woes of a tirak

[siamcutey]

[QUOTE=magicafe]

Originally Posted by rick924

True enough....sentance in bold is the root of all problem arising from tirakship..even for me....Found her sweet gentle and super GF feeling..which I dont find it from my previous relationship at all....

the most lethal Wl are those submissive type. while those aggressive type usually don't make us fall for them. watch out !! for the next visit. 555

On the contrary, God Probably knew that submissive ones will not pull me in, so let me met a aggressive one and that proved rather lethal for me.

hahaha
SC

[ABCinSG]

Personally, I am quite imprevious to the whole GF feeling thing already, or maybe it's because my attention is currently on my favorite. The other girl I called for when my favorite wasn't around tried hard, but I guess just didn't cut it.

I went to see my favorite recently and she told me she would be going off in 4 months, because she couldn't take her boss. I have to say, I did feel a little sad at the beginning because well, I will have to find another favorite. But then, thats the exciting part... back to wandering around, and not getting stuck to a particular house.

Shes G9 from WH10 if anyone is curious, so if she is your "favorite" or tirak, well, I guess you already know that.

[suteerak1099]

gf feeling, the root of the problem?? there's actually many ways of looking at it, not sure how many would agree or oppose...just to site a few (of the infinite permutations) i can think of momentarily:

the manja (translates:attention seeking) expressions: is something natural, regardless any gal from any background watsoever, has the tendency to 撒娇 aka play coy. cant say they play act for sure, bcos if they were... then perhaps some of them can really give the hollywood celebs a gd run for the $$$. it has to come natural (i doubt how convincing the act could be, if she encounters a walk-in who resembles some misfit)

the tears effect: deadly weapon of gals again regardless of background/stature. when that tear trickle down those cheeks (as composed in Alex To's song: "...每一滴都那么珍贵...")... many of us go jelly in the knees (then the manly nature of showing some TLC reveals)

tarehk syndrome (happy call , not happy dun call): its already widely practiced across many common relationships (since history probably 1st recorded), wat more to expect from those with busy schedules and long cold-call list? whether or not she makes the extra effort in calling or not, there's always the hidden rule for the man to be initiating certain things.

sounding retreat: its not something to be ashamed about, maybe a pity for some. but at the end of the day, it could be due to several reasons that some have either overlooked or ignored. she's not ready to settle down, she's got issues to resolve prior to the life-long commitment, she's not certain the guy is infatuated or love her for her or just her privates, she's bearing some inferiority complex that she doesnt deserve 1 such as u, she wants to put everything of the past (including the guyssssss behind) and start afresh... etc... too many thoughts beyond our capacity to fathom.

before i sound like i'm being conclusive... i'm trying to adopt a neutral viewpoint... dun get too personal just yet. at the end, its pretty much like a "choose ur own adventure" series. results be it a win-win, win-lose, lose-lose situation, its up to the 2 to do their own discovery.

just bear 1 thing in mind: 爱情不能做比较. let not other's acheivements/failure impact ur's, it is afterall a different/unique individual u're encountering/engaging. heed the advise as reference, do ur own judgement, make ur own decisions, run ur own life...

[kangkang_tw]

挖 拷! 嫖 妓 还 有 这 么 多 花 样
Ar ni kuan 瓦 马tio bey 虚 心 受 教

[kangkang_tw]

Ar boh lui, kong hiar mee mah boh lor eng .. tio urm tio?
(if no $, talk wat thing also no use .. correct ?)

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by kangkang_tw

Ar boh lui, kong hiar mee mah boh lor eng .. tio urm tio?
(if no $, talk wat thing also no use .. correct ?)

群众不一定是吃情汉，但也未必是钢铁般的男子。无论男或女，都是娘生爹养的 - 心同样都是肉, 感应得到：喜怒哀乐悲欢离合 等等等
(vast majority may not be pure suckers, nor r their hearts tempered. man or woman the same, hearts made of flesh and subject to experience sorts of emotions)

“钱“不是万能，但没“钱”更是万万不能。千万记住：许多天下事物，能用钱解决，或买下，但有些东西偏偏就 是物价- 在大的叫价，在大的支票......盛不过：诚意，诊治，真心。
($ isnt omnipotent, without $ many things impossible. remember this: many things can be resolved or purchased, but somethings just r priceless - no matter wat the calling price, figures on the cheque......cant supercede: sincerity, constance, true heart)

somethings just have to be demonstrated and proven over time and actions, somethings just happen to be harder to achieve...

[kangkang_tw]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

群众不一定是吃情汉，但也未必是钢铁般的男子。无论男或女，都是娘生爹养的 - 心同样都是肉, 感应得到：喜怒哀乐悲欢离合 等等等

你 要 我 吟 颂 李 清 照 的 诗 词 吗？

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

但有些东西偏偏就是物价- 在大的叫价，在大的支票......盛不过：诚意，诊治，真心。
...

这 番 话, 你 去 跟 你 的 女 神 sorry, should be 神 女 讲, 看 她 有 什 么 反 应

[kangkang_tw]

Originally Posted by +++++++for

your tirak has already gone back to thailand.
can you update us on what is happening to your tirakship now?

how you know?

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by kangkang_tw

风 尘 女 子 .... 玩 了, 就 忘 了 算 了.
还 要 谈 论 婚 嫁 娶 进 门, 在 台 湾 是 很 tiew 脸 的

you have your point too. Sometime want to get married also cannot or chose

to leave her also cannot. 向左走向右走 also blur. 爱 上 with a WLs very chum

leh. 忘了忘不了 Recent incident with a FL make me damn busy and confused.

Tell me she feeling tired working show me a sad face think must be hinting to

me probably want me to bao her or wat shit but never say out think 最好是手

放开 before things get complicated. She have to send money to 爸爸妈妈 ,

grandfather and support siblings for education, a daughter (shot-gun

affair with a married man). Maybe she is a 披着羊皮的狼 because previously

married to a Jap. Better 小 心 when a WL address you as tirak say miss u lah

nothing is free hor. Friends warned me say i eat full too free nothing to do

why want to get involve with the WL for wat . So i better run fast and forget

[kangkang_tw]

Originally Posted by LengKia

you have your point too. Sometime want to get married also cannot or chose

Maybe she is a 披着羊皮的狼 because previously
married to a Jap. Better 小 心 when a WL address you as tirak say miss u lah
nothing is free hor. Friends warned me say i eat full too free nothing to do
why want to get involve with the WL for wat . So i better run fast and forget

烟 花 之 地, 有 如 南 柯 一 梦
风 尘 青 搂, 宛 若 过 往 云 烟

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by kangkang_tw

烟 花 之 地, 有 如 南 柯 一 梦
风 尘 青 搂, 宛 若 过 往 云 烟

风 尘 的世界伤害在所难免

very profound can enlighten?

[kangkang_tw]

Originally Posted by LengKia

风 尘 的世界伤害在所难免

very profound can enlighten?

the gals in this line are selling their body & emotions .. to many men, day in day out. Hence, bounds to be easily hurt.

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by kangkang_tw

烟 花 之 地, 有 如 南 柯 一 梦
风 尘 青 搂, 宛 若 过 往 云 烟

bro no lah this one more profound

don't understand

[kangkang_tw]

Originally Posted by LengKia

bro no lah this one more profound

don't understand

nbzz ... next time say properly lah .. hai wa malu

烟 花 之 地, 有 如 南 柯 一 梦
- last time those brothels got ppl smoke opium and the customers like to send flower boards to the ang pai .. thats why brothels care called 烟 花 之 地
- 有 如 南 柯 一 梦 = its like a dream, end up must awake

风 尘 青 搂, 宛 若 过 往 云 烟
- 风 尘 青 搂 = also brothels lah
it means the gals survive hardship in this line as in they must face strong wind and dirt
宛 若 过 往 云 烟 = similiar to passed by wind/hays, a while only, its gone.

[magicafe]

Originally Posted by LengKia

you have your point too. Sometime want to get married also cannot or chose

to leave her also cannot. 向左走向右走 also blur. 爱 上 with a WLs very chum

leh. 忘了忘不了 Recent incident with a FL make me damn busy and confused.

Tell me she feeling tired working show me a sad face think must be hinting to

me probably want me to bao her or wat shit but never say out think 最好是手

放开 before things get complicated. She have to send money to 爸爸妈妈 ,

grandfather and support siblings for education, a daughter (shot-gun

affair with a married man). Maybe she is a 披着羊皮的狼 because previously

married to a Jap. Better 小 心 when a WL address you as tirak say miss u lah

nothing is free hor. Friends warned me say i eat full too free nothing to do

why want to get involve with the WL for wat . So i better run fast and forget

Bro lengkia,
you're a lucky man. you encountered aggressive WL that straightforward come to the point of hinting about financial aids or sponsorship.As for me, i,m not that lucky cos i met a submissive type of WL that gave me a feelings that $$$ cannot buy. and proceed to the next stage that i,m willing to answer to demand. i can still recall the advice of Bro Sc given to me 8 mths ago that i didn't take. i proceeded with hope but it turned to be an illusion. too bad i have spent another 6 mth to realised it is time to open the door and left for good. i wonder how many samsters with ex-tirak return as a client for their services after a lay off for severval month. i mean the feeling and treatment. i haven't try yet but am going going to do so. please share the experience for those bro who have tried.