She can't CUM anymore !

[cancum]

There isn't much sex with my OC 3 to 4 years back. We use to have it once a week till now, only once or max two time a month.
She's not in favour with sex at all now but will not deny any if i ask for. She would then still wear some kinky underdies n bra for me thou.

Recently, she cannot even reach climate....

Usually, she would finger her clit while i thrust her in her favourite " T " position till she cums and then she'll service me in return till i shoot. She would also moans aloud, bites or scratchs like those AV actress.

Not anymore, regardless of how much of foreplay, licking, fingering...... she just can't cum anymore!

I did discuss/talk with her n try to find out the reason behind but she herself can't find the answer as well. She's on pills. Btw, i'm 48 n she is 43. Is those the pills playing tricks causing homone changes? I wonder !

I think i gonna miss out those good old days! SIGH

[fazer6s]

Bro try to stop the pills n see wat happens or maybe some hormonal changes

[Sirrus]

maybe she feeling stress lar...make her in a happy mode so she can 4get everything. go on a long holiday

[whitegals]

Bro, stop the pills and try going down on her. Be gentle, keep your fingers away, use only your lips and your tongue, before long she will start getting those sensations again....

[owl888]

consult a doctor?

[NeedSomeLove]

43 too early for menopause... Stop the pills...

[waiwaiz]

change some pattern while doing bro.....or use toys. gd 6

[bigcockboy]

maybe she need 3p ? can i help ?

[wolf2305]

she reaches her 更年期？ that might be the problem

[ThaiBeautiful]

Originally Posted by wolf2305

she reaches her 更年期？ that might be the problem

Maybe? Go find a doctor for consultation. It might not b as bad as u think.

[Torch_Man]

Originally Posted by cancum

There isn't much sex with my OC 3 to 4 years back. We use to have it once a week till now, only once or max two time a month.
She's not in favour with sex at all now but will not deny any if i ask for. She would then still wear some kinky underdies n bra for me thou.

Recently, she cannot even reach climate....

Usually, she would finger her clit while i thrust her in her favourite " T " position till she cums and then she'll service me in return till i shoot. She would also moans aloud, bites or scratchs like those AV actress.

Not anymore, regardless of how much of foreplay, licking, fingering...... she just can't cum anymore!

I did discuss/talk with her n try to find out the reason behind but she herself can't find the answer as well. She's on pills. Btw, i'm 48 n she is 43. Is those the pills playing tricks causing homone changes? I wonder !

I think i gonna miss out those good old days! SIGH

it seems like the root of the problem started some time ago.

the usual contributing factors:
- STRESS (VERY HIGHLY LIKELY to be the PROBLEM)
- MOOD (link from STRESS)
- ATTENTION (link from MOOD)
- SPARKS (perhaps a candle light dinner, start from non-sexual activities first)
- LOVING CARE (are there lacking between each other????)
- PILL (BEST CONSULTED BY MEDICAL PERSONNEL)
- MANY MORE FACTORS


my advice:
do continue to shower your lifetime partner with caring, loving, concern, attentiveness, time (since marriage is a lifelong commitment, communication and understanding are an ongoing process, such as growing old together with each other, walking hand-in-hand during old age) though physical sex is a need, mental sex is equally important, such as respect, sincere, care and the list goes on......
accompany each other more frequently, share more ideas, be gentle, be sensitive towards each other's feelings.......

never jump to conclusion too quick, be patience and understanding always.....


jz sharin

[janice201149]

Here are 5 tricks to make your girl orgasm:

1. O is for olfaction

Your best bet is musky cologne or baby powder. Yes, baby powder! Musky scents are closely associated with testosterone, while baby powder activates her “scent print,” making her think of babies and procreation. Note that of the five senses, smell rents the same space as sex and memory centers in the brain. If you want to create a lasting impression, try to trigger her sense of smell with the scent of arousal and you’re good to go.

2. Sock it up!

Get science on your side by following the advice of Dutch researchers from the University of Groningen. According to them, warm feet increase a woman’s chances of reaching orgasm by about 30 percent. So the next time she tries to warm up her cold feet between your legs, suck it up. Or if you’re a pussy against her icy toesies, consider dancing in the sheets but let her keep her socks on. Warm tootsies equal O-some sex!

3. Learn her time zones.

You’re a hopeless, hopeless man if you need a map to find her clit. So let’s pretend you already know your woman’s sweetest spot and just need a little nudge to explore the whole area. Basically, you’ll have to work on the 10 and 2 o’ clock marks on her clitoral head to make her lose her mind. Don’t stop until she’s screaming your name in ecstasy.

4. Send chills down her spine.

But not just on any part of her spine, make sure you’re touching or kissing the right side. This is called appealing to the left side of her brain – the logical part so you can “talk” her into doing anything you want. Keep it subtle and simple though. A little goes a long way compared to roughing her up.

5. Break out the male enhancement supplement.

Adding a few inches to your manhood will be enough to get her all excited and heated up. Knowing that your thick and long penis is going to make her writhe in pleasure all night long will give her that push needed to elevate her orgasm to multiple climaxes. There are many penis enhancement products in the market today. It’s up to you to find an all natural penis enlarger that works for you and your partner.

A combo of male enhancement products and these amazing tips will give her rocking orgasms and leave her wanting more.

[keepbill]

try use Germany Sex Drops for girl friend

[freezetheDB]

could be psychological stress or she feel unattractive.

try to bring back the romance...
make her feel loved again and not just for sex.

Spice up life a little. The sex part will slowly reflect it

[blohsg]

Janice : nice summary of possibilities to explore ... looks like proven methods that has been tried and tested ... are you a sex therapist ?

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