Gers Are Still Gers

[suteerak1099]

“男人不坏，女人不爱” whether gals really prefer the bad guy over the good guy remains a mystery, cos they seem to want both at times.... seems to me, they want the bad guy to change & have the qualities of the good guy.

they tend to associate good guys with the word "boring", when the problem only lies within themselves, because good guys can have a sense of humor, and can occassionally be naughty too. just that they never gave it much thought.

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

“男人不坏，女人不爱” whether gals really prefer the bad guy over the good guy remains a mystery, cos they seem to want both at times.... seems to me, they want the bad guy to change & have the qualities of the good guy.

Contradiction isn't it?! That's women I supposed. Haha, we men too contradict as well. We always want to find a gf/wife who is attractive and well-mannered. Anyway, everyone lives their own lives. No one is perfect.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Contradiction isn't it?! That's women I supposed. Haha, we men too contradict as well. We always want to find a gf/wife who is attractive and well-mannered. Anyway, everyone lives their own lives. No one is perfect.

indeed noone's perfect, but there being the irony of wanting the best of both worlds can really be disturbing. its just like someone's changing the objective ever so often.... 1 moment want A, next moment want B. they cant make up their minds, and i believe by now, many would agree that women dunno how to compromise.

ideally, she wants the man to be rich so as to supplement her extravagant expenditures on luxuries, so she can look good (indirectly make her man look good), yet she demands his; unfailing love, undying fidelity, undivided attention... etc.

factually, such species of men are rare, probably extinct, or urban legend, unless he strikes jackpot & has loads of expendable cash for her indulgence.

woman... sigh.. cant live with them.. cant live without them...

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Funny? I prefer hysterical though. Too many a time I find their actions impossible to comprehend, or perhaps we are too shallow. Life been not too kind to us already, I find it rather exhausting to play mind readimg.

We aren't shallow. Women are just unimaginable with the way they do things, while being able to get away with their crap.

Ever remember reading this, "Crying is blackmail", yet women do this all the time. Ever heard of this, "When God created earth, he rested. When He created man, He rested. Ever since God created woman, neither God nor man has rested."

I'm exhuasted in this quest to understand the cryptic ways of a women. Lets not even talk about materialistic females. sigh.... I blew a thick wad of cash on a gal that other day, on a date. After that, never heard from her again. MSN never reply. It was like wtf. Amount of $$ burnt on a simple date was enough for a week's worth of petrol. At least, now know she cannot date liao.

A friend (older guy) was saying that dating is a kind of investment to find out more about a gal. But, after that silly date, I find that dates are only to uncover where are the bottomless pits. ie, so that u won't end up committing to a bottomless pit for good.... (ermmm) I mean for an eternity.

If only, can test out the gal's "performance" while dating her. lol. That would be perfect, don't have to guess her dimensions and exhuast decibel. After all, when get married, cannot complain that the decibel too soft or no power. hehehe.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by mptan

But at the end of the day, when we need help or somebody that we can trust, they are the one that is beside us and never play us out. That is the beauty of it.

Its something so simple, yet so hard to find.

Some said that it takes time. Others said its about opportunity. Many said its fate. The exceptional (including moi) don't have any of the above.

The only thing that I can trust..... and its always around when I need it ..... it had never played me out ....... whats that ..... its money. Its there when I need to go pak tor/ buy flowers/ get a new coat/ get a car/ call the gal. It has never failed me and does everything for me, really.

Sad, but true.

[asdfghjkl]

hard to find a girl that can be trusted ler..

[tomleo]

I ask one of my female friend(from other country studying in same university) for dinner ( i study oversea), she ask a entire group of people to go..then i ask her

me: eh why,cannot have a meal with me one to one is it?
Girl: I dun want to take risk
me: What risk
Girl: Yr gf lor..Nt good, cos i Noe her pattern too well already and she my best friend
me: O..ok
Girl: My rule of thumb is never to go near guys with gf
me: Ok..guess our relationship as friends up to this point is via msn
Girl: Haha..Eh u say u want to bring me around Singapore when i come over
Must ask yr gf for permission first whether i can stay over and u bring
me around k?
me: What the hell, go for dinner say until like that already, still want to come singapore stay my place and ask me to bring u around..isn't that breaking yr rule of thumb. Somemore ask me to ask my gf for permission when u know her so well what her answer will be.

[jng1103]

Few weeks ago, I went to China/CP for some kinky fun. When I came back to sillypore, I shared some of my experiences with her (certainly NOT those explicit details).

Upon sharing, I told her that the world has changed and China women (very pretty and young) are easily accessible especially at those poor provinces. We are no longer needed to face the never-ended-demand from sillypore women and our sillypore govt supported the inter-country marriage (not those fake marriages) to increase our populations. (Hope I get the facts right hehe...) I warned her that men will no longer tolerate their stuck up attitudes and high maintenance. We can just walk off and marry those superb young and pretty china lady. yes, there are cases where men are cheated by them.

I did all these to prevent my OC shitting on my head and pull my nose around. Contigency plan... mah

jimbo

[stroker68]

Originally Posted by pary

Seems like many had such experiences before..

Having known the response to the question "What do you want to eat?" I asked this instead.

Me: What do you don't want to eat? Rice or Noodles?
Wife: Er..don't want rice
Me: Ok, so anything with noodles is fine?
Wife: Yes
Me: Soup or dry?
Wife: Anything

In the end, we still couldn't find out what she really wants.

I think whats worse is that after you order the food, say dry noodles, and bring it back to the table,

She says :"Ayiah, i prefer soup leh"

murphy's law at it's best man!

I kena dunno how many times liao.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by jng1103

...I did all these to prevent my OC shitting on my head and pull my nose around. Contigency plan... mah

jimbo

its quite funny i find. some gals (highly noticeable in many sg gals)will treat the guy like shit while they're together, expect the bf/hubby to be faithful. then when the guy treats her cold (sometimes due to stress), she's jealous & suspects the guy to be flirting outside the relationship, turn the whole world upside down 没完没了

and when she loses the guy for good, as he's moved on to find a better partner... she'd 一哭，二闹， 三上钓... cry until the eyes like swollen humjimpeng, some to the extent where she'd draw a few lines on the wrist to say she attempted suicide, but didnt die bcos somebody was coincidently around to intervene...etc.

and for some extreme ones, will go thru all means to destroy/wreck the new found relationship for the ex & new squeeze. i.e.:
1. call the ex for no apparent reason so as to sow jealousy in the new squeeze
2. create a scene at the ex's residence & seek empathy from the family & neighbors
3. threaten harm to the new squeeze, and claim the relationship not ended yet.
4. get family & relatives to drop in on the ex's family & make a scene; citing suicide as the cause of concern
5. summon her friends to call the ex & lecture him on being heartless to end the relationship...etc

too many scenarios that i've seen & heard about. too much drama series i think.

seems to me, they like to quote stephen chow 《西游记-之-仙陆奇元》: “承经有一份真诚的恋情我不懂得珍惜，直到这段感情没了，我才后悔莫及。若能给我一个机会再来一次的话，我 会对他说“我爱你”，若要我在这段感情限上一个限期的话，我希望会是亿万年！”

Originally Posted by jng1103

Few weeks ago, I went to China/CP for some kinky fun. When I came back to sillypore, I shared some of my experiences with her (certainly NOT those explicit details).

Upon sharing, I told her that the world has changed and China women (very pretty and young) are easily accessible especially at those poor provinces. We are no longer needed to face the never-ended-demand from sillypore women and our sillypore govt supported the inter-country marriage (not those fake marriages) to increase our populations. (Hope I get the facts right hehe...) I warned her that men will no longer tolerate their stuck up attitudes and high maintenance. We can just walk off and marry those superb young and pretty china lady. yes, there are cases where men are cheated by them.

I did all these to prevent my OC shitting on my head and pull my nose around. Contigency plan... mah

jimbo

faster dumped your sillipore gf lah, why you still hanging on to her?

why do you still need your sillipore gf as contingency when there are so many syt in china, thailand , vietnam????

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

its quite funny i find. some gals (highly noticeable in many sg gals)will treat the guy like shit while they're together, expect the bf/hubby to be faithful. then when the guy treats her cold (sometimes due to stress), she's jealous & suspects the guy to be flirting outside the relationship, turn the whole world upside down 没完没了

wah....you must have dated alot of non sg girls to say that.

so which country's girls is the best (other than sillipore ones)

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by stroker68

I think whats worse is that after you order the food, say dry noodles, and bring it back to the table,

She says :"Ayiah, i prefer soup leh"

murphy's law at it's best man!

I kena dunno how many times liao.

not to mention, she'd demand that you have it changed, and meanwhile, give you the "you'd get hell from me if you dont comply" face. when trying to pamper her, she just looks away like she's deaf & mute.

so, being gentleman & don't wanna spoil the day, you get up & re-join the queue to get her the soup noodles, return to the table to find her burying her face in the dry noodles.

she look up & say, i only wanted to try since it looked quite delicious. (already boiling inside) you calmly sit and give her the souped noodles, she says she's full already, and you can have it for yourself. to top it off with icing & cherry on the cake... she excuses herself to go to the loo, but never returned.

you finished the noodles, call her to ask where she was, she says she's busy trying out some clothes at the department store.

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by Red_Perrier1099

faster dumped your sillipore gf lah, why you still hanging on to her?

why do you still need your sillipore gf as contingency when there are so many syt in china, thailand , vietnam????

Well said. I suppose when I could have the best world, why would I rush into making the decision now? In another words, I'm earning money in SGD$, why would I rush back to Msia now? Why not enjoy the both world and monitor the situations till it last?

Only fools rush in...

jimbo

[alant998]

Originally Posted by caycan

When you plan your wedding, consider this...

the Rule of 72.

Basically, it's a quick and easy way to figure out how fast an investment will double, with a certain interest rate.

So, let's say you got an investment earning you 10%. 72/10 = 7 years.
So if you took some money and invested it @ 10% and never touched it for 7 years, it would double.

So if your wedding cost $20,000 and you invested it instead, 7 years later, that $20,000 would become $40,000.

Another 7 years later, and it becomes $80,000.

Another 7, $160,000.

Another 7, $320,000.

Another 7, $640,000.

So let's say a young chap decides to put off marriage and start investing instead @ 25 years old. By the time he's 60 years old, he'd be $640,000 better off. Just because he decided not to spend $20,000 on marriage when he was 25.

Now of course, here's when it comes really useful: your ger really wants to get married and spend over $40,000 of your money.

Save $20,000, invest it at 10% per year, don't touch it and you'll be better off by $640,000 35 years later.

Something to think about, samsters....

if you spend 20k for your wedding dinner, you will recoup some/most through ang bao lah. So, whats the big deal??