Relationship with someone 15 years younger?

bigcici · #1 07-02-2010, 08:50 PM

Here's my first post,

I'm married with 1 child. Knew tis gal when I taught her tuition some years ago in P5. We will call each other occassionally and chat over the phone. Thought nothing of that. She was not a looker then but now she is 23 yo and has really develop. She hinted to me a few times and I resisted not knowing what to do. I even rejected her by saying that I'm happy with my family and do not want to break it up. Now then I do feel a little itch and may wan to keep her as my mistress, should I or should I not? Problem......

JIU XING · #2 08-02-2010, 12:35 PM

ho say liao, new story!! carry on ts.. camping for ur updates!!

too_hot · #3 08-02-2010, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by bigcici

Here's my first post,

I'm married with 1 child. Knew tis gal when I taught her tuition some years ago in P5. We will call each other occassionally and chat over the phone. Thought nothing of that. She was not a looker then but now she is 23 yo and has really develop. She hinted to me a few times and I resisted not knowing what to do. I even rejected her by saying that I'm happy with my family and do not want to break it up. Now then I do feel a little itch and may wan to keep her as my mistress, should I or should I not? Problem......

Depends on wat she really wants from u. U say she hinted u. Hinted u on wad? In any case, she may not be asking u to leave ur family, maybe just wanna have a fling/sugar daddy. U buy nice things for her, bring her nice place to eat, she gives u sex, after a few months or maybe a year, call it quits....quite a standard "exchange".

Abt 10 years back i had a gal who was 12 yrs younger than me. she was just 17 but busty, long hair, pretty and horny. too good to be true. we had a good time for about 8 mths and then she was gone & i never heard from her or even bumped into her since. i guess she wanted to experience wad having an older man was like as she always complained her guy frens from school were very childish.

anyway, just to clarify, i m not encouraging u to be unfaithful to ur wife la. in fact i tink u should advise her to look for someone more suitable. cos even if u decide to just have a fling, later on when u decide u dun want her, things can get VERY messy....u mention u feel itch (and NOT that u actually like her), u can go to WL outside. no strings attached. this gal might turn out to be more than u bargained for.

goodpartner · #4 08-02-2010, 01:30 PM

Bro, since she nkow jollu well u are married with kids and still wanna initiate that kinda stuffs, it means she is horny and/or curious with such stuffs whatever...

The key point is that IF u do not take it, someone else would

Of coz...on the other hand, the nobles will tell u to take on ur teacher role to help her understand this is wrong morally and perhaps play the big bro role to guide her as a guardian, etc.

FYI, age is no big deal man. I in r/s with syts half my age and still teaching them whats is right or wrong in life

enzer0196 · #5 08-02-2010, 01:30 PM

Bro I think age doesn't matter. Bear in mind that woman muture early, at age 23 = man 29

Dunhill_11 · #6 08-02-2010, 01:50 PM

When they dump you, it's best. They won't even bothered to contact u.

see see only · #7 08-02-2010, 06:04 PM

TS

make her your FB ...

However a piece of advice ... read all the posts on FB here and deeply understand the real meaning of a FB before you proceed ...

Kindly post FR if you manage to arr....

if you dont mind

GeMiNiZzzzZzz · #8 08-02-2010, 08:57 PM

I sense the word "alimony" coming soon

Ok lah...if you wanna do it..just go for it..you only lived once..dun regret when it's gone

simple2kee · #9 08-02-2010, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by JIU XING

ho say liao, new story!! carry on ts.. camping for ur updates!!

bro, u r right. new story will be on its way

BBlick · #10 08-02-2010, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by see see only

TS

make her your FB ...

However a piece of advice ... read all the posts on FB here and deeply understand the real meaning of a FB before you proceed ...

I like the idea, age really doesn't matter but be careful abt the lust and emotions, and it can break your family if you dont handle it properly.

pterchew · #11 08-02-2010, 11:04 PM

ultimately, before you place the chips on the cards table, think again,
Does It Worth if thing goes out of hands, like kenna caught?

can you afford to loss your wife n family?

would you regret?

answer all the questions first b4 you put your dick into the hum.

bigcici · #12 08-02-2010, 11:17 PM

Thanks Bro for all your reply, was just wondering how some of u guys manage to keep both women in ur life happy. I seems to be having a big problem with that or else I would have proceed.....heehee

MACUA · #13 08-02-2010, 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by enzer0196

Bro I think age doesn't matter. Bear in mind that woman muture early, at age 23 = man 29

Very truth, woman mature earlier than man.

etct88 · #14 09-02-2010, 05:25 PM

Do you believe cat don't eat fish?

fairlady12 · #15 09-02-2010, 08:00 PM

sounds so similar to my situation but from a lady's perspective.. I am around her age, and he is 15 years older. With 2 kids. Sad thing is, it lasted only less than a month. I cannot believe he rejected free sex (we did it only once or twice and he gave me the feeling that he wants it out..). I am not ugly nor fat or whatever. I offered a FB relationship, not explicitly but yeah (i love him but i know realistically speaking, I dont foresee nor expect him to be divorcing and stuffs). I used to text him only when he is at work (ie not with his wife), even then i do not flood him with messages. I feel it's because he felt he has more to lose if the relationship gets exposed. kind of sad. haah