advice needed

dummydummy · #1 11-01-2009, 03:55 AM

Need some advice from all the gurus here, is it the nature for some girl who like to flirt with guys? Got this one friend of mine, who like to flirt a lot with me, she like to call me with sweet nick name in sms, online chatting and some time even when we hang out together.

The problem is she always adds laugh tone after she did the sweet talk as if she was just joking. And every time we went out, it comes with a 3rd person, which usually is a guy who is into her I can tell.

Do bros here know what is this indicates, is the girl into me or she just want to use me to create more tension for her admirer or just her nature to fling around with guys?

infinitedubs · #2 11-01-2009, 03:57 AM

It can be anyting..

Using u,juz fr fun flirting wif,playin arnd wif ur feelings..

mldue · #3 11-01-2009, 04:46 AM

as long as you are having fun, don't be too bothered.
unless you have more than flirting intentions with her.

Waxer · #4 11-01-2009, 08:18 AM

Find an opportunity and take her soon. Dont let her tease you too much.

dummydummy · #5 11-01-2009, 09:25 PM

Thanks for all advice, I was having fun at first, but now I afraid I develop feeling for her if she flirt more, by that time, I will be really hurt again if i realize she is just fooling around with me…..

hiyena · #6 11-01-2009, 09:42 PM

In any case,try up her 1st

b4 the other guy does!

dummydummy · #7 11-01-2009, 10:11 PM

Actually I don’t really have feeling for her right now, but I afraid I do in near future, and I will confess to her and got hurt by rejection again.

Kittenish · #8 11-01-2009, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by dummydummy

Actually I don’t really have feeling for her right now, but I afraid I do in near future, and I will confess to her and got hurt by rejection again.

If you don't have any feelings for her, why bother? this is not a 'chope' first, in case you develop feelings for her :\

She MAY really like you, and its not fair if you lead her on.

SGtalker · #9 13-01-2009, 09:59 AM

Just like certain guys like to link up with several girls at the same time, so do girls.

LostALau · #10 13-01-2009, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by hiyena

In any case,try up her 1st

b4 the other guy does!

Yes Yes Yes, up her! up her! up her! ..........If you DON'T, u will regret later. UP! UP! UP! ...........

madsteam1 · #11 13-01-2009, 01:41 PM

Bro, first ask yourself r U serious with her. If U r, just let her know how U feel when U see another guy with her. If not, who cares, just bonk her first talk later.

Niceman · #12 13-01-2009, 02:25 PM

tease her back. Turn the table around, get in control, rather get controlled

Play hard to get. Most important of all, mai kan chiong. Is a fishing game

Cheers

silverblue · #13 13-01-2009, 03:03 PM

it's a trap!

tenggiri · #14 13-01-2009, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by dummydummy

Do bros here know what is this indicates, is the girl into me or she just want to use me to create more tension for her admirer or just her nature to fling around with guys?

When did this place become an Agony Aunt forum?

Anyway here's the free advice: She is probably trying to hook you up with her gay brother. Do you always wear tight clothing?

Criminalz · #15 13-01-2009, 04:27 PM

let me guess, always go out, she dun pay. you or the other guy pays. she likes to eat some fancy restaurant. shopping also you guys pay.

hmmm....yup, she is into you.