What is she thinking?

[Beem]

I know one china girl for a year
But due to some reasons she is not willing to come Singapore to be with me
But she still keep in contact at least once a week. That's about 6 month since I last saw her.
Is there any future in this relationship?

[big wood]

bro the answer is a big NO

[flcult]

Beem, two words for u: WAKE UP.

[owl888]

Question is for the past 1 year is the relationship intimate

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Beem

I know one china girl for a year
But due to some reasons she is not willing to come Singapore to be with me
But she still keep in contact at least once a week.

There are already far too many foreigners in Singapore. The whole damned Island is worse than a battery hen farm. Why on earth do you want to import yet one more??? Are you nuts?

[alan0338]

if she dun want to come to singapore, then u can move over ma

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by alan0338

if she dun want to come to singapore, then u can move over ma

My sentiment exactly.

If she cannot come over, I suggest you fly over to meet her there.

Like bro Alan has said, if you really like her, then get married and settle down in China.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by Beem

Is there any future in this relationship?

Bro Beem,

跨国恋 or 异地恋 si bo ???

Sorry but ..... NO future

[sgjoey]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

There are already far too many foreigners in Singapore. The whole damned Island is worse than a battery hen farm. Why on earth do you want to import yet one more??? Are you nuts?

That is hardly rational. The island may be full of locals, but what's good about locals if one has no relationship with them?

On the other hand, the person far away could be a foreigner, but because of the relationship already forged, she is no stranger.

Hence it makes total sense for the ts to consider whether there is any future in cultivating such a relationship.

[Beem]

Originally Posted by sgjoey

That is hardly rational. The island may be full of locals, but what's good about locals if one has no relationship with them?

On the other hand, the person far away could be a foreigner, but because of the relationship already forged, she is no stranger.

Hence it makes total sense for the ts to consider whether there is any future in cultivating such a relationship.

My sentiments exactly
...prob of going over is how to get a decent job?
Actually I dun mind given the pressure cooker situation here.

[southernwind]

Pardon for my frankness , but I think u shd dump her and find 1 gal in Sillypore.

[etct88]

Originally Posted by Beem

My sentiments exactly
...prob of going over is how to get a decent job?
Actually I dun mind given the pressure cooker situation here.

go, before you get burnt (regret) being here..... I wish I had that second chance... I would be in Vietnam........ Boss also not in this pressure cooker....

[goodpartner]

Bros, you all never give the correct answer lah, the question is not in the content but the subject title; why only address the question in the content?

Originally Posted by Beem

I know one china girl for a year
But due to some reasons she is not willing to come Singapore to be with me
But she still keep in contact at least once a week. That's about 6 month since I last saw her.
Is there any future in this relationship?

She is thinking whether there is any future in this relationship


Is she a WL?

[Beem]

She in frontdesk

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by sgjoey

On the other hand, the person far away could be a foreigner, but because of the relationship already forged, she is no stranger.
.

She may not be a stranger to the thread starter but she's from a different gene pool. If they get together and have kids, it'll will spell the eventual downfall of the country.