Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 840

Golden question · #**12586** 08-01-2012, 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by lugi

This sum is insignificant to me. When I pass her the money, she say no need since not married and she will keep the money for me. Instead, she use part of it to pay for my hotel stay there.

Her parents also did not ask a single thing from me thus far, they are still busy raising money to build their house in the province. They hope I will not look down on them and would like to get the new house built before we hold the wedding there. Her dad actually did not want her to marry a foreigner, as he was worried about the social divide. But after he met me, he approved as he found me super keo kiet.. he like...

Good Good,hope everything goes well for u and not a baggage to u.Sometime the most important thing to marry a viet is not her,but her family cos most of them are tie down by their family in term of finance.

If u can find a understanding wife and understanding inlaw,everything will be smooth

V|ernar · #**12587** 09-01-2012, 02:50 AM

Talk about TET .. When I am with them and I had already voice out that I will not go to the TET to be god of wealth roi , so I had no this problem .

Give what you think it the correct amount to the MOTHER , the rest I don't really care if she want to give anot .

It about celebration together with family not giving money and gamble away freely , as these two days there won't be govt to catch them , they will gamble freely openly and heavily .

You pass money to them and expect them to give the family member , end up she did GIVE but in other form of way .. Lost to them on the table .

This is real story as brothers base in here told me .. So think wisely how much is enuff before spoiling them . This year 5 mil next year will be 10 mil

shysaint · #**12588** 09-01-2012, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Good luck bro. Update us from the Internet shop there.

NOw I use Vinaphone .. comes with data .. anytime can update

shysaint · #**12589** 09-01-2012, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by lugi

GF grandma tell GF ma to tell GF to ask me go for TET..

GF tell me straight off stay in Singapore...

I tell GF cam on for being understanding...

I say I will give a little money to them..

GF says u rich ah.. if want give.. give me...

Report finish roi..

hahahahh .....

shysaint · #**12590** 09-01-2012, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

Yurs is just GF now, so its ok not to go. If she is yur wife, her grandma, ma will be yur in laws. U still can no go n no give money?

Yeah .. By Right my wife says want to save $$$ and not going back until 9 FEb where we will be holding our Daughter's 1 year Old Birthday ...

BUT ...

M-I-L wanted me to go over as she said I never spent TET before in VN ... I think thats an excuse for my wife to go back .. NOT about giving AP ....

shysaint · #**12591** 09-01-2012, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

Yurs is just GF now, so its ok not to go. If she is yur wife, her grandma, ma will be yur in laws. U still can no go n no give money?

Yeah .. By Right my wife says want to save $$$ and not going back until 9 FEb where we will be holding our Daughter's 1 year Old Birthday ...

BUT ...

M-I-L wanted me to go over as she said I never spent TET before in VN ... I think thats an excuse to ask my wife to go back .. or maybe it's a SCAM !!! my wife wants to go back !!!

NOT about giving AP ....

SingViet · #**12592** 09-01-2012, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by lugi

if the kids don need to go school ok lah..
but in Sillypore only 2 days holiday, if the kids need to travel like this sibei tiring...

oh yes, good excuse for me to give. Education important, much more important than going back to province to waste time and money. Max go for 2 days.

Greatking · #**12593** 09-01-2012, 01:01 PM

Actually, when VB comes to Singapore to work in KTVs, they should be prepared to accept "Ong Xa" whom is not very rich... bcos in percentage, rich guys prefer to fling with China gals whom had no language barriers than VBs...

Those luckier ones, will find a relatively rich Ong Xa... but Looking at it, the chance not that high too

Hurricane88 · #**12594** 09-01-2012, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Greatking

Actually, when VB comes to Singapore to work in KTVs, they should be prepared to accept "Ong Xa" whom is not very rich... bcos in percentage, rich guys prefer to fling with China gals whom had no language barriers than VBs...

disagree with your observation...Vn wages only SGD 100 - 200 per month. The amount of money spent by Sinkie men in KTV is humongous amount...so to these VB working in KTV, how can they not try to find any foreigner men to bring them out of their poverty...

Sinkie men are VB number 1 choice now for them...mostly will pamper wife...

My advice to sinkie men....go Vn to choose a non WL or decent ger...dun choose these WL working in sinkie...

Golden question · #**12595** 09-01-2012, 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Greatking

Actually, when VB comes to Singapore to work in KTVs, they should be prepared to accept "Ong Xa" whom is not very rich... bcos in percentage, rich guys prefer to fling with China gals whom had no language barriers than VBs...

Those luckier ones, will find a relatively rich Ong Xa... but Looking at it, the chance not that high too

The true is they will start to spend their money earn here once they are back either build house,gambling,spend on luxury and etc.So ppl around them will start to ask and words are spread that singapore is a great place to earn fast money.Those tempted will start to come and try.But from the trend that they will come for the 2nd time means that there is a demand here.

So is not really about 'ong xa' here who is not very rich cos their main purpose is to come here to earn money.Finding a 'Ong Xa' here that is rich will not be on their mind first.

Their pathetic monthly salary of less that $200 USD as a waitress or a sale assistant there makes them come here

volcano · #**12596** 10-01-2012, 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by lugi

This sum is insignificant to me. When I pass her the money, she say no need since not married and she will keep the money for me. Instead, she use part of it to pay for my hotel stay there.

looks like u have found urself a good gf.....congrats!!!!......

lugi · #**12597** 10-01-2012, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by volcano

looks like u have found urself a good gf.....congrats!!!!......

Thanks, hope it stays thus way.
Just one gripe, she is jealous easily and likes to check on my whereabouts very frequently. Once she saw the QQ app on my iPhone and questioned me for hours how come I hv this and wants to know who all the gals are. Also stumbled onto my FB and she created an account and started adding my pretty friends

Other than this, she has not asked anything from me. So instead of giving her any money, I am paying for her English lessons. She us thrilled to bits as it is her dream to study again. She hopes that she can achieve IELTS 6, so that we can be more competent in quarreling with me.