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mềnh - refers to a person dont think and be saddened further oh my! or (Oh my god!) good/better things will come to mềnh all these things are choking enough already be diligent about living well like what others have told you truth or lies, it is of no use arguing.. |
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Leave your comfort zone on the road to personal growth
================================================== ============================= VietNamNet Bridge – Life as an expat can be unbelievably comfortable. Many of us are incredibly fortunate in that our standard of living in Viet Nam is higher than in the places we left behind. The weather is better (for me as a Scot at least!), beer is cheaper than water and plush apartments are affordable for most. It is all too easy to fall into the cosy routine of work, beers, and Western comforts. Sure, moving to a different country to start a new life is daunting, and it took me a while to get settled. In those initial weeks the expat community and the availability of Western comforts were crucial. Most people I came across had once had the exact same questions when they arrived: How cold does winter actually get? Where can I buy good cheese? What is the appropriate amount of money to give at a wedding? But after a while I was bored of it. I decided I had had enough of sticking to my comfortable routine of work - bia hoi - bed. It was time to make use of the fantastic range of activities and leisurely pursuits available. So six months down the line I can look back at a whole new set of hobbies that Viet Nam has provided me with: ballroom dancing in parks, taking ballet classes (which after a 12-year break was an incredibly painful thing to get back into), joining a Gaelic football team, learning to knit and sew, signing up for French lessons and attending classical concerts at the opera house. And I'm not the only one experimenting! I have met a bunch of people who have decided to take up new hobbies and explore new activities, from film photography and long boarding, to Kung Fu and hiphop dancing. So what is it about being an expat in Viet Nam that inspires us to take up new challenges and explore the vast entertainment options? I think for me personally it is the feeling that every single day is full of surprises and challenges. During one single day my mood varies tremendously based on the experiences I make: in one moment, I'm happy because I finally didn't get ripped off at the market, the next, I'm grumpy because I got a bucket of dirty water flung at me (by mistake) walking down my street. If I charted my feelings throughout the day, it would resemble a roller-coaster ride! Here, I stick out like a sore thumb – I'm incredibly pale (summers don't really exist in Scotland), am unfortunately not blessed with Vietnamese slimness, I refuse to learn to drive a motorbike (one day!) and am still very wobbly on my brightly-painted bicycle. I've spent close to a year in Viet Nam now, both in Hue and in Ha Noi, and I reckon even after 10 years in Viet Nam I would still feel like I didn't fit in properly. And that is half the fun: the feeling you get when you master new things - that sense of accomplishment - even if it is only ordering a taxi to the right address despite terrible pronunciation, is worth it. Feeling lost, and out of depth provides a unique opportunity to step out of your comfort zone and fully embrace the fact that you have no idea what you are doing. Being an expat here has taught me to laugh about myself and to accept my many shortcomings: my clumsiness with words (and traffic!), my lack of orientation and the fact that I look like a complete idiot when I occasionally do muster up the courage to go for a run around Hoan Kiem Lake. It reminds me of being a kid again – the first time you show up to basketball practice and get the ball in the face, the first time you fall of your bike when you take of your stabiliser wheels, the first time you give a wrong answer in front of the whole class. Humiliating, at first. But once you move beyond the discomfort of trying something new, of putting yourself out there, you get the hang of it. And maybe even get really good at it. Leaving your comfort zone makes room for personal growth and self-exploration. In a way, stepping out into the great Unknown teaches us about ourselves and the people around us. It is never too late to learn a new skill, and the mix of nationalities, talents and cultures coming together here in Viet Nam provides us with ample opportunities to challenge ourselves. So get up off that tiny plastic stool, finish your beer and try something new. Embrace your inner awkward, it's worth it! by Amy Louisa Cowan
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Reflections on Hanoi
================================ VietNamNet Bridge – After a few months in Hanoi, Ounkham Pimmata considers the differences between his hometown of Vientiane and Vietnam’s capital city. When you make the jump from sleepy Vientiane to Hanoi, life becomes more exciting-whether it’s adjusting to the food, or something as simple as pulling up one of the tiny plastic chairs that dot the city’s sidewalks. For some people, mountain climbing gives an adrenaline rush, while for others, it’s all about bungee jumping; however, my main thrill now comes from risking my life every time I cross a road in Hanoi. Drivers here won’t stop at a pedestrian crossing, no matter how long you wait. When I arrived I was told that you’ll never make it across if you don’t have the courage to step forward and not look back. And that has proven true. The cars and motorbikes will all swerve around a crossing pedestrian, so long as they move at a steady pace. I have also been surprised to see many older people crossing the street without drivers stopping to let them pass. There isn’t the same respect for the elderly in Hanoi as in Laos. I often question how anyone with a weak heart can handle the constant and stressful presence of motorbike horns. In Laos using a horn is impolite. Thai people honk to indicate their approach or out of frustration, while in the Philippines drivers may use the horn when they’re in a hurry, but here it seems to be used at random. And constantly. What rules? If you’re not born and bred in the country, driving can be a serious risk as most motorists never signal when they turn. Drivers regularly pull out in front of you without warning and just a momentary lapse of concentration can lead to a serious accident. A Vietnamese friend told me riding a bicycle might be safer as it would give me more control, but I suspect the risk would be the same-most drivers just ignore the road rules and no amount of control makes that safer. My Filipino friend drove for years in his hometown without an accident, but a lack of understanding about driving in Hanoi caused him to crash while riding his bicycle to work. The papers often carry reports of foreigners being involved in accidents, but comprehensive crash statistics are not available. I often consider giving up on my motorbike and travelling by bus or taxi instead-services which are considerably cheaper than in Vientiane. Buses cost VND5,000 per ride, while metered taxis start from VND8,000. Thanh Nga and Sao Hanoi are my preferred taxi services as the drivers are fair and the prices reasonable, unlike others that can cheat you on the meter. Peak hour traffic can jam the streets in Hanoi, but getting around is still easier than bigger cities like Bangkok or Jakarta. Mild food, simple eating Vietnamese food bears some similarities to that in Laos, in that both focus on herbs and vegetables, but the lack of spice and saltiness has made me homesick for papaya salad. The need for spicy food was a cause for concern, but I have discovered most restaurants will cater to my tastes by adjusting some of Vietnam’s staple meals-pho (noodle soup) and bun cha (rice noodles with grilled pork)-by adding chili. Pho is a popular breakfast and dinner food in Hanoi and has been an integral part of Vietnamese culture since the early 20th century. One friend told me you haven’t really arrived in Vietnam until you’ve had a bowl of pho-the same as we would say about laab and sticky rice in Laos. With pho eateries plentiful across the city, it’s pretty hard to miss out on the dish. People are easy-going with their eating in Hanoi, often just sitting around the sidewalk on plastic chairs while vendors offer food from pots on small tables. The relaxed style of eating is in contrast to the lifestyle of the Vietnamese. Many people are so focused on their work and study they forget to smile and chat. Some Vietnamese people are very friendly, but sometimes an extra smile would go a long way to easing a strained situation. By contrast, life in Laos is slow and smiles come readily, however, I worry that will die out once the Asean Economic Community begins and competition increases. When the pho gets too much or you want a change from the sidewalk eating, Hanoi is also home to world-class restaurants and an abundance of international fast food chains. A healthy nightlife Hanoi’s nightlife makes forming friendships a breeze. Bars line the streets, people sit on plastic chairs having a drink and it’s easy to open up to a stranger and get chatting. There’s plenty of variety in the social scene-quiet roadside bars for a casual drink, more classy establishments for a glass of wine, a hotel bar for the real top-end drinkers, or live music cafes for those looking for a bit of atmosphere. Drinking here is at a social level. Younger locals have a single beer or a fruit shake when they meet up. It’s different from the Lao way-one bottle to warm up, 10 to get the night going. It offers me some encouragement to drink less, but then again, Vietnam reportedly has one of the highest beer consumption rates in the world. With a population of 90 million that drinks daily, I wouldn’t be surprised. Most of Hanoi’s nightlife is centred around Hoan Kiem Lake and the Old Quarter. Bars, cafes and nightclubs in close proximity to each other ensure a good night out. It is relatively safe to travel at night and the beer is reasonably priced. Plus, there’s the excitement of hurriedly moving from the sidewalk into the bar when police arrive. Local authorities don’t allow chairs on the pavement, as it hinders the city’s clean-up plans. That said, it’s always amusing when, the moment the police have disappeared, the sidewalk scene resumes as normal and Hanoi becomes itself again. Source: VIR/VOV
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Hi every bros here! Have not being active in this forum for Very long time because of some sad stories happened between me and my Viet Gf early this year.. I recently have luck getting a Gf from recommendation from a Viet girl friend.. so this makes me active again in this topic.. although she is very Good in speaking mandarin but some times I likes to use some simple viet language from this forum as a way to communicate with her..
Just come across a word Where I unable to Understand the translate from Google and vdict.. Anh yêu ngu ngon nhe Many sifu here I'm too impress and feel you guys are really an experts in Viets. Hopefully to learn more from u guys |
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Other than Anh yeu. You may also heard about Em yeu, Con yeu, Me yeu, Ban yeu, etc ......
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Wow! Thanks alot BRO! I have learn alot of knowledge here for about 1yr plus in this SBF forum... I have studied from all the postings regarding about Vietnamese experienced by many bros here when I met my 1st Viet Gf last year ...
For yours info.. I already married n wife is local.. the only problem I have now is I really really dunno why I'm so Very attracted to Vietnamese girl ever since I have my 1st encounter with my 1st Viet Gf... Now my 2nd Viet Gf loves me more than the 1st Gf n before that I also have told my 2nd Gf that I'm already married.. I'm actually now very confused and stucked cos I love my wife Very much but I love my current Gf too... |
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are you referring to this thread...http://sammyboy.today/showthread.php?t=64297 why dun you re-post in the Vietnamese Life Partner thread...sure many will comment there...
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Damn turn off.
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wow...what a turn off...for me my little bro will loose interest very fast...haha...no way to bonk anymore if any gal to pick nose while bonking...
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Hehehe.. I actually I have browse through nearly all the posted topic in this SBF page n I did learn alot of stuffs from Understanding Vietnamese Partner and Tieng Viet lovers club.. there is 1 time dat my wife suspected I have a viet mistress cos she saw me browsing SBF pages and forums about Viet everyday and stucked with the same pages for many hours.. now I only trying to login when she is not around with me
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Totally a turn off, I think when I saw that, my bro will just get soften and I got no mood to bomk her anymore
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