Been single for more than 10 years

[hunter12]

A good thread to read abt... pros n cons of single / married...

Is sad to think that 1 day, u will die alone n might decomposed before someone discovered u not because they miss u but because of the smell.... but to say that... 'if' times can rewind, i will never ever want to go in a married life. But in real life, there is no 'if'....

To me a gd wife dosent have to provide a gd sex to me as she is not FL.. as long as 1 remember to stick together be it good time or bad time, but sad to say, not only gal, to b honest n fair... both parties also cant...... wat type of ppl will attract the same type of ppl but sometimes do have exceptional.... happy for those tat find it n happily living together....

We want gal ok looking bring out got face, can fuck, can cook, can save $, b respectful to our parents, b a gd mother to children, b loyal n faithful to husband, b thrifty etc etc.... but but... how many guy can do the same... nobody fault... just that society is deeply corrupted.. deeply posion...

Sometimes i find Chinese sayings v correct... 贫穷夫妻本是哀... 大祸临头各自飞...

[DapHn33333]

Originally Posted by jnudes

A good wife is someone who will be there in good and bad times, who is loyal (does not sleep around), who is family-oriented, who is good at cooking, who respects the older generation and set good example for younger generation, who can satisfy the husband sexually, who spends wisely and save enough money for future kids education, who leads a normal and simple life (unlike those who dress like celebrity and leads a materialistic life).

And lastly good wife is usually linked with a certain religion like Christianity. And due to her strong influence with her religion, she will avoid herself straying around. There are rules set up in the ten commandment in the Bible. But then this is my observation within a Christian community. No idea about others like Buddhist, Islam or Hindu.

Young women are busy chasing their career and material needs these days. If guys can fuck around, so can they. They are demanding equal rights with the guys. When the guys win they also wan to win. In the past guys win most of the times. For a relationship to survive, one party (either husband or wife) must learn to let go and give way (sacrifice).

who is loyal (does not sleep around)==> she sleep a round last time?

who is family-oriented===> Yes not all women

who is good at cooking==> hard to find...(cos I can cook but my follow friends don't cook)

who respects the older generation and set good example for younger generation===> Yes of course respect but older generation didn't set a good example like those broken family?

who spends wisely and save enough money for future kids education==> What if she spend money on their educations since young? is not cheap at all.

who leads a normal and simple life (unlike those who dress like celebrity and leads a materialistic life)===> yes if she don't dress up what others think?

lastly good wife is usually linked with a certain religion==> you totally wrong.

Bro one thing for sure stay single is better and enjoy your life! my life example full of drama, pain, quarrel and money issue. been a good wife spend on my daughter education which cost a bomb, wear the same old dress and using my money to buy. husband love fishing and bike is more important then family. I rather stay single if I can turn back time.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by DapHn33333

who is loyal (does not sleep around)==> she sleep a round last time?

who is family-oriented===> Yes not all women

who is good at cooking==> hard to find...(cos I can cook but my follow friends don't cook)

who respects the older generation and set good example for younger generation===> Yes of course respect but older generation didn't set a good example like those broken family?

who spends wisely and save enough money for future kids education==> What if she spend money on their educations since young? is not cheap at all.

who leads a normal and simple life (unlike those who dress like celebrity and leads a materialistic life)===> yes if she don't dress up what others think?

lastly good wife is usually linked with a certain religion==> you totally wrong.

Bro one thing for sure stay single is better and enjoy your life! my life example full of drama, pain, quarrel and money issue. been a good wife spend on my daughter education which cost a bomb, wear the same old dress and using my money to buy. husband love fishing and bike is more important then family. I rather stay single if I can turn back time.

Thanks sis for your advice. After starting this thread and reading comments from various ppl; I can say I dun feel so lonely anymore and feel motivated to lead a single life. And I also realized only single life can give me 100% freedom. Since I enjoy travelling I shall make full use of it.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by hunter12

Is sad to think that 1 day, u will die alone n might decomposed before someone discovered u not because they miss u but because of the smell.... but to say that... 'if' times can rewind, i will never ever want to go in a married life. But in real life, there is no 'if'....

Bro, if indeed I die decomposed one day without anyone noticing then I will take that as a fate and bad luck to myself. Thanks for reminding me of the reality of married life.

[hamsapkwai]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Bro, if indeed I die decomposed one day without anyone noticing then I will take that as a fate and bad luck to myself. Thanks for reminding me of the reality of married life.

no worries about that brother, when that happens the smell will bring the entire civil defence to come break down your door and the whole neighborhood will know.

and oh yes you might qualify as a poor thing like those high profile deaths and that undertaker Roland might give u a pro bono funeral , u see , being single also has its perks

[Beasty]

Having struggled on this topic for so many years, i have also found my own philosophy on love.

In life, most important thing is to be happy with a clear conscience. If you can't find a good girlfriend no matter how hard you try, just seek happiness from alternative source. That's all. Bonus is you get all the freedom you want.

[Parkerlon]

Like this thread as I never had a gf before also. 28 years and still counting. But now suffering owing alot of debts due to my stupidity. Hopefully will wake up now

[twist_shout]

somehow reading this thread after a broke up made me depressed

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by waint

Curious, do you have very good relationship with your siblings?

Or your relationship with your siblings are not good?

I have two sisters, both are married. I am closer to the eldest, at least we can communicate when we meet but not with the other one.