Is marriage and kids a good idea in Singapore?

[steinbecksg]

after considering all the pros and cons... do u think the above is a good idea in the sg context? like to hear from everyone, married and unmarried.

[Arucard]

no!! wife can get half of ur asset and custody of the children if dirvoce even if she is the one having an affair

[tomvoyeur]

Originally Posted by steinbecksg

after considering all the pros and cons... do u think the above is a good idea in the sg context? like to hear from everyone, married and unmarried.

It is ur life so u really have to decide for urself.

Truth is there is no one size fits all thing - contrary to what the sillypore govt does for sillyporeans.

[J.Bonk.003]

Originally Posted by Arucard

no!! wife can get half of ur asset and custody of the children if dirvoce even if she is the one having an affair

Is that true? Thought if woman at fault they get nothing

[k3lvin123]

Ideas regarding marriage. ask me, i'm the right person. below is what i face:

Advantage
1. Got people to carry on surname(OLD AH MA TALES)
2. Got baby to play

Disadvantage
1. $$$ alot
2. No privacy
3. No Sex

Decide up to yourself la,

[bonkster]

To each his own but 2 words come to my mind "FUCKING SHACK"!!!

[Max77]

Not oni in Singapore, it apply to every countries.

Love is probably one of the most wonderful thing ever happened to us. Don't get married also can hav kids ah. Don't get married also can buy condo stay together ah.

For those guys who r afraid to lost their gals if they don't giv in and get married, wait till u lost both ur gal and ur money AFTER married.

[freezetheDB]

no one can tell u what is good and what is bad.

we all want different things at different stages in life.

Just live life however you want. Marriage can be just a piece of paper, or it can be a peace of mind for the lady (or parents). It is how one sees it.

kids are not for me (currently). Life is weird, maybe by the time I want a kid i might not be able to get it up. Maybe when you dont want a kid, accidents happen. Life is beautiful because it is unknown. Because it is unknown, it can be full of hope.

my 2cents

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by k3lvin123

Ideas regarding marriage. ask me, i'm the right person. below is what i face:

Advantage
1. Got people to carry on surname(OLD AH MA TALES)
2. Got baby to play

Disadvantage
1. $$$ alot
2. No privacy
3. No Sex

Decide up to yourself la,

Like Bro k3lvin123's answer, put very simply in a nutshell. Short n sweet...

If u need to go in for watever reasons, by all means but do MAKE VERY SURE u choose yr partner carefully & wisely, else be prepared for rainy n stormy times ahead. There are many hidden risks in all types of relationships including the marriage r/s which are very hard to forsee at the point of signing on the dotted line as pple's attitudes & feelings towards u can change over time or worse at any time least expected....

Originally Posted by Max77

Not oni in Singapore, it apply to every countries.

Love is probably one of the most wonderful thing ever happened to us. Don't get married also can hav kids ah. Don't get married also can buy condo stay together ah.

For those guys who r afraid to lost their gals if they don't giv in and get married, wait till u lost both ur gal and ur money AFTER married.

Haha, very cutely said by Bro Max 77......Yes, love is a many splendoured thing.....but it seems like we r getting ourselves tied up when there is no need to....

[Kula]

for me i will not ... too leychey ... many sacrifices has to been made ...

[LauFoye]

I rather stay single as it is too expensive to have a family in Singapore.

[raykwok79]

Yes marriage is tough. Gals wan to get married for the sake of security, monetary security. Even the gal can make a living, under the fucking woman acts... They hv the right to share yr wealth.

Of course the so call 'modern woman' say they dun depend on man's $. when divorce, u get abt 5 digit figure or more, u dun wan? Talk cock.

Single like mi I spent wat I like, fuck whenever I need, freedom and low expenses.

[Max77]

I used to hav a ex camp mate who can't seems to cheong frequently enuff wif us. He always say he don't earn as much as we do. Later on he got married and hav kid. Ofcoz he can't afford to cheong even once. A few yrs ago his wife divorce him. On her blog she hint tat she has been licking ice creams and discribing their taste wif others thru out their marriage.After paying up for his life lesson, he bought A TT crossfire and offer to ferry us to cheong frequently.

Now the real bloody sad truth to everything. He has been saving every cents he earn to get married. He's the most matured and family planning man i reckon among us. The condo and those expensive reno and furnitures all bought by him. He has bloody high taste when we're looking for ONS @ St James-only later made known to us tat he wanna stay faithful to his gf (wife, then ex wife) and be steady to us at the same time.

He's one of those rare good guy who still believe in giving it all in a marriage. Till now, he still claim tat the reason for his marriage failure is due to his neglegent towards his wife. Ofcoz, the real reason we might never get to know...nowaday i find tat he's cheonging lesser and lesser and sense this bugger still don't learn his lesson well...

[pussylicious12345]

Originally Posted by steinbecksg

after considering all the pros and cons... do u think the above is a good idea in the sg context? like to hear from everyone, married and unmarried.

It depends on how well you choose your wife and how well you condition her thereafter....

[frivolous_ami]

Marriage... yes.... but only foreign wives. Most sg gals expectations too high.

Today you court the gal... tmr, you may discover actually some other guy already gotten ahead of you. Or she multi timing many guys.....