Feeling bad after hJ

[Lester1]

I don't know if this is the right thread...so if it is not just pardon me.

I have the most aweward feeling yesterday...

I have been going to this fl massager for few month already...i like her massage, I give her 8 point and also her look...petite, nice fair, a 25 year old prc girl...n in many time...i fantasise having fj with her...night and night i masterbate just fantasing it.

so yesterday...i call her for a massage session again..proceed to the hotel room...i strip down and she massage me...

i tok about gl no more girls and hinted i need sex badly
As usual, she say she only do massage and also say tat the raid and swine flu + econ bad, she also lose a lot of business recently, ...this is the 2nd time i ask her out of 4 time with her.

I try my luck further and carefully hinted to her tat since time so bad...if she dont do much other then massage, i may have to go others already......

she got the hint, n say...she the most do hj only...I was happy and ask her to proceed.

Bro here may think that I ho say now la...but what happen really make me feel very very bad...

She start to do her hj...i closed my eyes and feel so shiok, her hj is good...finally my fantasies is half fulfilled. i was think of touching her and hope tat she would proceed to fj...

just then, i feel something near my didi, i feel wet, I open my eyes, and see her in tears...she did not sop...but her droplet of tears are big and rolled down her cheek...

I ask her to stop immediately, and before i can say anything, she aplogise for her service and tat she should not cry...wow...tat make it even worst...

this is the first time i have such case...i dont know how to react...i give her S$100...her massage is 60, and left the place...

I feel really bad...i don't mean to force people...but time like this, a little of prompting sometime have great impact...i tell myself no more will i prompt such way anymore...

i also feel paisey to call her for massage again....

[strudel]

well bro i understand how u feel.....

we all must understand not all gals are into FL FJ etc....

they are those reluctant ones who do not want to do any of those stuff and thus we cant blame them..they have their rights too and own thinkings

Lesson learnt: think of the other gal if u r in her position also

[aczeta76]

You juz made her swallow her pride for in return for not losing your business.

Times are bad and stress is on everyone so even when you have to bite the bullet, it doesn't mean you will feel good about it.

From the posting, you were not intending to humiliate her but was rather testing the ground since it is the 4th time..

And you never tried to force yourself on her so at least, you accorded her some respect.

Good massage is hard to find these days so if you really want to, just book her next time and say sorry loh.

In future, you could always have your massage then go satisfy your other needs elsewhere..

You feel bad 'coz u feel that you took advantage of her vulnerability and made her feel cheap..move on lah.. lesson learned

[sexfrenzy]

dun think too much lah... maybe u can make up to her by giving her more massage business lor. or get a small gift for her next time u patronise her.

not all gers are into FL lah...

[xcapade]

maybe bro , patronise her again solely for massage and get her a gift as a way of apologizing.....
hope both of u are ok.....

[aegis]

Hi bro, She is the type that sell skill not sell body. What is done is done. If you want to help her..intro more bros to her pure massage service. I am sure there are bros out there who would appreciate her massage skills. PM me her contact..I will post a report to help her. Please state her pricing. Cheers.

[cockscrew]

Originally Posted by Lester1

i also feel paisey to call her for massage again....

You did not roam her.
You also did not expect such a strong reaction from her.
Based on what you described, I don't think you should feel paiseh.
In fact, I salute you for "actions", stopping immediately and paying her.
You should continue to support her by RTM.

[Destiny]

Woah i would say she was really being too emotional.
It could be other reason why she was tearing, perhaps having thoughts of her ex-boyfriend cause maybe she used to handjob her exboyfriend like how she was doing it for you.

Or could be even family matters back at her hometown or stress.
Dont feel bad about it, talk to her and find out her problem if you still care.

However i believe you posted on the wrong thread (:

[silversurfer]

End of the day, when we spend money, we want to fulfill our need. If the need is not fulfilled, you would feel bad too and to top it all, you have spent money. Who is going to pity us?

If the massage is really good, I would say continue to get her to massage. No harm done really as long as massage is what you want. If you want more, you probably should just spend more and get someone else on top, or if budget is limited, find someone else who can do both FJ and massage. There's quite a lot of them in this forum actually.

As for feeling bad, I can understand. But you had already done the honorable thing by stopping and paying her extra on top of it. Nothing much more you could have done really. It's also not like you force yourself on her.

[lifeisfun]

[QUOTE=aegis;3717218] If you want to help her..intro more bros to her pure massage service. I am sure there are bros out there who would appreciate her massage skills.

I agreed with the above statement..there are many bros out there who wanted only good massages with or without other services too.
If TS feels that she fulfills yr need of a good massage , continue to engage her services..

[Blackjack]

I respect you for speaking out what you feel. It takes a man to do that.

You hurt her very much. Because you threatened to take your business elsewhere. And so she had to do what she did not want to do but was forced to do because she wanted your future business.

You know what you did was not right; stopped, paid more, chabut. And then you spoke out here. Good for you.

In your heightened sexually excited state, and because you felt for her, you wanted her. That’s normal. You did not know that it would hurt her badly. You did not mean to hurt her at all.

Because you are at heart a good person.

So relax. Continue with your massage sessions but remember that she doesn’t want sex. Talk about other things. Go to another for sex after the massage session. Concentrate on your sex partner, not her, during sex.

You are OK. Stop feeling bad because you are good.

[singbro]

why did she hj u - because she was compelled not to loose her regular customer.
let this incident not stop u from patronising her..
but next time, just concentrate on the massage.

u need to post this under "matters of the heart".

[wildbeast]

Lester1, u dun need to feel bad. She in this trade she shd know wat will happen. How many gal can tolerate man naked and she massage u. you never forced on her. She did it willingly after thots. The tears may be linked to other emotion and not u. Sori to say these PRCs are great actresses at times. Most impt. u gv her $100.00 in return. This is a transcation. neither party lose out.

Just enjoy have fun and NEVER STRING ATTACHED or get emotional. Else stay at home and be good man. You consider STEADY client already.

Cheers.

[Liquid@cid]

Bro TS, you steady, i salute you!!!

I felt that your approach is wrong as you used the threaten tactics, i rather you use the pyscho tactic, like telling her since that there is not many FL ard nowdays she will be able to increase her cust base if she can throw in a little more perks..... see her reaction first ma 投石问路 you noe????

Anyway i felt that since what had happen had happen, no point brooding over it, and all the more you should RTM her, she had already swallow her pride yet still gotta lose you as her cust..... 眼泪白流了

Trust me, if you still RTM her, you may not get the FJ you want, but you will get a friend in return.....

Cheers

[12345678910]

TS, i think that girls unless immune to it, needs some coaxing before she will feel comfortable in providing u extra services. If as u say u really fantasies so much about her, why not spend a bit of $ buy her a meal, make her feel more comfortable, best if with some light alcohol. think that will do the trick. Just my 2 cents worth hope it helps.