might try looking at foreign girls/ladies working in singapore (i meant those in decent lines or professionals) ...their attitudes are better than some of our local ladies...they tend to know how to care for their men....they won't be always pursuing their career and trying to make more money for their branded bags.....from my experiece

anyway don't marry if you dun want to ...it's your choice, not being married means you have the freedom to do whatever you want and don't need to report to anyone what you wanna do....you can have lots of fbs...you can visit the hottest and latest wl at geylang..

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by Summerhillt

Bro don't worry man. I mean if this is your perspective on life , why not ? Its your life you live only once.. i think that not setting up a family is nothing wrong at all with the absurd living cost of sg.. raising a family is fucking hard..

You live alone.. you can do anything you want.. no commitments.

I rather you take care of your parents really well thats all which matters.

Go thailand or vietnam once in a while and go wild there is really more shiok ma

That's right bro. I am a person who love my freedom more than anything else.

I am planning to go Thailand again either this year or next year.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by joncheong

Perhaps you might try looking at foreign girls/ladies working in singapore (i meant those in decent lines or professionals) ...their attitudes are better than some of our local ladies...they tend to know how to care for their men....they won't be always pursuing their career and trying to make more money for their branded bags.....from my experiece

anyway don't marry if you dun want to ...it's your choice, not being married means you have the freedom to do whatever you want and don't need to report to anyone what you wanna do....you can have lots of fbs...you can visit the hottest and latest wl at geylang..

I remember when I was with my ex last time she was possessive with me. She would call me and ask where I was, what I was doing, etc. Somehow I felt uncomfortable about that. In the end we just broken up as it was long distance relationship somemore. As for the local girl I just could not understand their materialistic needs; they always want more and more, knowing that not all local guys are rich and can earn big money.

[organiser]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Hi bros and sis,

This year I am 35 years old. I have been single since June 2002 until today. After the breakup did tried several attempts to court gals but unsuccessful. Either one of us did not like each other or we both have high demand. In summary no love destiny for us.

To release the stress of broken heart I also tried cheonging at Thailand, watch porn and have almost everyday PCC at home. I also visit spas, MPs and freelancers for their sex service, about few times in a year.

The older I get I just feel marriage is starting to become obsolete as more and more couples are getting divorce. I got to know two ex-classmates (one male & female) already divorced. This for me influenced me in certain ways and make me look more on negative side on marriage.

Actually I am doing fine in my everyday life. Working and sleeping alone. And in my free time I also go walking at park alone. Not really expecting or chasing anyone. Marriage is unthinkable for me now. I just feel single life give me more freedom and independent life that I truly enjoyed.

The purpose of this post is not to find new gf thru SBF or gain sympathies from members here. I just want to know humble opinions from single bros and sis on how they cope with their everyday single life.

Thanks for reading this and sharing your opinion.

Bro same here. I have never look into marriage ever since my previous break up. This bgr thingy seems too far away from me. I aint ugly or whatsoever but i have got a trusting issue that tends to prevent me from falling in love so deeply for any lady out there. Ladies did try to talk to me and whatsoever but i just didnt reciprocate. Ladies i like tend to be a temporary affection which will subside after a week. Oh well my pro phat is that i will be single forever.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by organiser

Bro same here. I have never look into marriage ever since my previous break up. This bgr thingy seems too far away from me. I aint ugly or whatsoever but i have got a trusting issue that tends to prevent me from falling in love so deeply for any lady out there. Ladies did try to talk to me and whatsoever but i just didnt reciprocate. Ladies i like tend to be a temporary affection which will subside after a week. Oh well my pro phat is that i will be single forever.

I am a person who has interest with things like palm reading. According to my palm, after I get married I will get involved with extra-marital affair which is big turn-off and disaster for every happily married couple. The question now is whether you wan to believe this thing or not. I choose to believe it as it could actually tell me my future life through the lines on my palm. I admit I also cheong for the purpose of unloading stress and to get some short term companionship since I am still single.

[stillgottheblue]

Very interesting, when I was young, I was told my life will always have two women and the first woman will be the one that will always love me and take care of me more than the second woman.

This turn out to be true but I do not believe then and I do not believe it now. To me, it's more of a character flaw on my part.

Originally Posted by jnudes

I am a person who has interest with things like palm reading. According to my palm, after I get married I will get involved with extra-marital affair which is big turn-off and disaster for every happily married couple. The question now is whether you wan to believe this thing or not. I choose to believe it as it could actually tell me my future life through the lines on my palm. I admit I also cheong for the purpose of unloading stress and to get some short term companionship since I am still single.

[arsenal_84]

same here, since i started on the dark side in 2009, have not look back since.
is nice to know some thai fls who whatsapp me once a while with some sexy pictures and make me horny...

also like to take a nice long walk near the seaside whenever i'm stressed, enjoy some sea breeze.

my last rs in 2001, back then my ex couldn't really understand why i need some "alone" time away from her.

being in a rs doesn't mean that couples have to stick to each other most of the time, even guys also need some free time on their own to pursuit their hobbies.
cycling and photography are stuff that can be pretty much done alone.

[kallisan]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

Very interesting, when I was young, I was told my life will always have two women and the first woman will be the one that will always love me and take care of me more than the second woman.

This turn out to be true but I do not believe then and I do not believe it now. To me, it's more of a character flaw on my part.

Of course it is true. The 1st woman will always be your mother and who can love you more than her?

[stillgottheblue]

Haha, the context is not on motherly love and btw she passed on for many years.

Originally Posted by kallisan

Of course it is true. The 1st woman will always be your mother and who can love you more than he
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[spade168]

since you going thailand, why not go there find some girl to get married??

[tehO]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Hi bros and sis,

This year I am 35 years old. I have been single since June 2002 until today. After the breakup did tried several attempts to court gals but unsuccessful. Either one of us did not like each other or we both have high demand. In summary no love destiny for us.

To release the stress of broken heart I also tried cheonging at Thailand, watch porn and have almost everyday PCC at home. I also visit spas, MPs and freelancers for their sex service, about few times in a year.

The older I get I just feel marriage is starting to become obsolete as more and more couples are getting divorce. I got to know two ex-classmates (one male & female) already divorced. This for me influenced me in certain ways and make me look more on negative side on marriage.

Actually I am doing fine in my everyday life. Working and sleeping alone. And in my free time I also go walking at park alone. Not really expecting or chasing anyone. Marriage is unthinkable for me now. I just feel single life give me more freedom and independent life that I truly enjoyed.

The purpose of this post is not to find new gf thru SBF or gain sympathies from members here. I just want to know humble opinions from single bros and sis on how they cope with their everyday single life.

Thanks for reading this and sharing your opinion.

I am loving the way you are of coming clean and being honest in a sincere post. Can i earn a date from you? Btw, back to reaility when your right one come you will no longer feel this way anymore. May your sincere confession get you the right fated one soon. God bless.