woes of a tirak

[Dr. Dre]

Originally Posted by magicafe

I,m not sure that this quote fit into this thread. however, i need feedback for meaning of this quote.A quote from my thai lady friend(Non WL), " [B]Love or No love is not the highest priority. He/She who always remember u and never forget u is the best of all and i rather choose a man who always remember me and not forgetting me than a man who love me".
Hope my ex-tirak will always remember me and not forgetting me.it's a mental torture. can someone please enlighten me. is it a mental torture?

that's the problem with the Thai girls/culture (both WL and non WL). read the quote carefully again and again. no need for me to further explain if you can get the true meaning or ever experienced in this type of scenario. they will always want to have the best of both worlds. which is escaping reality and practicality most of the time.

if you want a similiar real life example. i can share my real life experience with a Thai University girl if anyone is interested. the subject will be 'Favours in Thai Society'.

also try to hang out with the Siam kias in Thailand. not just the pussies. lim more whiskey with your Thai buddies in the pubs. your skill level will increase very fast too!

whatever the pussies say, we just listen can liao. no need to go and understand. don't go and analyse. you'll end up more pissed off.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by +++++++for

he told me one.

真鸡婆啦~ dont think i've disclosed who she is exactly and when exactly she left. u been doing quite a fair bit of research.... not bad lah, quite impressed. maybe u can PM me her surname (her surname also not common) just to be sure she is who u think she is. dun wait mistaken identity, then all the tabloid start trashing.

as per usual, got her fair bit of post-ORD admin/logistics, civilian conversion course to undergo, and lots more... now working on my flight schedules/itinerary... business paperworks & migration plans also in progress...

u know ppl working in gong-sun thailand who can accelerate the process???

[magicafe]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Thai Non WL and WL have differing views on this.

If you ask me the WL view will be, I will forever remember this guy for how much I conned him out of. His money, his heart.

As for cheongster POV and non-cheongster POV, there is also another difference

For a cheongster, he will never ever forget the WL whom conned him the most money and not forgetting his heart that went with her. As for POV of non-cheongster, same as Thai Non-WL.

hahaha
SC

Bro Sc,
You're rite on track.It will be an enlightenment to many samsters, esp me. My last confrontation with my ex b4 i called it a day, there were 2 phrases said out of danger from her. " it's u the only one who give me $$$,if there are others i don have to work" . the next, for a period of 2 wks didn,t call her so when i start to call,after some small talk, she said i thought you're going to send me $$$ again. In both phrases, i,m her atm card and a stupid carrot head. thump up to me! bro. she will always remember as a carrot head and lost atm card. however, these phrases finally showed me the door to leave .

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by magicafe

Bro Sc,
You're rite on track.It will be an enlightenment to many samsters, esp me. My last confrontation with my ex b4 i called it a day, there were 2 phrases said out of danger from her. " it's u the only one who give me $$$,if there are others i don have to work" . the next, for a period of 2 wks didn,t call her so when i start to call,after some small talk, she said i thought you're going to send me $$$ again. In both phrases, i,m her atm card and a stupid carrot head. thump up to me! bro. she will always remember as a carrot head and lost atm card. however, these phrases finally showed me the door to leave .

bro at least you can see her true colour before it is too late rite

peiseh to say your ex-tilak is very realistic. Better not go to thailand to see

her again what happen your feeling for her come back again. Like this even

more dangerous for you. With this kind of TGs only money talk

Can play with them but better jump if situation not rite. Maybe you can

start to look for new thai girl but must be careful.

this will help you to forget that TG that don't deserve your love

We all kaki lang will help each other

[ahpek]

Originally Posted by rick924

Have been looking at the photo which we took together...I just couldnt forget her gentleness, the way she fed me with food, the CDs she took the trouble to burnt for me, the small tissue paper that she wrote on saying I love u in thai and alot alot alot ...still lingers in my mind till this stage.......

Think of it this way .... even our super hardened SC will admit to being idealistic and soft hearted inside ...

If you want to make this work, you are going to have to accept that you will not be the only one.

In the nature of their work, it is hard for them not to develop feelings for several men. I mean real feelings here as opposed to attempts to dig money from cheongsters.

You will have to adopt the mindset that it is not a competition and that you don't have to be some ultimate tirak to win.

You win everytime you are together and you are happy.

And finally ... you are going to have to accept that you will most likely NOT get married and live happily ever after.

There will however be lots and lots of really good sex.

[magicafe]

Originally Posted by LengKia

bro at least you can see her true colour before it is too late rite

peiseh to say your ex-tilak is very realistic. Better not go to thailand to see

her again what happen your feeling for her come back again. Like this even

more dangerous for you. With this kind of TGs only money talk

Can play with them but better jump if situation not rite. Maybe you can

start to look for new thai girl but must be careful.

this will help you to forget that TG that don't deserve your love

We all kaki lang will help each other

Bro lengkia,
you are very supportive including mant brothers here. once i walk out of the door i don think i,m going to look back. i have a typing errors about the returning visit experience of ex-tirak. i,m not going to experience it. i came to realise that after 2 yrs of relationship, she finally showed her true colors of $$$. I would rather wear a green helmet as a lover than being a husband. i have true love for her but her actions awaken me. i don mind things that happened yesterday but just hope there is no second time. to flashback the actions that i've done, it's very stupid of me. i would say i,m KIASU for the last 2.5 yrs. the sponsorship is by not letting her to share her pussy with others. when i think back, she might or she did which i don have a clue. since i ,m now fresh and surfing this forum so often, just feel so ashamed of my stupidity that a monthly allowance of 40000 baht excluding gifts and vacation that only only subcribed for roughly abt 80 nites.besides, the love and trust i commited is my greatest loss. it's an unforgetting experience but it make me stronger and smarter. many thanks to all the samster here for all the positive and negative comments.

[ahpek]

Originally Posted by magicafe

i would say i,m KIASU for the last 2.5 yrs. the sponsorship is by not letting her to share her pussy with others. when i think back, she might or she did which i don have a clue. since i ,m now fresh and surfing this forum so often, just feel so ashamed of my stupidity that a monthly allowance of 40000 baht excluding gifts and vacation that only only subcribed for roughly abt 80 nites.besides, the love and trust i commited is my greatest loss. it's an unforgetting experience but it make me stronger and smarter. many thanks to all the samster here for all the positive and negative comments.

Don't talk abt Thai girls but the happiest relationships I have seen between cheongsters and WLs is when both sides don't have unrealistic expectations of each other.

You give her about S$1,000. You see her about one week per month. What do you expect her to do the rest of the time? Just sit at home and eagerly wait for your next visit?

The way to go is that you give her money, you go and see her and you be happy. When you come back to Sg, you work. At night when you are lonely, you can look for someone else.

Depending on how much you can earn, you can end up with maybe 4 or 5 girls. You can have a girl in Thailand, a girl in China, a girl in Batam, a girl in Vietnam etc.

don't you think that this will be a lot better than betting everything on 1 WL and living in a fantasy world that you will one day get married and live happily ever after.

Do you think she really wants you to give up your high paying Sg job to go live with her in Thailand and do nothing but bonk her?

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by ahpek

Don't talk abt Thai girls but the happiest relationships I have seen between cheongsters and WLs is when both sides don't have unrealistic expectations of each other.

bro ahpek your statement really give me a good wake up call next time if suay suay know a thai WL will remember to follow your advice. Really cannot expect much lah if we treat it likea game and not so seriously. everyone will feel more relax comfortable and less pressure. This should be the right direction But for weak heart people better don't step into the same shit again. Will get injured than nobody can help hor. 别老想做出那些失去理智的事,很危险.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by ahpek

You give her about S$1,000. You see her about one week per month. What do you expect her to do the rest of the time? Just sit at home and eagerly wait for your next visit?

Depending on how much you can earn, you can end up with maybe 4 or 5 girls. You can have a girl in Thailand, a girl in China, a girl in Batam, a girl in Vietnam etc.

Do you think she really wants you to give up your high paying Sg job to go live with her in Thailand and do nothing but bonk her?

wow .. ahpek, i like your posting leh, very realistic and solid analysis

To me, as long as she is a tan-jiak char bor regardless of where she comes from, very hard to tame her 1 leh, unless the cheongster marry her and settle down.

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by DNAT

wow .. ahpek, i like your posting leh, very realistic and solid analysis

To me, as long as she is a tan-jiak char bor regardless of where she comes from, very hard to tame her 1 leh, unless the cheongster marry her and settle down.

like your short 1 line statement , always very straight to the point

very good..not longwinded

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by LengKia

like your short 1 line statement , always very straight to the point

very good..not longwinded

First, I thank you for your compliments .. xie xie
Second, 1 line short statement is not very welcome here unless it contains ingredients.
Third, I also like to read your views/encounters .. just like describing a story / incident without all those chim chim philosophy

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by ahpek

Think of it this way .... even our super hardened SC will admit to being idealistic and soft hearted inside ...

Probably because I still have a heart even though its black. If the person can be hardened till nothing can sway him, then I think he mai mii jai liao. (No heart at all)

All don't be like me fall in love with WL or else your heart will suffer a lot a lot a lot of pain.

SC

[Dr. Dre]

Originally Posted by magicafe

Bro lengkia,
you are very supportive including mant brothers here. once i walk out of the door i don think i,m going to look back. i have a typing errors about the returning visit experience of ex-tirak. i,m not going to experience it. i came to realise that after 2 yrs of relationship, she finally showed her true colors of $$$. I would rather wear a green helmet as a lover than being a husband. i have true love for her but her actions awaken me. i don mind things that happened yesterday but just hope there is no second time. to flashback the actions that i've done, it's very stupid of me. i would say i,m KIASU for the last 2.5 yrs. the sponsorship is by not letting her to share her pussy with others. when i think back, she might or she did which i don have a clue. since i ,m now fresh and surfing this forum so often, just feel so ashamed of my stupidity that a monthly allowance of 40000 baht excluding gifts and vacation that only only subcribed for roughly abt 80 nites.besides, the love and trust i commited is my greatest loss. it's an unforgetting experience but it make me stronger and smarter. many thanks to all the samster here for all the positive and negative comments.

bro i feel so sad for you. you gave her 40,000B/mth for 2.5 years. That's 1.2 million baht! can buy a studio condo in BKK already! i've seen many bros with the same sponsorship mishaps like yours. the only way to heal yourself is to cut off all contacts. destroy all things that can remind you of her. MOVE ON & LOOK FORWARD. DON'T LOOK BEHIND ANYMORE. you will heal yourself in no time.

[red-perrier]

Originally Posted by Dr. Dre

...you gave her 40,000B/mth for 2.5 years. That's 1.2 million baht! can buy a studio condo in BKK already! i've seen many bros with the same sponsorship mishaps like yours. the only way to heal yourself is to cut off all contacts...

wa!~! BUAY TAHAN!! i have to second to this too. see already "lan huay dto", take the poor fellow as walking atm: sponsor her for shelter, clothes, neccessities and most definately some extravagant living too!! this type i really pui chao nua!! the millions of THB could have been put to good use, perhaps to set up some small instituition to educate the kampong people, so there's possibility for the poor to find decent jobs in future...etc

then again, brings this question to my mind..... why dont settle down together, then can have better control the expenditure, if things not spent wisely??? (at least minimize chances for such malicious things from happening) i think long distance smells very fishy(maciam sundries shop in GM). haven't had good impression on long distance relationships...... i may be wrong, but if really want to have tirakship, would be more viable to consider settling down together.

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by magicafe

Bro lengkia,
you are very supportive including mant brothers here. once i walk out of the door i don think i,m going to look back. i have a typing errors about the returning visit experience of ex-tirak. i,m not going to experience it. i came to realise that after 2 yrs of relationship, she finally showed her true colors of $$$. I would rather wear a green helmet as a lover than being a husband. i have true love for her but her actions awaken me. i don mind things that happened yesterday but just hope there is no second time. to flashback the actions that i've done, it's very stupid of me. i would say i,m KIASU for the last 2.5 yrs. the sponsorship is by not letting her to share her pussy with others. when i think back, she might or she did which i don have a clue. since i ,m now fresh and surfing this forum so often, just feel so ashamed of my stupidity that a monthly allowance of 40000 baht excluding gifts and vacation that only only subcribed for roughly abt 80 nites.besides, the love and trust i commited is my greatest loss. it's an unforgetting experience but it make me stronger and smarter. many thanks to all the samster here for all the positive and negative comments.

bro magicafe let bygones be bygones. Just count yourself unlucky lor you
your ex-tirak very 高手 you must be strong 男儿 当 自强 . Have money 不 害 怕 no gals. 放开那些事与愿违, 放开那些是是非非,转过身已走.
Give yourself a break from thailand go another country to see see and look look confirm will make you better as a tourist right. Try 放开你的心 we guys must be 铁心. after Sometimes you will feel 突然累了 . Don't brood over the money spent on her that will make you even 痛 心. Treat it as donation to Durai lor not only you kena con some of us also suffer the same fate by him. 别继续 深陷 have a good thought and do some soul searching about your next goal in life. 失眠这几夜忘掉那些曾经依偎 , 忘掉那些温柔相随.