Confused and lost on documentations at ROM marrying minor VN

zichuan · #1 18-02-2009, 04:55 PM

Need samsters help, cheers.

ROM has change their policy that girls minors from vietnam, need parental consent letter from the Justice of Department/Judical Dept to get the Chief to chop and sign and approve rather than the old method whereby they accept consent letter from Peoples Committee at their city nearby.

Anyone encounter this problem? My problem is her parents has no passport and not convenient to fly over sg. I check with viet that some justice dept just simply know nuts about issuing a letter even in ho chi minh district.

Congrats to those guys who get married using consent form under Peoples Committee of their home town.

To bros samster take note now ROM need consent approve by justice dept of the city.

I check through viet embassy, they also dont know about this new implementations. They say normally ROM last time accept consent out of the ladies hometown Peoples Committee.

Anyone got their consent through any city judicial dept? Need some guidances. I cant seems to find any contact numbers to their Judicial Dept.

amostio · #2 19-02-2009, 08:25 AM

The other option is to get married in Vietnam. Easier but do note the hometown of your future wife. You'll need to get it done there.

mike1304k · #3 19-02-2009, 11:16 AM

I am not surprised that the laws have become harder. Imagine... In our own fair country, we protect our minors... We have laws to protect them. But in Vietnam, Cambodia and some parts of Thailand even, it is possible to "buy" yourself a minor just for sex... Case in point is Gary Glitter the British guy who was caught for having sex with minors. In his case, the minors were really young of course. So what protects these young will be laws from countries like ours. Imagine an old man who has money and just wants a young one for sex? Go and pay the parents lor... The parents will be willing as long as the money is good and the girl is little more than a child.

But in so saying, there are cases where the lady is coming to be a legal adult, but not quite there yet. If she is in love and the guy is truly in love, marriage can happen. So that is why it is still possible to marry, but it is more difficult. No comments about whether the law is good or bad, but just stating that it is made to protect under-age girls from being abused.

Megatronzombie · #4 19-02-2009, 11:53 AM

u err.. marrying a minor? how old is a minor by the way?

zichuan · #5 19-02-2009, 12:12 PM

20 years old.

KangTuo · #6 20-02-2009, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by amostio

The other option is to get married in Vietnam. Easier but do note the hometown of your future wife. You'll need to get it done there.

according to bro SingViet "Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner", it is definetly more hassle free to get married (ROM) in Sillypore than in Vietnam.

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Originally Posted by zichuan

20 years old.

20yo still a minor?
If not in a hurry, wait a bit longer than marry. At the same time, you can observe her and understand her background 1st.

zichuan · #7 20-02-2009, 09:24 AM

already 1 round away.. expecting.. july.

amostio · #8 21-02-2009, 03:01 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

according to bro SingViet "Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner", it is definetly more hassle free to get married (ROM) in Sillypore than in Vietnam.

Agreed. However, if future wife is a minor poses some problems as the TS has stated. I got married in Vinh Long and went through a bit of hassle. All in all, was solved by using an 'agent'. Took 2 trips to the hometown; first time to register and 2nd time to sign the papers.

SingViet · #9 21-02-2009, 10:10 AM

Aiyoh, 20 years old not minor in Vietnam but minor in Singapore. Get married in Vietnam lor. You better get married fast, if by the time yr children come out and u guys not officially married yet, then you will know what is trouble at both Singapore and vietnam side.

SingViet · #10 21-02-2009, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by amostio

Agreed. However, if future wife is a minor poses some problems as the TS has stated. I got married in Vinh Long and went through a bit of hassle. All in all, was solved by using an 'agent'. Took 2 trips to the hometown; first time to register and 2nd time to sign the papers.

Vinh Long easy as the local provisional government takes coffee money. If you kanna super stubborn non corrupted provisional government like Ben Tre, agents cannot help you also.

Mrxhub · #11 21-02-2009, 04:15 PM

Wait for 1 more year....and you married her in VIETNAM....then endorse the marriage cert. in singapore ICA...are u self empolyment or got a pay of average $2.5k per mth?

zichuan · #12 22-02-2009, 12:35 PM

i do not have a average pay of 2.5k

Mrxhub · #13 25-02-2009, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by zichuan

i do not have a average pay of 2.5k

Wah....hmmm...does any of your family like your dad or mum have a pay of 2.5k or 100k+ of cpf..how abt your own CPF..Ica need you to furish sure information to legal prove that you able to support yr VN wife....

zichuan · #14 26-02-2009, 12:27 PM

now market so bad many people got retrench including me, what do goverment expect now from the citizen? daily there is people with the same scenario going down to kpkb with the officers. my parents does have 100k+ of cpf. lol.

jackbl · #15 26-02-2009, 01:40 PM

Govt also must protect foreign bride so that their welfare is taken care. If u cant support her, and then ask her to go xxxxx then how? OR she see the family here so poor, she go to work....

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Originally Posted by zichuan

now market so bad many people got retrench including me, what do goverment expect now from the citizen? daily there is people with the same scenario going down to kpkb with the officers. my parents does have 100k+ of cpf. lol.