Oops! I've got my PRC gf pregnant while she's still having work permit..

69 pussy seeker · #1 23-10-2010, 10:40 PM

How? Is there any where she can go to confirm this pregnant? Will her WP be revoke due to this? Will Doc report her? Or can she go for abortion?

Where and which doc/clinic? How much? Thanks. A million Thanks! Urgent!

Owen35 · #2 23-10-2010, 10:47 PM

you can marry her. no problem.

69 pussy seeker · #3 23-10-2010, 10:52 PM

Yes, I will eventually, but now I'm still legally married.. Divorce proceeding just heard over court yesterday.. Sigh.. I dun mind and always ask her to use rubber but she dislike that feel.. My fault.. too careless..

sky_liner2 · #4 23-10-2010, 10:55 PM

Congrats bro, I think best is to send her back to China and have baby first, dun abort lah, definitely bad karma for both of you.

wishfulking · #5 23-10-2010, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by 69 pussy seeker

Yes, I will eventually, but now I'm still legally married.. Divorce proceeding just heard over court yesterday.. Sigh.. I dun mind and always ask her to use rubber but she dislike that feel.. My fault.. too careless..

Now your careless action will caused someone to cry. If you intend to marry her, then you need to do it fast. 10 months is not long time ahead. Good luck and congrats

johnhandsome · #6 23-10-2010, 11:21 PM

if really pregnant.. dont harm the baby as the baby is innocent. do whatever you can to give the best to your gf..marry her or ask her to move in with you.. anything you can do to assure her of your sincerity will comfort her

jacky43 · #7 25-10-2010, 03:43 PM

It is no good! What's done cannot be undone, shared an old friend experience more than 10yrs ago. No! He was single that time, PRC GF under WP S Pass shits! I never ask not mine biz.

Both ROM, co sure found out and sacked her, she returned hometown, 3mths later flew back to confirmed their marriage. She was allreally 5 mths i think, so she hid her stomach and go up airplane. I think expecting woman cannot travel via airplane, sorry that was what he told me.

After getting PR fast fw to 2010, 2childrens allreally thing is both decided to work at PRC. Children at in laws house, last heard they operate child care biz there. Good luck to them.

It works for mine friend and his OC, rest i guess try harder. So long they follow laws and do what authority told them to do so. I think he ask the senators for help, the PR and citizen things. This kind of messy things, only authority can approve not the pte sectors.

ManageYou · #8 25-10-2010, 04:25 PM

I respect you for taking responsibility for your own action. Marrying her is the right decision for the baby. Hopes everything goes smooth for you!

jasper10 · #9 25-10-2010, 05:12 PM

Keep the baby bro... Btw your baby full month remember to invite me... tHANKS...

Longitude · #10 25-10-2010, 05:54 PM

Your divorce can be made final in 3 months and then there is time enough for you to marry your gf. Congrats.

gills001 · #11 25-10-2010, 08:09 PM

Bro, congrats in advance

Fault of the parents but not the child...

Do remember baby is innocent...

James PCT · #12 25-10-2010, 11:34 PM

69 pussy seeker DONT EVER DO ABORTION NEVER THINK OF IT BE A MAN DARE TO EAT DARE TO RESPONSIBLE THE CHILD ARE INNOCENT

raiders · #13 25-10-2010, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by 69 pussy seeker

How? Is there any where she can go to confirm this pregnant? Will her WP be revoke due to this? Will Doc report her? Or can she go for abortion?

Where and which doc/clinic? How much? Thanks. A million Thanks! Urgent!

Go to those in Mount E. I had a friend who was holding a student pass and she had her abortion there. No problem at all. If you want to be double sure, make a call to any clinics in Mount E and ask the staffs. They will know it better since they are handling these cases everyday. This is not the correct place to ask for help.

But I really do not encourage abortion unless totally necessary. We guys just have our 15mins of comfort while the girl has to live with the psychological scar for the rest of her life

sianjipua · #14 26-10-2010, 01:54 AM

don`t abort bro, its bad karma!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tigerprawn · #15 26-10-2010, 04:01 AM

If she is on work permit in singapore, or previously had been in singapore on work permit and you wish to marry her, you need to first seek prior approval from MOM or some relevant authority (go google check it out I am not sure if this has changed) before you marry. Otherwise, she may end up never able to get Singapore PR and will have to constantly fly in and out of Singapore on social visit pass in the future even if she is the mother of your child. This inconvenience may create problems for you. Then again, you do not have the legal capacity to get married now anyway considering your divorce proceedings are not finalised yet. Seek professional advice TS so that you can plan properly.