over-friendly gal...........

waiwaiz · #1 02-09-2011, 02:34 AM

have u all come across over friendly gals.....is it gd? or bad?

nimbus · #2 02-09-2011, 02:47 AM

havent had the privilege to have one. but im quite sure most sg guys will be quite shy?

LoveForTuaNehBu · #3 02-09-2011, 04:09 AM

Well used to have =p .. if she's not bad (if she matches your criteria) .. why not just welcome her with open "rod" .. hmm i mean arms ^^?

naturegreen · #4 02-09-2011, 08:07 AM

Well I did, and well.. the rest is history.

dianxin · #5 02-09-2011, 09:18 AM

if they are pretty as well... u might fell for them quite easily.....

waiwaiz · #6 02-09-2011, 09:49 AM

well for married man.....will u guys worry? easily can get but might be hard to get rid.

lalehlor · #7 02-09-2011, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by waiwaiz

well for married man.....will u guys worry? easily can get but might be hard to get rid.

agreed....sometimes gals be over friendly can get u into trouble..so must know hw to handle them

sean69 · #8 02-09-2011, 11:03 AM

yeah.. came across quite a few over friendly girls.. but they are trying to sell insurances or other investment products..

8387 · #9 02-09-2011, 11:15 AM

they are usually "over-friendly" because they want you to buy something. so, it depends on what they are selling. If it's something that I want anyway, then I play hard-to-get. Otherwise, the best way to fight temptation is to avoid it. :-) Unless, of course, if you want to give in to temptation.

alan0338 · #10 02-09-2011, 12:49 PM

TS so heng ...

waiwaiz · #11 02-09-2011, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by alan0338

TS so heng ...

actually not so heng.........i remember theres once such cases happened to me. I was young n single then, of coz i go for it. She make things very easy for u. leaving u lots of opening. Most of time shes the one who start calling u.........over friendly. of coz later its all nightmare.........

manitou · #12 02-09-2011, 04:55 PM

Very bad! I remember way back when I was a student in England. My next door neighbour of the hostel I was staying was a young and extremely friendly French girl. She will be wearing some sheer lingerie each time she knocked only door. And whenever it happens my entire day is ruin. Because I can't concentrate on my books.

Toyota Honda · #13 02-09-2011, 05:13 PM

TS, can you be more specific? over friendly as in what?

My take is that so long as we guys are stable (as in emotionally) and not feeling over the top whenever a girl warms up to you, there will be a good run for it. Many girls like to play the feelings of guys cos they know they can just do so easily. And most likel;y, they only want things that they want and ot give you what you want.

Just be practiacal, unless she likes you, she won't do such things and these are the sincere ones. And majority f the girls are just doing to get what they want other than you. Unless you fall into the category of very rich, very powerful, very starry like Jay chou.

waiwaiz · #14 02-09-2011, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

TS, can you be more specific? over friendly as in what?

over friendly in a sense like she chasing u ..i had bad experience wif such case.....So juz wanna share.....

Megafan1981 · #15 03-09-2011, 12:41 PM

Of course.

I was very close to one of them (office colleague) chatted over bgr, her problems with bf, family, etc and clicked very well. Up to the point where we were talking shoulder to shoulder. Even held her in her waist before. Bad thing is I fell in love with her and expressed my feelings to her. She became "literally crazy" and went to tell her gossip monger group and cut off contact with me cuz she can't accept me expressing my feelings for her as she still had a bf that time.

Oh well, then my close friends told me she's close to few other male colleagues who are married, and to other guys as well. Even hugged one of them in office and saw by other ppl. Oh well, I can only conclude she likes guys to care about her but don't want commitment.