Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by Lenghtyshot

I ve been jerking off before I have my 1st gf in my poly days.
Got my nickname from my ns buddy due to my long lasting fuck before ejaculation.
Tot that I wont ve to use my hand anymore but after 10yrs of marriage with with 2 kids, I'm back to jerking again.
Wife totally not interested in sex at all. I suspect is the thingy she implant in her arm to prevent pregnancy. Everytime give same excuse, tired, stress, kids awake...etc until I dun bother to initiate anymore.

Last time if gf dun like to ve sex at least can change or find another. Now is like can only see , remember and imagine during jerking. sigh...
Really hope to find a FB rather then keep hunting high n low for best worthy FL.

Sometime wondering am I normal anot, Basically I need sex daily.

fav returned thxs

[NakedMan]

Originally Posted by latishame

My baby is nearing six months old and my wife is still rejecting my advances. Tried almost everything, but still...

Did you try talking to her about it?

[jarth17]

Guys, I am facing all this problem too. Everything need to ask permission "can do or not" superb sain, like a recuit in the army. Only time she initiate is on my birthday only. I am getting sick and tired.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by jarth17

Guys, I am facing all this problem too. Everything need to ask permission "can do or not" superb sain, like a recuit in the army. Only time she initiate is on my birthday only. I am getting sick and tired.

What sort of response u hope to get.
U think ppl will sell u date rape drugs 2 drug her?

If she was 'normal' before , she probably is emboldened now to think she can call the shots. Can't take it divorce lor. This is wat the superb spore education n cb spore system produce
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Exchange points emboldened ma

[jarth17]

Originally Posted by sadfa

What sort of response u hope to get.
U think ppl will sell u date rape drugs 2 drug her?

If she was 'normal' before , she probably is emboldened now to think she can call the shots. Can't take it divorce lor. This is wat the superb spore education n cb spore system produce
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Exchange points emboldened ma

I didn't expect any response. I can't even said my problem here is it. What make you think I expect people to sell date rape drugs to me!? You think divorce so simple!? Your pattern is exactly like my Wife, like to put words into people mouth.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by jarth17

Guys, I am facing all this problem too. Everything need to ask permission "can do or not" superb sain, like a recuit in the army. Only time she initiate is on my birthday only. I am getting sick and tired.

So sad to know more bros like jarth17 hv married wives who r so lidat ...treating their husbands like their sons...it's problems like tis tat many bros r suffering frm their wives causing them to look to other women...shdn't hv married them in the 1st place...but it's too late for regrets now, the deed is done...sigh...unmarried bros shd therefore learn frm tis experience b4 they themselves sign on the dotted line...

why do our women hv to behave tis bad way...high & mighty ...we r all just human beings aft all...no 1 is superior than the other, if ever it shd be the guys...but we really need each other to get things done..

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by sadfa

What sort of response u hope to get.
U think ppl will sell u date rape drugs 2 drug her?

If she was 'normal' before , she probably is emboldened now to think she can call the shots. Can't take it divorce lor. This is wat the superb spore education n cb spore system produce
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Exchange points emboldened ma

bro sometimes its easier to say than done. marriage is a complicated matter which involves emotions and families. i believe unless u r in the person's shoes, it is hard to understand what they are going through. couples who have kids will also think twice about getting divorced for the sake of their children. nowadays society is getting more and more stressful and competitive, maintaining a job is oredi not easy, what more to say about marriage and family.

[Lenghtyshot]

Originally Posted by jarth17

Guys, I am facing all this problem too. Everything need to ask permission "can do or not" superb sain, like a recuit in the army. Only time she initiate is on my birthday only. I am getting sick and tired.

Well bro at least you still got birthday fuck. I got nothing!

[WoodenBaton]

Originally Posted by Lenghtyshot

Well bro at least you still got birthday fuck. I got nothing!

Bro, then you only release using your hand?

[sammicheng1000]

Tried sitting down and have a nice Long talk that u still have needs? If she is so constantly stress will she allow u to visit FL? If yes problem easily solved. If no then how she expect u to tahan? Does the relationship need to be caught u cheating or both enjoy some intimate time would be better?

I read a few page nia and all those female samster first impression is we men do nothing to impressed the Wife. Seriously all those vacation, movie dates dinner dates all who initiated? Who plan one hur? Pls ask yourself truthfully pls. Female too pampered. Expect guys this and that but if we expect sex will get scold is Sex all we ever think about? Well, fuck yes on occasion period. That is called a need, like cats in heat. If till date u can tell me u dunno then u need a crash course in common facts.

Next time before married get a lawyer to draft a prenup that write female expected to give sex at least once a week if not Husband cheating won't be place as a reason for divorce with alimony.

[sammicheng1000]

To those guys who say they give Wife a lot of luxuries like good house, car, taitai, overseas shopping spree etc etc and still no sex. Have you try cutting off all of that? No doubt u love your Wife but if ur Wife doesn't love u back to give u basic need like sex I don't see why u should pamper them anymore. In marriage we also need to reciprocate, if u done your part and she is refusing to do her then say good bye to her cars and credit card and holidays.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by jarth17

I didn't expect any response. I can't even said my problem here is it. What make you think I expect people to sell date rape drugs to me!? You think divorce so simple!? Your pattern is exactly like my Wife, like to put words into people mouth.

I'm beginning to see why you've got problems
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Exchange points.... Hahaha

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by HCKing

bro sometimes its easier to say than done. marriage is a complicated matter which involves emotions and families. i believe unless u r in the person's shoes, it is hard to understand what they are going through. couples who have kids will also think twice about getting divorced for the sake of their children. nowadays society is getting more and more stressful and competitive, maintaining a job is oredi not easy, what more to say about marriage and family.

Firstly u need to realise my posts here is the best. This Transcends all other points.

Secondly u need to shift your pyramid n STOP LISTENING TO fucked up media n garbagement. So unless its a serious case, they'll never advise u to divorce cos it suits their purpose for u to b marrried no matter how miserable u are.

Same as how Josephine wants sporeans to reproduce even if they're broke n no flat.
Just make babies so she can meet her targets n get her bonus n promotion.

In Western countries, couples divorce not because of adultery or no sex but they realise the lifestyle isn't wat they want. U think they don't love their kids? Or they're degenerate Westerners like garbagement claim n sporeans got Confucius or Asian values so they're miserable in marriage.

No. They realise being together is toxic. To themselves n to their children.

It's a fact divorce leads to poorer standard of living n lifestyle. For the kids! But the Westerners still do it. It doesn't mean they don't love their kids .

You only got one life n it's up to u how to live it. Don't use kids as a reason for yr bad decision to stay married

When a wife withholds sex, she does it as a weapon against u or she unilaterally change her prioritys or it's psychological reasons.

If it's the first reason do u think by ignoring her or refusing to kowtow to her, she'll fuck u? Or she'll find other ways to make your life miserable.

And studies show kids are more perceptive than u realize even when young. Do u think by sticking to a loveless marriage they'll later thank you? U think yr subsequent family events will give them lifelong cherished memorys? Or family dinners or holidays where u quarrel are so loved by yr kids

When they're older will u then decide to divorce or still stick together in misery?

And BTW do u know if u fuck a pros yr wife can divorce u n the reason that you're forced to fuck pros cos yr wife deprive u of sex is NOT acceptable.
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Exchange points paradigm Shift ma

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by HCKing

bro sometimes its easier to say than done. marriage is a complicated matter which involves emotions and families. i believe unless u r in the person's shoes, it is hard to understand what they are going through. couples who have kids will also think twice about getting divorced for the sake of their children. nowadays society is getting more and more stressful and competitive, maintaining a job is oredi not easy, what more to say about marriage and family.

Agree totally wif wat bro HCKing has said ..evidence of some1 who knows the realities of life in general & married life in particular

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Agree totally wif wat bro HCKing has said ..evidence of some1 who knows the realities of life in general & married life in particular

thanks bro. thats the beauty of a forum, we learn from one another's life experience. ever since i joined this forum, i have benefited alot from reading other bro's experience and opinion. though i might not agree with some of them at that point of time, but as years go by and having to go through the same stage of life myself i begin to understand and appreciate what they shared here. thanks to all the good bros who are willing to share their lessons in life so that others can learn from them.