Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[ferragamo]

Before marriage my wife was very active during sex, willing to try everything.

Now after marriage, especially after kids - the times we have sex, it is just going through the motion - strip, touch abit, insert, pump, cum

I am sure some guys say no Fish, Prawn also good

But I beginning to feel very sian during and after this type of sex.

(already tried all the usual suggestion like role play, new places, blah blah blah)

want to find out if other married guys face this issue also

In the end do you just also go through the motion?

some days I just feel don't have this type of sex better, feel more dulan after that.

or is your thinking got sex better than no sex...

[smartke]

camping for more feedback/thots...

[CimPrince]

Maybe it's time for FL Dome 2/3?

Some might say swing!

i will say, Welcome to the club!


Flirt around lor, maybe got FB lei? everyday eat chicken rice also will sian, try eat pineapple thai rice, jap rice, viet rice, taiwan rice, johor rice!

[kellylover]

hi bro i know what you mean !
Maybe i think my wifey is more conversative and she wont try new things. Although she did mentioned watching porn ( must got story line kind ). Impatient as i am i am not keen to watch 30mins before action.

Sometimes i think its us just not satisfied - but again who is right?

Right now i am just going through the motion and also appeasing her. Too long no action she sure make noise or give problem.

My present escape is my sis in law - FB with emtional support and she listens and understands what i am going through.

Not sure if i helped you here but best of luck ! hopefully other bros here can advise you and possibly me at the same time.

HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND !

[Chanelfingers]

Do something different,Try new variety

Pussy painting, lick her nipples, restrain her, let her dominate, role-play...

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by kellylover

My present escape is my sis in law - FB with emtional support and she listens and understands what i am going through.
!

This is just like in the Japanese Porn movies...

[kellylover]

offsorts, i never knew i would hook up with a 25year old.
Plus she is a head turner. Just i am lucky till it ends. ( which i hope is never )

Sex with her is great! although not as often as i wish for but when we do it its full on 4-5 rounds - always sad to send her back.

[alvi23]

Originally Posted by ferragamo

Before marriage my wife was very active during sex, willing to try everything.

Now after marriage, especially after kids - the times we have sex, it is just going through the motion - strip, touch abit, insert, pump, cum

I am sure some guys say no Fish, Prawn also good

But I beginning to feel very sian during and after this type of sex.

(already tried all the usual suggestion like role play, new places, blah blah blah)

want to find out if other married guys face this issue also

In the end do you just also go through the motion?

some days I just feel don't have this type of sex better, feel more dulan after that.

or is your thinking got sex better than no sex...

I went thro the same "cycle", guess it is time to explore out of the house. Time to get yourself some ECA!

[stardawn]

Try some foreplay , get your wife to wear customes , do it at different places like in hotel or in car.

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by ferragamo

Before marriage my wife was very active during sex, willing to try everything.

Now after marriage, especially after kids - the times we have sex, it is just going through the motion - strip, touch abit, insert, pump, cum

I am sure some guys say no Fish, Prawn also good

But I beginning to feel very sian during and after this type of sex.

(already tried all the usual suggestion like role play, new places, blah blah blah)

want to find out if other married guys face this issue also

In the end do you just also go through the motion?

some days I just feel don't have this type of sex better, feel more dulan after that.

or is your thinking got sex better than no sex...

Braddah have you eliminated the possibility of her enjoying sex as much or more than before - but it's with someone else? Braddah I'm thinking she has afternoon delight while you are at the office or factory? Braddah the plumber doing some piping but not related to water or the mailman delivering something else everyday? Braddah so when you get home she is limp fish do the deed and get it over worth? Braddah you dun hire PI?

[iswift]

Well, at least u still get to "go through the motion - strip, touch abit, insert, pump, cum"
If u read through some of the posts, lots of bros here don't even get the chance to "go through this motion"
Haha, I am 1 of them !

[analog]

Hey Bro:

At least you're getting some!!!
Many are getting nothing.

Women are really evil in this sense....
Their entire job, obligation, is to have sex with their husband. That is what a marriage license is, a document consenting to have sex with this man.

Sigh....life.

Note to all young guys, I know, i know...your GF today is a slut, she complains you can't fuck enough or often enough, she sucks your cock, takes it up the ass everything, you're in bliss. You buy a ring, you get engaged....life is great. After you get engaged sex gets even better, you are in heaven all is great, You get married, and your screwing her in every room in your new flat every day of the week, TWICE a day, its all good. She gets pregnant, you're both happy, after all, you're married. Its all good, sex continues through the pregnancy, then the baby is born, happy, happy, happy.......and it never comes back. You wait, you're a patient, modern sensitive guy, she has to heal you say to your self, 2 months, 4 months, 6 months a year.....when is she going to heal? Why she not interested any more etc....

Then she decides she wants another baby, she rapes you for a few months until she gets pregnant again, then she shuts off. Not like first time when you fucked all through the pregnancy. This time she doesn't let you touch her....and the cycle repeats.

And this is how life is with a Singaporean wife my friends. And young boys who are still in the GF/BF stage, save your advice. You have no idea how that little slut you have for a GF right now will change once you marry her and she has a kid. You simply have NO IDEA!

I went to a marriage course when I was a teenager, church related thing, married priest (yes, there are such things) and he said this:
"Couples marry with the man thinking his wife will never change and the woman thinking she will change her future husband. They're both wrong."

How true that has turned out to be.

I'm hoping once the kids get a bit older she comes back. By she I mean the woman I married because the woman I am with now is not who I married. But there is nothing any of us can do about it. Its enough to drive a man to drink....and many do.

Cheers,
jim

[gilagila100]

Not so simple sometimes ... this is a very tricky question to answer ...

But I heard this from a lao jiao,

Make love to ur wife ...
Have sex with FL ...

Go chiong, bring $$$ & 2IC but dun bring heart ... No matter wat must go home to sleep

Not everyone is lucky to be able to have sex and make love with the same woman ...

[jessca]

Originally Posted by analog

Women are really evil in this sense....
Their entire job, obligation, is to have sex with their husband. That is what a marriage license is, a document consenting to have sex with this man.

... Seriously? Our entire job and obligation is to have sex? Wow. I'm shocked.

[ferragamo]

Originally Posted by analog

Hey Bro:

Note to all young guys, I know, i know...your GF today is a slut, she complains you can't fuck enough or often enough, she sucks your cock, takes it up the ass everything, you're in bliss. You buy a ring, you get engaged....life is great. After you get engaged sex gets even better, you are in heaven all is great, You get married, and your screwing her in every room in your new flat every day of the week, TWICE a day, its all good.
jim

Tell me about it, you are absolutely correct

I remember telling my friends my then gf (now wife) was the best. Sex everywhere, car , outdoors etc etc. sure must marry her

Fast forward years later after kids, I am typing this kind of topic in sammyboy

At least if last time she not interested and boring , then the change is not so great
But last time so good, after kids become so different makes it hard to swallow. Feel cheated. And got kids so cannot anyhow do anything about it

Fuck..