Today at east area, feeling bored so decided to text one of the girl... Replied and say she is free now, fast hand fast leg drive to her condo.. Went up and she's waiting for me at the staircase.. The rest is history
I really admire you n have a lot to learn from you. salute.
I had been camping here recently and and very new to this adventure. Just tried the social media as mention by senior bros and manage to chat up 2 pinoy helpers. hope will strike some good scores with either 1 of them..
I had been camping here recently and and very new to this adventure. Just tried the social media as mention by senior bros and manage to chat up 2 pinoy helpers. hope will strike some good scores with either 1 of them..
u definitely will strike if u put in a little bit more effort. what they want is money, their family treat them as money tree, keep asking them sent money every week. they treat their family as king n they will do anything to sent them money. maybe u can do some research on what their family think abt them as a woman come here work as DH n also wat is life like when very poor.
Btw, would you guys tell them the truth that you're married if they ask? Any advise?
I say single n available. y be serious, when wat u want is cheap sex. if u dun do it, other will do it. to them, all r the same. I think now there is a trend 20s young chick searching for 50s man. obviously is abt money n marriage.
Well...u are kind of ignorant here. U think everything will be solved when the maid is sent back after getting pregnant?! It's just the start of your nightmare! She will come back for a paternity test and if proven that the child is yours, u have to pay for their living expenses....on a human note, they are also human beings and have feelings and physical needs. Having sex is mutually beneficial but at least treat them with respect. They earn their money through hard work and this alone deserves my respect. Your this very sentence "employers will send them back to their hometown. the guys will be relieved because no need to bear any responsibilities" really irks me
Not encouraging people to b irresponsible bt even if maid seek help from phillipines embassy, how on earth they can find ah Joe from sengkang north?
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Not keen now on exchanging pts. just want 2 post my views.
Not encouraging people to b irresponsible bt even if maid seek help from phillipines embassy, how on earth they can find ah Joe from sengkang north?
even if she seeks help, will she gets the help? or how on earth she knows who the man who impregnate her? or how she gets the money for DNA test when their family keep taking from them non stop? once they work here, no one in their hometown will believe she has no money. but I still think respect is a must. I always give respect, it is juz they feel inferior in front of me. also cannot over respect, if not they climb to your head n urinate.
hi guys, i juz do a wechat nearby search. can find maid already. they so fast response n found out is maid. they are really aggressive, in everywhere to get hunt. my gosh, will there be enough bro to cater for them or not.
Well...u are kind of ignorant here. U think everything will be solved when the maid is sent back after getting pregnant?! It's just the start of your nightmare! She will come back for a paternity test and if proven that the child is yours, u have to pay for their living expenses....
Relax bro, I do agree that is it very and extremely wrong and immoral to have the fire and forget attitude, let me put in reality
in cases I know, of friends who got maids pregnant, and one or two were guys visiting Singapore, and a weekend picked up their dates
most cases, the girls get the guy to abort, or some cases, the girls get 'another' guy to pay for the abort. And trust me, quite a few girls know the clinics, and also the medication to induce, and they are not that dumb on that score
In few cases where the maid decided not to abort, claiming it is against the relgiion, but I am sure it is because they wanted an exotic baby of mixed blood (mixed blood in PH = big time money spinner as movie star and what not - a way out of poverty .. )
And in the second case, I know a couple of guys, who felt very bad and wanted to support the child, but the stubborn girls said no, and maybe by that time they found a foreign returnee of their own country who became a knight in shining armor
Back to maintenance etc ? Never heard of any. Though quite a few maids are sent back by employer or agent.
And I may be wrong, add to the above two reason, I suspect the girls don't want the father involved anymore, example, if the father is Bangla - means the child must become muslim etc. etc. I can't say the same if the girl gets preg by a Singaporean, or she finds a legal advisor to work her way .. you never know who i advising who
And the culture specially in Ph is forgiving, so the family and relatives will welcome the bastard child.
Again, just because it is ok to the girl don't mean you should become a bastard yourself, if you plant the seed, pay for the upkeep.
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Bro LaoNui, I totally agree with you. Dunno why so many guys wanna go raw and shoot inside the maids. That is so irresponsible. The guys should respect the maids and not to screw them but if they really do then they must take responsibility if ever they get pregnant. Those single guys must marry them and for those that are married, they must divorce their wives and then marry the maids. Ultimately, it is best not to screw the maids lah. They come to SG to work and earn money to send home, not to get screwed here.