Gers Are Still Gers

[Deep Blue]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

I mean no offense, but ur line is so blunt and reckless that I have to say something.

Yea, girls compare their bfs. But, have you thought of their basis for their comparison? Girls' bases for comparison aren't exactly the same as guys'.

PS: ur point form is truly "point form" like reading school notes.

There is nothing wrong in comparing but it must be compared apple to apple. What we bitch about are their behaviors and mindset. Their never ending demands had taken toll on many so hence the unpleasant comments we have here.

Look around here, there are many threads about lousy sex life after marriage, how to maintain the love drive etc, what is this all about? And whom are the ones voicing out? Many a times we try and did our part to solve the problem but it seems that the wives/GFs who are the ones who fail to realized the severity of the matters. Perhaps we are seen to be cant be bothered but then we are pretty rational when it comes to foreseeing the consequences if the problem persists. If they continue not to give a hoot about the problems, what else can we do? Most of the time, we buried ourselves in other forms or relief, be it commercial sex, luxurious toys or even work.

We need to channel our energy from somewhere, don’t we? As the big boys toys, we do it after serious considerations and mind you, this will keep us busy for a long time as well. For eg. A $600 PSP, compare to shoes, bags, clothes etc so which is more then? For us, a cake of soap is enough for a shower, for them, there is the shampoo, conditioner, facial foam, facial scrub, some “miracle” shower gel, body scrub, etc. Also, hot water is a must. Take a look at the cost and time, water and electricity consume? If you ever gonna question them, the usual reply is “Well, if I look good, you will be proud as well right?”. We are not here to peel till the last dollars and cents but it is just more about the finer details in life and hopefully they can be more appreciative.

[FDSeah]

Well what to do, we lie in spore...I think spore had protected the lady too much liao...i remember that SM LEE siad that he should not hae gave woman so much right then the man...which cause the unbalance rights right in spore..

Look at Japan, they are highly fast moving and high tech country but the woman there is low statue...they listen to what man say..that should be the way right??

[beck7777]

Originally Posted by FDSeah

Well what to do, we lie in spore...I think spore had protected the lady too much liao...i remember that SM LEE siad that he should not hae gave woman so much right then the man...which cause the unbalance rights right in spore..

Look at Japan, they are highly fast moving and high tech country but the woman there is low statue...they listen to what man say..that should be the way right??

i think the ladies are gonna totally disagree with you bro.. but in a way you are right.. those talks about man and woman rights are just craps.. its fully exploit but some ladies out there.. always make use of it to make things their advantage but saying woman should have equal rights as guys.. but they can also just turn around and crap like guys are the stronger sex lah.. must be gentlemen lah.. ladies 1st lah.. full of sxxt! might as well ask them all to serve NS compulsary just like us..

i do believe ladies deserve certain respect from us.. (eg giving birth.. its some pain that we guys will never ever experience.. thats why we celebrate mother's day right?) but sometimes they just push it abit too far..
just MHO...

[Deep Blue]

Originally Posted by FDSeah

Well what to do, we lie in spore...I think spore had protected the lady too much liao...i remember that SM LEE siad that he should not hae gave woman so much right then the man...which cause the unbalance rights right in spore..

Look at Japan, they are highly fast moving and high tech country but the woman there is low statue...they listen to what man say..that should be the way right??

That I would like to differ then. I would prefer an equal society. Banishing them from their rights does not make us any much more superior than they do. It is through understand and accepting then a society will improve and a person will improve.

[FDSeah]

Originally Posted by Deep Blue

That I would like to differ then. I would prefer an equal society. Banishing them from their rights does not make us any much more superior than they do. It is through understand and accepting then a society will improve and a person will improve.

I do no agreed with u: If amarry woman had a afair outside and nothing will happen to her another way round if man had a afair and was caught we are in deep shit....woman will get the man 50% of what he own and monthly still have to pay her...

Do u call this fair??
How can this improve man??

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by FDSeah

I do no agreed with u: If amarry woman had a afair outside and nothing will happen to her another way round if man had a afair and was caught we are in deep shit....woman will get the man 50% of what he own and monthly still have to pay her...
Do u call this fair??
How can this improve man??

This is not fair indeed but then the main issues here are about the attitudes, temperament and their treatment towards us, not really about us having affair outside.

[suteerak1099]

what's new...? GIRL Power!

It is a myth that when a son gets married and a new daughter in law arrives in the family, everything changes.

Some daughters in law are well trained and well mannered!!!!!. They don't come to change the family, they are there to............

>The new wife was being welcomed at the husband's home in a traditional manner. As expected she gave a speech:

My dear family, I thank you for welcoming me in my new home and family", she said "Firstly, my being here does not mean that I would want to change your way of life, your routine. No, I will never do that, never in a million years".

"What do you mean my child?" Asked the father in law.

"What I mean dad is (looking at her father in law):

Those who used to wash dishes must carry on washing them.
Those who used to do the laundry must carry on doing it.
Those who cooked shouldn't stop at my account, and Those who used to
Clean should continue cleaning".

"Then what are you here for?" Asked the mother in law.

"As for me, my job is to entertain your son! " <

wouldnt it be nice??

[Deep Blue]

Originally Posted by FDSeah

I do no agreed with u: If amarry woman had a afair outside and nothing will happen to her another way round if man had a afair and was caught we are in deep shit....woman will get the man 50% of what he own and monthly still have to pay her...

Do u call this fair??
How can this improve man??

This is not about fair then. It is about morals and ethnics. Read the rules before playing the game.

[bunnyrabbit]

Originally Posted by Deep Blue

This is not about fair then. It is about morals and ethnics. Read the rules before playing the game.

all bros...
please see this link....all the thghts and feelings of the gers are here i suppose...how to satisfy them all??

http://www.singaporebrides.com/forum...tml?1143555027

alamak!

[Cummingliao]

Originally Posted by beck7777

i do believe ladies deserve certain respect from us.. (eg giving birth.. its some pain that we guys will never ever experience.. thats why we celebrate mother's day right?) but sometimes they just push it abit too far.. just MHO...

I thought we celebrate Father's Day too?

[Cummingliao]

Originally Posted by FDSeah

I do no agreed with u: If amarry woman had a afair outside and nothing will happen to her another way round if man had a afair and was caught we are in deep shit....woman will get the man 50% of what he own and monthly still have to pay her...

Do u call this fair??
How can this improve man??

This happened to someone I know. He has filed for a divorce due to his wife's infidelity and his wife did not received a single cent from him under Singapore's court of law. They were childless btw. So in a way, our law is still impartial.

[Cummingliao]

Originally Posted by bunnyrabbit

all bros...
please see this link....all the thghts and feelings of the gers are here i suppose...how to satisfy them all??

http://www.singaporebrides.com/forum...tml?1143555027

alamak!

Wow!!! This forum seems to be even more interesting than Sammyboy. Sorry guys, I think I'm going to shift camp liao. Hahaa...

so bros - when they ask "does this make me look fat" - what to do - run?

dont know if you saw this alredi - if so my apologies...

How to Make a Woman Happy

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself.
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself.
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

54. Never to forget:
· birthdays
· anniversaries
· arrangements she makes


HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY:

1. Bring food
2. Show up Naked

apologise if u seen alredi - but i think pretty funny

How to Make a Woman Happy

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself.
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself.
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
• birthdays
• anniversaries
• arrangements she makes

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY:

1. Bring food
2. Show up Naked