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03-10-2005, 01:19 AM
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I am Going insane
Dear to all the bros here, something terrible happen to me. I had a gf for 1 yr plus, everything was going very smoothly, till I started working. I always fantasia abt my gf having a ONS with other guy, and I did discuss this issue with her. Her answer was alwats a no no. Telling me that she will never do this type of thing. Until there was a time when I was too busy with my work and also a minor quarrel which lead us to cold war for a week.
It so happen that she was angry, meet a guy frm a website and sex with him. After that, she felt so ashame and admit telling me that she had a ONS. She told me she did it in a moment of folly. I was in rage, I cannot take the truth, my own GF being screwed by a stranger. How can I accept it. I was in a dying state. So we broke up after this. After that, she had another sex session with the guy. Total of 2 times. She says that since cannot slavage already, wat more shall she care doing another time. Another month pass by, I felt that I really love her too much. And she is too honest le. If she dnt love me, why shall she beg me to return instead. Bros here, i really need ur advice. I do admit that I have neglected her. And nw, shes the 1 that deciding if she wanna patch back, nt me. I am willing to accept her 1) Shall I patch back with her? 2) Is there really a moment of folly to do such acts? 3) I have promise her that if I patch back with her, I wil allow her to do whatever she wants including sex, am I abnormal, cause she says scared no freedom. 4)Do sex and love links together for gals? 5)The image of her making love with someone else makes me horny at times, wat shall I do? 
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03-10-2005, 01:41 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
Ask yourself do you still love her ? A lot of person can Forgive but not Forget !!! Its like a crack on the glass , u can patch it back but the crack is there .... in future when you two qurreal this will be the leading fire .... If you can accept this fact then go ahead , patch back with her. But deep in your heart you tend not to trust her anymore ....[sometime its like having a time bomb beside you coz you dun noe when it will burst again ... further more you cant use all your time keeping ur eyes on her 24 hrs ... All is about Fate .. if she is yours she will be yours , if not she is not yours even if you do a thousand touching thing she will still left you one day ... Let your heart do the thinking ...good luck
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03-10-2005, 01:48 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
speaking from experience, MOVE ON and nvr look back. it wont work if u cant swallow ur own pride having ur woman being screwed TWICE by a stranger. time will heal ur pain and pls be strong.
PM me if u need some words of console  jimbo
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03-10-2005, 01:54 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
Uncle Agony is here to voice out my 2 cents....
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b)Download a Jap AV to pcc Normal ppl will get furious abt it but u r exceptional......
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03-10-2005, 02:04 AM
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Bro what happen if ur ex have sex with that guy again? Will u forgive her again? Can she give u commitment she will never do it again? Can u forget everything and never bring it up again? Bro if these things happen again u will only hurt urself deeper and deeper...
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03-10-2005, 02:07 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
If you are the one that got to screw twice with two different chio bu and tell her now you are leaving her .. I am very sure you wont buay gan sim anymore coz u r the Winner oredi ....
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03-10-2005, 07:52 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
Just follow your heart and u will know the answer ......
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#10
03-10-2005, 09:44 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
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You have stated that you had always fantasia that your GF have ONS and now it actually happens and you cannot accept the fact.  Whether to patch up with her or not, its all up to you. If you really loved her and can accept the fact that she had went to bed with another man, you should patch up with her. If not than, move on. A moment of folly are nothing but excuses. Lust play an important part in it.
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#11
03-10-2005, 09:59 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
Nowadays can still find virgin? --> Very very difficult.
Can marry non virgin? --> Of course! Learning that your gf is having an affair with another person while still in a relationship with you, should you consider patching up? --> NO. Ask yourself, is there a diff between you knowing your gf not virgin before you guys are together and during you guys are together? --> Big difference! We can accept fact that intimacy happens during a relationship and there are bounds to be more than one relaltionship in every person. So we can accept stuff like not virgin.. bla bla. But if ur gf is having affair when u guys are still together... will develop repercussions and is not healthy for future relation development. E.g. Whenever quarrels or arguments were to arise, such incident will comes into your mind.. and if u cant control, u will use it against her. My suggestions is to move on and start a new relationship clean.
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#12
03-10-2005, 10:01 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
I have a close friend during study days..
Her bf tht time in army.. tink in some special unit... n thus, less time to b together... so she two time him... not once but twice.. n e bf even met up with e 2 guys n had a neogiation talk (tink argue who met e girl first).. In e end, the bf, dunno stupid or reali luv e girl, still accepts her... N they r married now..  So, anything is possible bro.. Its all up to u.. But i dun tink tht bf kinda fancy my friend to hav ONS or screw around..
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#13
03-10-2005, 10:04 AM
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how come nowadays got people fantasize about their spouse or gf bonking with other people? western sex culture?
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03-10-2005, 10:12 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
Bro Lancer81,
To add-on what the brudders have mentioned, she used the deadliest weapon to spite you over a small quarrel. She gave you the "green hat" by letting stranger screw her. What if it's a BIG quarrel? Will she do something worst? Only you can answer. Take care.
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03-10-2005, 10:15 AM
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Re: I am Going insane
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i have also kenna before... patch back but bcos of the "cannot forget" thingy creeping into u.... its really terrible.... in the end cant take it oso broke off.... n 1 more thing i wan to remind u.... if u patch back now u will bound to quarrel again some time.... then what??? even if yr gf not screwing ard u also will get paranoid liao.... its really gonna be terrible.... n fr what u r saying yr gf cant decide to go back w you may indicate that her love is lesser for u now..... its gonna be tough bro..... for me i would say move on.................. 
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