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Old 05-01-2010, 01:01 AM
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Dear all,

I am new to SBF and have been following the threads here for awhile, but never really got down to posting much. I am not looking for points or trying to solicit any business, am just trying to seek some advice from the more experienced members here.

I am a pretty successful executive in my late twenties, and am an above-average looking guy. Due to my heavy work schedule, I don't really have time to go dating but would like to look for opportunity to meet girls who are willing to have a good time together with no strings attached. I know that there is the "professional services" option but that's not the type of girl who I am looking for.

As I am pretty shy when talking to girls, I find it difficult to chat up new girls or befriend them. Does anyone have good advice on where / how I should approach this or know of places where girls are friendlier / more open to hanging out with single eligible guys?

Thank you.

Sincerely,
Marc
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Bro may be u should post in Matter Of Hearts

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As I am pretty shy when talking to girls, I find it difficult to chat up new girls or befriend them. Does anyone have good advice on where / how I should approach this or know of places where girls are friendlier / more open to hanging out with single eligible guys?
Sounds like a bro from all-boys-school.

Sad to inform you that there are NO places in SG where girls would be friendlier. More drunk probably.

You could try joining social events for singles but I can bet my cock 'n balls that the girls there would be more shy than you lor.
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Sounds like a bro from all-boys-school.

Sad to inform you that there are NO places in SG where girls would be friendlier. More drunk probably.

You could try joining social events for singles but I can bet my cock 'n balls that the girls there would be more shy than you lor.
Bro, steady hor, me and alot more bros all from all boys school and never had problem wif getting pussies...NOT PAID types lol.......my generalise leh

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Dear all,

I am new to SBF and have been following the threads here for awhile, but never really got down to posting much. I am not looking for points or trying to solicit any business, am just trying to seek some advice from the more experienced members here.

I am a pretty successful executive in my late twenties, and am an above-average looking guy. Due to my heavy work schedule, I don't really have time to go dating but would like to look for opportunity to meet girls who are willing to have a good time together with no strings attached. I know that there is the "professional services" option but that's not the type of girl who I am looking for.

As I am pretty shy when talking to girls, I find it difficult to chat up new girls or befriend them. Does anyone have good advice on where / how I should approach this or know of places where girls are friendlier / more open to hanging out with single eligible guys?

Marc
Dear Marc, your 1st para shud be an advert of you in a net dating site...here post like that, errrr, kinda off la.......
Since you young exec, no time to date, means you must have $$$$$ dunno how or where to spend rite??????
You got libido but no hole to release rite and you wan no strings attached rite????
But you say professional service is what you not looking for rite?????

You say u shy shy boy when you see char bors rite.......
Worry not, you've come to the rite place

1) Go Geyland, find the streetwalkers, nope they aint professionals, they're amateurs
2) Go KTV, find gals to keep you company and have a ball
3) Go HFJ hang flowers on the gals on stage

Above 3, you dun even need to move from your chair, all the CUNTS there will come and chat you up instead.

There you go, have fun ya........last, nothing is free in this world hor, even wanna a fulltime FB still got some investment involved!!!!!!!!
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Re: Newbie seeking advice

Last I heard there is this ktv place at lorong 7 or 8 where the moment you enter your own private room, 30-40 girls enter with you. It doesn't really matter if you are an executive in your 20s or ahpek in your 60s, much less about how you look. They are definitely friendly and open wide and big.
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Re: Newbie seeking advice

TS i think u may belongs to the 有色无胆 ( got guts to beo but no guts to jio ) category. the 1st thing u should do is to throw all the bedroom thoughts into the air when u start to friend a lady and think of her as a mere friend only. dont worry too much abt how she will evaluate yr buaya skill, whether will u be an andy lau in her eyes, whether yr car big enough for her liking or not cos like i said, mere friend only nia. just chat with her casually like a normal friend and get to knw her more. look at those successful sales ppl, majority of them will not sit down and talk sales or try hard to impress on their 1st client appointment. they will try to build rapport and 'get to knw' their clients 1st, esp so if the clients are ladies. if u can do that the lady will naturally feel more at ease with yr company and intimacy will be just a matter of time. patience is the key bro. as for where u can go and pick up friendly girls easily like what other bros have advised u can go any ktv open yr fat wallet big big and u will get yr 'friendliness' very easily.

there's a saying that goes if u laugh the world laugh with u, if u cry, u cry alone. so in order for girls ( WL aside ) to be friendly towards u and like u, u must be a friendly and likeable character 1st.
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Re: Newbie seeking advice

No Strings Attached, do u mean u just wan to find one-night stand? as some people have said above, go to Night Clubs and u can choose the girl u like to pei u, go have fun, pay $ and next day forget abt her. go to GL oso can, find one u like, go up for 1 hour and forget abt her the next day. or try going clubbing and fish for some prawn or sotongs
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Bro, steady hor, me and alot more bros all from all boys school and never had problem wif getting pussies...NOT PAID types lol.......my generalise leh
Bro, I also all-boys' school leh. Tend to attract unwanted attention from the ah-guas in my school.

Hair stand, man. But I think quite funny. I met one sibei chio post-op LB in CV a few year's back and I think "she" was one of those ah guas in my alma-mater. Got "her" to give me a blow.
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TS i think u may belongs to the 有色无胆 ( got guts to beo but no guts to jio ) category.
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Re: Newbie seeking advice

Marc, until you muster up enough courage to approach the girl who could be your wife, someone will be taking your place in their cunt.

Stop whinnying like a pussy and grow a pair of balls for fucks sake.
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TS, really? not blowng trumpet?
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TS, really? not blowng trumpet?
I remember, in my younger school days, join the brass band. Was told, don't blow trumpet, bad for your balls.............
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Last I heard there is this ktv place at lorong 7 or 8 where the moment you enter your own private room, 30-40 girls enter with you. It doesn't really matter if you are an executive in your 20s or ahpek in your 60s, much less about how you look. They are definitely friendly and open wide and big.
Exactly where arr.....???????? wowwowoww

BTW Bro colins, seldom see you joke joke lei ....


TS, a frog in the well will always be one, if by asking and no action it is not going to help. Unless it hop out of the well & go take a look outside by itself

So try a few more places, you will be able to find a handful of places that suit you
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I am a pretty successful executive in my late twenties, and am an above-average looking guy.

girls who are willing to have a good time together with no strings attached.

"professional services" option but that's not the type of girl who I am looking for.

I am pretty shy when talking to girls, I find it difficult to chat up new girls or befriend them.
Given your case, it's quite tough. Nowadays based on satistics and numbers indication, there are lot of young, successful, earning 6K (somemore!!) and (surprisely!!) all claimed to be also above-average looking guys having difficulties in finding girlfriends. In addition, you want no string attached, don't cost money, proactive and pretty types..sign...sign...tough..tough...You need to be at least Very Good Looking or With An Attitude to compete, above average looks just won't do...if you just want to stand all night waiting for girls to chat you up, even if you're lucky enough, you will fumble through the whole conversation as you are shy type.
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Exactly where arr.....???????? wowwowoww

BTW Bro colins, seldom see you joke joke lei ....


TS, a frog in the well will always be one, if by asking and no action it is not going to help. Unless it hop out of the well & go take a look outside by itself

So try a few more places, you will be able to find a handful of places that suit you
Forgotten which lorong, only can remember it is next to a fruitstall. They never know there will be competition upstairs where the papaya are always bigger and rounder. hahaha...

Come on I also want to appear younger la. Joking helps to liven up dead cells.
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As I am pretty shy when talking to girls, I find it difficult to chat up new girls or befriend them. Does anyone have good advice on where / how I should approach this or know of places where girls are friendlier / more open to hanging out with single eligible guys?

Thank you.

Sincerely,
Marc
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