'Superman' expectations of Singapore men

MultiOrgasGuy · #1 17-03-2012, 08:00 AM

There is an article in The Straits Times on 16 Mar 2012 on page C10 (Home section) with the title " 'Superman' expectations of Singapore men".

If I may summarise... according to the article, Singaporean men expected to last 20-30 mins in bed while women expected 10-15mins. And the article said that the actual average surveyed is 4-5mins for Singapore couples.

Also, up to 45% of Singapore couples expected to have sex 2-3 times a week while research showed 1.5 times a week is the norm.

I thought it would be interesting to highlight these data here for discussion

comics00 · #2 17-03-2012, 08:41 AM

Bro, it's age dependant.28
15~28yo was almost no limit for me. I was a horny bastard bonking almost every single day, multiple time a day. Sessions last 5~60min depending.
28~35yo I begin to appreciate women in other ways. Bonking isn't my only agenda when I date them. 3~5days weekly 1~4 time lasting 15~30min
From 36yo sex become a bonus when I have the urge 1~3 days a week 1~2 time lasting ~15min.

bunnyrabbit · #3 17-03-2012, 10:29 AM

Its more of a pleasuring your partner and yourself. Why do we need to bother how much time is required of us?

As long as you and your partner is satisfied it doesn't matter...

syt_punisher · #4 17-03-2012, 01:36 PM

I see many stories on sbf many brothers claiming that they switch many positions and even pumping for 10 mins and more.
Cannot be so jialat lah, i think we can last for at least 10mins?

nuclearkid · #5 17-03-2012, 04:39 PM

Bro comics00 made a good point in that when we guys are into our 30s, there are some that appreciate women in a different way. The connection on a cerebral level is a strong aphrodisiac. And if the ladies themselves are around the same age, they respond better due to their matured sexuality.

As for going the distance, it really depends on how you pace yourself. You slow down when it gets sensitive, vary your movement and change into one that does not drive you over the edge. For example, if thrusting brings you slowly to a climax, you do grinding instead so that you do not blow-off? Know what sort of movement keeps you within the safe zone and with some control, 30 minutes shouldn't be an issue?

asdfghjkl · #6 17-03-2012, 09:15 PM

maybe they have interviewed all virgins..

ComplainKing · #7 17-03-2012, 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by MultiOrgasGuy

There is an article in The Straits Times on 16 Mar 2012 on page C10 (Home section) with the title " 'Superman' expectations of Singapore men".

If I may summarise... according to the article, Singaporean men expected to last 20-30 mins in bed while women expected 10-15mins. And the article said that the actual average surveyed is 4-5mins for Singapore couples.

I think the survey is flawed . They never include our famous bros REG and HCKing in their survey.

bonkster · #8 17-03-2012, 09:54 PM

Isn't lasting 4-5 mins a bliss? It means the guy was probably very turned on when doing it n chop chop got to the song song part.

I'm sure bros here would have bonked gals/FLs/WLs who didn't turn u on enough n ended up pumping n pumping but couldn't cum.

In the end u may last for 20-30 mins with the FL/WL KPKBing u to hurry up n u get so irritated, u just PCC 1 off on her.

So unless u were not satisfied, what's wrong with needing a shorter time to be satisfied?

It just means u r more efficient than others or perhaps your bonk is hotter than others.

If a babe like Viann Zhang lets me have my way with her. 4-5 mins would be a mighty feat to achieve

sex crusader · #9 17-03-2012, 10:03 PM

Seriously why would one wanna bonk so long time huh? not tired huh? My only problem is after drinking alcohol, i can bonk for at least 30 mins! I think the issue is that the alcohol makes our didi not so sensitive but the knee cap and waist damn farking sore after that! But i dont get any enjoyment out of this . probably my gal satisfied more ba!

HCKing · #10 17-03-2012, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by sex crusader

Seriously why would one wanna bonk so long time huh? not tired huh? My only problem is after drinking alcohol, i can bonk for at least 30 mins! I think the issue is that the alcohol makes our didi not so sensitive but the knee cap and waist damn farking sore after that! But i dont get any enjoyment out of this . probably my gal satisfied more ba!

think it depends alot on individual health condition, some cum too fast while some gt problem cumming even though they did not expect to bonk very long.

Vectra · #11 18-03-2012, 12:35 AM

If one only doing the love making act like robot, it will not last long lah...

Many year back there was a thread on make the act long longer by "training" the muscles just below the dick. Maybe those buggers that wrote the report should be more creative.

ave_joe99 · #12 18-03-2012, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by bonkster

If a babe like Viann Zhang lets me have my way with her. 4-5 mins would be a mighty feat to achieve

Wow, if one like her, I think you're not the only one who would chop chop get the first shot off pronto, bro then if possible slowly prolong the pleasure of next shots, making her high along the way.

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Originally Posted by Vectra

If one only doing the love making act like robot, it will not last long lah...

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Originally Posted by nuclearkid

As for going the distance, it really depends on how you pace yourself.

Wonder if they interviewed only full-time NS man or something? you know la, how it is back then.

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Originally Posted by comics00

Bro, it's age dependant.

Very true. last time in 20s can pump the whole day till GF also say her legs nua due to too high already. Nowadays in 30s, can marikita multiple times in one sexssion is quite good already!

Frederick · #13 18-03-2012, 10:56 PM

How many times and how long is dependent on who the other party is. If it's one that makes you happy you can usually go the distance. But if the other party is one that always chide you and find fault with you would you have the mood to do it with her?

MultiOrgasGuy · #14 19-03-2012, 12:34 AM

Well i agree that it may be age-dependent, and also depend on partner compatibility. This seems to hild true for many people.

I noted that how many minutes of sex, or what i call "sex stamina" depends more on the skills and endurance of the guy, since once the guy loses control and ejaculates, that usually spells the end of the sex session.

How many times a couple has sex in one week, or what i termed as "sex frequency" depends on the sex appetite of both partners, since it takes two to tango.

However as one ages on, the sex frequency need not be drastically reduced. If one maintains his health and sexual appetite, and improves his sexual skills, then sex stamina and sex frequency can be maintained.