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Re: To stay in or out of a relationship with a KTV gal
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Just hope that by sharing, Bros can be more alert and not fall into a KC trap. And worst still, if you truely loved her, you can't take the stress and pain that is associated with such a relationship. But I must also say, indeed there are some really nice PRC gals out there, but normally we wont be so lucky to meet them, its like kena TOTO
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In my case, as I just started out with her...and with so many advise from Bros here. I know I cannot fall in love with her and allowing her to continue to like me ( being a bastard here liao ). Right now, I can only accept the fact she will only be a special companion or a mistress. Hence I am trying to avoid replying to some of her sms. And when I did that, panicky from her part kicks in.....sometimes really felt like have to be a real bastard ie rather she be hurt then myself, kind of selfish feeling. Yea some PRC gals are real nice and sincere but who are we to know what's going on in their mind right ? |
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But others, just need to meet a mightier player to tear them apart...hahahaha To know what's goin on in their mind, you have to be a hardcore skeptic. To apply yourself as her...understand what she wants, desires etc...to put yourself in her mind...then you can see better liao. But if you're all clouded wif her affection, you cant see shit cos you're already blinded thus u will be in a confused state like u r in now my friend. If you can kenna KC by a gal at BS, I wonder what will happen if you start playing at the high end KTVs and HFJs where all the high hand KC players dwell in.
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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Hey from what I see....you avoid her sms, panicky, forcing yourself not to fall in love with her and turn to be a bastard......blah blah blah, hey u are KCed, and still are, and may go deeper - u din notice it only................if not, why avoid this avoid that, it should means nothing to you if you are not KCed. Maybe Bro DYBJ, Colins and fellow Grandmasters can analyzised the situation better for you - they are the GURUs.
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Dear Bro DYBJ,
>>But others, just need to meet a mightier player to tear them apart...hahahaha U could be one of the mightier one ..... haha. Kudos man !! >>To know what's goin on in their mind, you have to be a hardcore skeptic. To apply yourself as her...understand what she wants, desires etc...to put yourself in her mind...then you can see better liao. But if you're all clouded wif her affection, you cant see shit cos you're already blinded thus u will be in a confused state like u r in now my friend. I am not blinded bro, I know what u mean bro DYBJ. I tried to put myself in her shoe b4, if i am her coming to singapore is to make money at all costs ...why bother to target this chap ( me ) and wasting so much time on him when there are thousands better out in the playing field. Out of love/comfort ? Out of loneliness ? Out of what ?? When she can go all out at high end KTVs to hook the lusty Tao kays and be kept as their mistress right ? why would she want to stick to a nobody like me leh and constantly wanting to meet me daily. This point I do not comprehend for sure. Is she nuts or what ? Or hoping to make me feel i own ( Kiam her ) alot ? Maybe should start torturing her abit psychologically. Don ans sms and phone calls.... see whats the reaction ? Ps : Some bros will call me bastard liao for sure...or kanna zap again. >>If you can kenna KC by a gal at BS, I wonder what will happen if you start playing at the high end KTVs and HFJs where all the high hand KC players dwell in. Wow too bad I am not in the league yet...hahaha. Also not keen to go high end. I am a C & G ( cheap and good ) man. Ke Ke ke... |
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Morning Bro,
>>Hey from what I see....you avoid her sms, panicky, forcing yourself not to fall in love with her and turn to be a bastard......blah blah blah, hey u are KCed, and still are, and may go deeper - u din notice it only................if not, why avoid this avoid that, it should means nothing to you if you are not KCed. I avoided her sms cos I wanted to test her reaction. Panicky is her...not me, for quite a few occasions, she almost freaked out and thought I dump her quietly. I cannot fall in love with her ( I am not single ). Can only be kept as mistress/companion. Avoiding can be a form of testing for her affection and so call love real bor !! I told her she wants to leave now, i am also fine with it...in fact happier cos I can go back to my own self.... more new gals and rubba sessions. Whats yr take on my views ? |
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The testing of her....that she freak out....makes you more shiok rite, like you have won her over etc......thats where you are KCed, you 'wanted' her already and you start to enjoy the feeling of 'she having a feeling for you'. If you are weak emotionally, you will be KCed. Just my personal views.
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Dear bro DTCEPL,
Great discussion there. >> many times we fall into KC traps unknowingly, and when she's gone, you will start to miss her and wanting to patch up with her instead, and many times you will freak out when she walks off from your life. The traps are there for us whenever we cheong..tats for sure. My sincere feeling is tat I just cherish her just like my beauty car, utilised her to the fullest but of cos with loving tender care. When I change car, she will be missed tats for sure ( I be lying if I am not ) but hey new car coming man !!! new gal also provides a new lease of life for sure. Ps : I will more freak out if my spouse walks off my life with my kids man than over this PRC babe !!! >>The testing of her....that she freak out....makes you more shiok rite, like you have won her over etc......thats where you are KCed, you 'wanted' her already and you start to enjoy the feeling of 'she having a feeling for you'. If you are weak emotionally, you will be KCed. Shiok in the sense that I could feel her kanjiongness and yes I wanted her badly when I am bonking her !!! Weak emotionally, I have been hard hearted if I wanted to...so no big deal here. Just don want to be cruel and hurt badly a real innocent babe her if she is really "sincere". It will definitely affect her future chance to fall in love or trust man over again. Just my 2 cents thought lor. happy weekend |
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Dun ans sms and phone calls...? small things bro. What so bastard abt that? Quoting BOSS , 'Good gals don't become whores' Their version, 'Good men don't become cheongsters' So if u wanna play, be mentally strong enough to be a bastard. (See the point i was not accepted inside jedi council, the dark side is strong in me. hahaha)
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Hello Bro XYZ,
Yea agree man...time will tell everything when it falls in place the full picture. Right now just enjoy the companionship lor. She bought me a 2nd gift recently....don know what tat means..to entrap me more into KC ? Told her don't have to get me anything, I am self sufficient. But I appreciate it as a form of affection from her. Kiam her liao lah....till now I never give any gift...wah haha. 2 weeks ago, she issued royal edict that when I cheong KTV...only her and no other gals allowed to sit with me with condition, I don't have to give her any tip. But if I sit any gals, I got to pay the number of gals tip ( eg 5 gals at 20 tip = 100 bucks ) plus I got to give her additional 100 bucks too. ( think she is trying to control and contain my lust to her only in this instance) Same reason like if I getting free bonk now...and prefer to pay for freelance or other KTV gals...why not pay her instead as extra allowances !!! Any views bro ? |
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Bro TS, like a lamb to the slaughter.....
Let me ask you this: What do you want from this relationship in the long run? Do you still think that the status quo will remain forever? Last, read my sig.
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Hi Bro cablesnwires,
I think 1st question I should go and post to her and see whats her ans. Will share with you guys soon. 2nd question u asked me : I do not think so....maybe she will find a better man very soon in near future who is single and avail to take good care of her like some of her flatmates ( have a boyfriend who can afford to feed her, settle all her basic needs and emotional needs, yet allow her to work to earn extra for self-keeping ). And I will not be that man, 100% sure. And she knows it herself before agreeing to fall into this situation as my companion. I think we had reached a common understanding tat my family comes 1st and if she finds someone more suitable ....feel free to move on. I cannot be so selfish to hold her back and I will not. That's my character too. Hope this explains my viewpoints after having much said and discussed. Jumbo |
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Wrest control back, show her who's boss....do what u want, do not let her be the game master....if she decides to leave, then fuck it...if not, then just carry on lor... |
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If you still have the reins, you can still see salvation......
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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Re: To stay in or out of a relationship with a KTV gal
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Anyway, wonder if Bro Fatjumbo is willin to tell me who this 神奇 gal is...not gonna go do anythin or talk to her...just wanna know who she is (from BS rite?) ...but then no obligations on ur part hor Bro Fatjumbo... U can always pm me if u dun wanna say it out in public |
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