stay together 1 or 2 mths.... then see the behaviour, habits... u can accept or nt...
likely u attracted to her intellect (super powerful), vice versa. the body n physical was a bonus. tell her your future plans, ask hers also. if gam... keep n sign the paper.
if u financially able, tell her settle down, but simple ceremony. 5 table (just close family n friends). b a man, disregard her family say u cheepo, u will thank me later. use that $ buy a nicer place etc.. if she rich or well to do, speak to her parents 1st... warning.. Parents In Law can b a deal breaker.. go with your heart, not your small head
never share your secret bank account n always keep in mind, day u settle down, woman get 50% of your known assets (including CPF), if she has a good lawyer.
if u just lust her.... n break... u may nvr get another chance.. 35 liao... tan simi lan...
Apologies for the lack of updates, some juicy pics to come this week, what kind of pictures of her would you guys like to see? Give me some ideas as fellow bros.
Apologies for the lack of updates, some juicy pics to come this week, what kind of pictures of her would you guys like to see? Give me some ideas as fellow bros.
do you dress her up in different outfits? like her recently graduated school uniform?
stay together 1 or 2 mths.... then see the behaviour, habits... u can accept or nt...
likely u attracted to her intellect (super powerful), vice versa. the body n physical was a bonus. tell her your future plans, ask hers also. if gam... keep n sign the paper.
if u financially able, tell her settle down, but simple ceremony. 5 table (just close family n friends). b a man, disregard her family say u cheepo, u will thank me later. use that $ buy a nicer place etc.. if she rich or well to do, speak to her parents 1st... warning.. Parents In Law can b a deal breaker.. go with your heart, not your small head
never share your secret bank account n always keep in mind, day u settle down, woman get 50% of your known assets (including CPF), if she has a good lawyer.
if u just lust her.... n break... u may nvr get another chance.. 35 liao... tan simi lan...
Great advice. As another uncle here who had played my fair share of younger girls, my 2 cents is, either she is really into mature men like you (your age gap is huge) or she dunno what she want/is doing (21 is still very young), so she is just going with the flow. If you do not want to marry her for XYZ reasons, then just keep it as fwb and dun invest too much emotions in it. I know it sounds bastard, but trust me, you will thank me later - a lot of these young girls are lost and just experimenting with older men because their peers - guys in their early 20s cannot make it, still acting like some fucking teenagers inside, no money, always talking about soccer, games etc. So, if you really want to live your life out with her, then marry her. Wife material? Good mother material? That’s reserved for individual men to judge. But my advice is, if all you have for her is lust, then just fuck her and expect her to ghost u when she changes her mind. Enjoy while it lasts. But if you love her as a person, a woman of your worth, time and energy, then keep her. If you dunno what u want, then keep it as fwb until it develops further into something tangible. All u need to do is to talk about future plans with her and observe her reaction. She might not be ready. She might want to pursue her life goals. Or she might just want to be with you and have your kids. If it is the former, are u willing to accept that and wait for her till u are in your 40s? Is it love or is it lust? Only you know that…
Great advice. As another uncle here who had played my fair share of younger girls, my 2 cents is, either she is really into mature men like you (your age gap is huge) or she dunno what she want/is doing (21 is still very young), so she is just going with the flow. If you do not want to marry her for XYZ reasons, then just keep it as fwb and dun invest too much emotions in it. I know it sounds bastard, but trust me, you will thank me later - a lot of these young girls are lost and just experimenting with older men because their peers - guys in their early 20s cannot make it, still acting like some fucking teenagers inside, no money, always talking about soccer, games etc. So, if you really want to live your life out with her, then marry her. Wife material? Good mother material? That’s reserved for individual men to judge. But my advice is, if all you have for her is lust, then just fuck her and expect her to ghost u when she changes her mind. Enjoy while it lasts. But if you love her as a person, a woman of your worth, time and energy, then keep her. If you dunno what u want, then keep it as fwb until it develops further into something tangible. All u need to do is to talk about future plans with her and observe her reaction. She might not be ready. She might want to pursue her life goals. Or she might just want to be with you and have your kids. If it is the former, are u willing to accept that and wait for her till u are in your 40s? Is it love or is it lust? Only you know that…
28-09-2024, 07:59 PM
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