imo ML is an honest living, using one's hands and legs to earn $$$. They do make an effort. It's tiring till they themselves have to go massages often.
However FL is not an honest living.
Most of them have minimal education (high school usually), so doing sales/admin may get them 3k-4k rmb monthly? Even a grad in China earns 5-6k rmb usually. With the high standard of living in mainland hard to survive.
Doing massage may get them 10k/mth and they have to work long hours in mainland.
Coming SG to work they earn much more for the same amount of work.
I am not so noble to donate $$$ to poor people, but helping friends when they are too hesitant in communicatng english or exchanging cultures and food. Y not?
I don't buy expensive gifts, they don't expect me to buy for them as well.
Basically I treat them like how I will treat local girls, with respect. This one is my parents/teacher teach me.
If one don't treat them as humans, likewise they will not treat you back as such.
my 2 cents.
ML lady in China work 12hrs a day, 1 day rest per month.. imagine how hard they are earning a living there. whenever i go business there, i always book them longer time, so they can earn a bit more as the 2nd hour they got more share from boss
If PRC mei mei are truly honest, they will not be in this trade in the first place. who will believe someone who sell her body for a living?
If you read Chinese, I tell you a phrase they say. 我做这一行已经够贱了,说了一些谎拿一些钱算得了什么? So you can expect them to lie to you.
They will laugh at you if they found out you really dont know if they lying. They expect you to be generous, but if u really rich you can donate money to poor ppl that need help,in poor countries that hit by natural disaster. That what my shifu told me to do it and donate to reduce my karma and prevent me frm meeting my match/karma one day.
Well said bro. If they have been honest, they wouldn't be here at all.
Some people can be blinded into believing so much into these PRC MLs, and even want to make them their girlfriend or worst case, marry them !!
Too many real stories out there already on these PRC MLs. Be real. Think with bigger head. If you dangle couple of thousand $$$$ in front of these MLs, you think their heart won't skip a beat ? Put yourself in their shoes and you will understand why they have to behave this way ! Everyone of them have a story behind. And that's exactly the reason they are for , earn quick bucks and get the fuck out of here ASAP.
I rather donate extra money to charities then to these MLs. Yes I will still treat them as humans and with respect. But not to the extent of protecting them, treating them like your own girlfriend or wife or family.
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Originally Posted by Giggs
imo ML is an honest living, using one's hands and legs to earn $$$. They do make an effort. It's tiring till they themselves have to go massages often.
However FL is not an honest living.
Most of them have minimal education (high school usually), so doing sales/admin may get them 3k-4k rmb monthly? Even a grad in China earns 5-6k rmb usually. With the high standard of living in mainland hard to survive.
Doing massage may get them 10k/mth and they have to work long hours in mainland.
Coming SG to work they earn much more for the same amount of work.
I am not so noble to donate $$$ to poor people, but helping friends when they are too hesitant in communicatng english or exchanging cultures and food. Y not?
I don't buy expensive gifts, they don't expect me to buy for them as well.
Basically I treat them like how I will treat local girls, with respect. This one is my parents/teacher teach me.
If one don't treat them as humans, likewise they will not treat you back as such.
my 2 cents.
Agree with you here. But if you were to dig further, once they are back in PRC, they will be back to their old jobs, typically KTVs , bars or massage places.
I've spent enough time in China all these years and money talks there. KC ? What's that to these ladies ?
Only once 3 months back. Never RTM at all ! Was there earlier by 15 minutes and she made me wait for another 30 minutes. And she tried to offer FJ upsize , but i rejected and guess what ? She decided to wrap things up within 35 minutes.
I challenged her and she just gave a lousy excuse that the bro before me was late and eat into my time and even though i was early, it doesnt matter because its time for the next bro !
Only once 3 months back. Never RTM at all ! Was there earlier by 15 minutes and she made me wait for another 30 minutes. And she tried to offer FJ upsize , but i rejected and guess what ? She decided to wrap things up within 35 minutes.
I challenged her and she just gave a lousy excuse that the bro before me was late and eat into my time and even though i was early, it doesnt matter because its time for the next bro !
Well said bro. If they have been honest, they wouldn't be here at all.
Some people can be blinded into believing so much into these PRC MLs, and even want to make them their girlfriend or worst case, marry them !!
Too many real stories out there already on these PRC MLs. Be real. Think with bigger head. If you dangle couple of thousand $$$$ in front of these MLs, you think their heart won't skip a beat ? Put yourself in their shoes and you will understand why they have to behave this way ! Everyone of them have a story behind. And that's exactly the reason they are for , earn quick bucks and get the fuck out of here ASAP.
I rather donate extra money to charities then to these MLs. Yes I will still treat them as humans and with respect. But not to the extent of protecting them, treating them like your own girlfriend or wife or family.
Agree with you here. But if you were to dig further, once they are back in PRC, they will be back to their old jobs, typically KTVs , bars or massage places.
I've spent enough time in China all these years and money talks there. KC ? What's that to these ladies ?
Most go back do massage, but the $$ they earn are pittance compare to over here in SG. Sadly that's the only thing they know how to do.
And Mainlanders i realize have no concept of savings. (Sorry if I stereotype and offend some people here, but it's my observation)
imo ML is an honest living, using one's hands and legs to earn $$$. They do make an effort. It's tiring till they themselves have to go massages often.
However FL is not an honest living.
Most of them have minimal education (high school usually), so doing sales/admin may get them 3k-4k rmb monthly? Even a grad in China earns 5-6k rmb usually. With the high standard of living in mainland hard to survive.
Doing massage may get them 10k/mth and they have to work long hours in mainland.
Coming SG to work they earn much more for the same amount of work.
I am not so noble to donate $$$ to poor people, but helping friends when they are too hesitant in communicatng english or exchanging cultures and food. Y not?
I don't buy expensive gifts, they don't expect me to buy for them as well.
Basically I treat them like how I will treat local girls, with respect. This one is my parents/teacher teach me.
If one don't treat them as humans, likewise they will not treat you back as such.
my 2 cents.
落花有意,戏子无情。 How on earth can a woman that touches men for a living is an honest living?If that is the case working in ktv is a more honest living.
But if you really want to respect the girl more, then just pay and don't touch her. Simple right! But how many will actually do that? 1/1000?
They are humans? You mean they need to rest ah? Legs and hands tired need to go massage. Then don't worry, I'm sure that there's a couple of fucked MR somewhere in this forum. These MR can prove that the ML are doing the "they are all humans" thingy! And still earn money.
__________________ One mountain always higher than another
青外青山,楼外有楼,一山更比一山高
Talk cock and fart all come through the same breath. TCSS and be Happy!
说话和放屁都是一样的,一口气而以,开心就好!
Don't talk to me abt love, dreams, i don't need these in my life
别跟我谈理想,戒了,本少爷DJ想干嘛就干嘛去。。
Perhaps there are many who are like you say, but there are also those are truly making an honest living out of this job.
They put in real good effort to massage and the extra sacrifice to let you fondle their bodies while rubbing your dick. You think all these come easy????
No doubt they make a hell lot of money. Some maybe even make more what we ever will in our entire lifetime. So what! You begrudge them for the amount they earn?
I do have ML frens whom I have known for years who will gladly host me when I visit them in their home country. I think it's just too bad you have not come across any. Sometimes you just reap what you sow.
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Originally Posted by Mr_don_juan
落花有意,戏子无情。 How on earth can a woman that touches men for a living is an honest living?If that is the case working in ktv is a more honest living.
But if you really want to respect the girl more, then just pay and don't touch her. Simple right! But how many will actually do that? 1/1000?
They are humans? You mean they need to rest ah? Legs and hands tired need to go massage. Then don't worry, I'm sure that there's a couple of fucked MR somewhere in this forum. These MR can prove that the ML are doing the "they are all humans" thingy! And still earn money.
落花有意,戏子无情。 How on earth can a woman that touches men for a living is an honest living?If that is the case working in ktv is a more honest living.
But if you really want to respect the girl more, then just pay and don't touch her. Simple right! But how many will actually do that? 1/1000?
They are humans? You mean they need to rest ah? Legs and hands tired need to go massage. Then don't worry, I'm sure that there's a couple of fucked MR somewhere in this forum. These MR can prove that the ML are doing the "they are all humans" thingy! And still earn money.
Well different people different mindset. You may have some bad encounters before leading to your present mentality, I feel it's kinda extreme but i respect that. Nobody is right or wrong.
KTV is honest living as well, it's hard job drinking and smiling every night and basically working your liver and health away. One can even die from alcohol overdose.
I have ML friends that I did not go for their massage before, and I have ML friends that we agreed that I do not patronize them again because it feels awkward.
When I go Mainland they hosted me graciously They bring me to local places and pay for everything. I am thankful for that.
Haven’t seen much recent review on Xiao Xiao (from SLG) so I thought I should share this FR. Visited her couple of days ago for a 90min session. Begin with the first HJ, worldwide roaming, she was wearing a short dress without any undies! You are free to explore top and bottom. After first release, comes smoothing oil massage. Massage is pretty SOP, nothing impressive, because I personally prefer hard massage instead. Can tell that she attempts to do her best as I felt her thighs perspiring when she was sitting on me. Last but not least, comes nuru (finale event) that I was waiting for. She strips down fully naked to perform this whereby her boobs and buttock glide all over me on both the back and front. Sensing that I was hard-on for a second time, she automatically changed to a 69 position for me to play with her wet pussy while proceeding with a second HJ. I exploded quickly to such a pleasant sight. I must mention that not many ladies excite me to fire so quickly on a second HJ.
Warning: Do not expect a SYT. She’s a MILF. Worth trying for bros who’s looking for more than just top roaming and a little more fun?
Appreciate some encouragement if you find this FR any useful.
Perhaps there are many who are like you say, but there are also those are truly making an honest living out of this job.
They put in real good effort to massage and the extra sacrifice to let you fondle their bodies while rubbing your dick. You think all these come easy????
No doubt they make a hell lot of money. Some maybe even make more what we ever will in our entire lifetime. So what! You begrudge them for the amount they earn?
I do have ML frens whom I have known for years who will gladly host me when I visit them in their home country. I think it's just too bad you have not come across any. Sometimes you just reap what you sow.
No. i dont begrudge anyone. i also got alot retired fls and chinese/malaysian mls as friends. one even offer to take care of my kid in hk. Otherwise how i know abt these lies,they taught me not to trust these girls. Because of some things i help them b4,they willing to share their stories.
天涯何处无芳草,何必单恋一朵花。Always asking me not to fall into those traps. It was never an honest living. Being an HFJ operator,why will i bother how much they earn?The girls there earn much more and i dont care what they do in the joints.
__________________ One mountain always higher than another
青外青山,楼外有楼,一山更比一山高
Talk cock and fart all come through the same breath. TCSS and be Happy!
说话和放屁都是一样的,一口气而以,开心就好!
Don't talk to me abt love, dreams, i don't need these in my life
别跟我谈理想,戒了,本少爷DJ想干嘛就干嘛去。。