Hard to get True relationship

[walle]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

Y man always put sex top priority in relationship. Every bf i had b4 we go steady, they will ask 4 sex. I just dun understand y?

cos boy UNDER-STand mah.....

[Evetan86]

Not easy 2 understand guys if they really only out 4 sex. They can act like hero or mayb like saint.

[daringwolf]

When people are young, they are always curious about sex. Therefore it is easy for them to keep asking for sex as it is the stage of "exploring" sex when we are in our teenage or young adulthood. Therefore ONS, flings all comes into play. No passion of love or feeling is needed when you are just exploring sex.

When we get older, sex is no longer the primary issue here. Feelings also plays a part now before we can make love with someone. Please note I said make love, not have sex. For me, I can't make out with someone whom I do not have feelings with at my age now. The urge is there but I would not want to feel the sense of emptiness after having sex with just any lady. It feels worse much worse although your sexual urge is satisfied. I would prefer to endure and DIY rather than just engage in sexual acts with no feelings involve, even though I have a high sex drive.

The above mentioned also applies to ladies, not just guys only.

I would prefer to look for a long term companion whom I will develop feelings with. I would look for long term discreet NSA relationship and not ONS or flings. You may agree or disagree what I say...

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

Not easy 2 understand guys if they really only out 4 sex....

Miss Evetan86, This SBF module contains material developed to encourage you to explore non-traditional education courses and become familiar with sexual rights in schools and partying.

Much preliminary materials been provided to you including guidelines for effectively learning about sex stereotyping, checklists, list of definitions and parties invites. It is designed for your use as part of the regular school class period or in a longer clubbing setting, the various units are "activity-oriented", and can be used as special, separate activities or as a total unit plan.

Each unit begins with a listing of objectives and a brief introduction and may contain informative material; material/ideas for bulletin boards and posters; activities detailing purpose, materials, and procedure; and worksheets/tests.

The units deal with:

(1) Overview of male role stereotyping and the sexual effects

(2) Sexual rights as created by fellow bros/Sis, specifically Page 1-7

(3) Information about the world of Sex, Sex options and non-traditional Sexual behaviors

(4) Preparation for sexual opportunities and the pursuit of non-traditional sexual engagement.

Students are encourage to test answers, optional activities, and listings of resources and references as provided by all fellow Bros/Sis in this thread.

We are unable to teach nor help you to understand further if you do not go out to the field to explore for yourself emotionally and sexually.

[Gerald]

Is the truth so important to you? Just enjoy the good times while it last.

[RUNROAD]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

Not easy 2 understand guys if they really only out 4 sex. They can act like hero or mayb like saint.

de same goes 4 girls. not easy 2 understand girls too.

[blitzmeout]

guys and gals are different..that's why they say men are from mars and women are from venus

if you don't want guys you go out with to ask you for sex, dun put yourself in a compromising situation..

[Evetan86]

Thks for all advise n also comments. Now i busy with my shopping in hk. Will b back 2 sing next week. Hope 2 mit up with some nice bro n sis here 4 a cup of kopi

[Girl_18]

I believe that no matter how many girls a guy flirts with in a day, before he sleeps there's definitely only one girl in his mind =) . Don worry sis just persists and you'll get what you want eventually =) Even if you dont, you'll live with no regrets knowing that you've tried your best =)

[cmelater]

Girls find it hard to have true relationship.

Its the same for us guys. Once we want to find a true relationship, you get girls who are just out for the money and thrill.

Life is screwed up. Its either you are serious or the other fellow is. You either die pursuing or give up looking for a true relationship. People are seldom real enough. Most are just adept self serving liars.

Whats the point of looking for a true relationship when you may be happier still staying at home watching tv with parents? Hanging out with old school mates also may be more satisfying.

[Emanda]

I couldn't agree more with TS. Seems that all the "nice guys" I knew turned out to ask for sex. Even my closest buddy turned out this way after 8 years. Very disappointing...

[LongTorpedo]

Sis Emanda

I have known some lady friends for years, but never thought of sex with them. Probably they are not attractive enough...

So, don't feel too disappointed about your male buddy asking for sex. It only means you are still attractive...really.

[veri_lonely]

all guys for sure will horny wan lor dun u agree if they dun u sure omg de .. dunno they r guys or wad .. if matter hw they express it lor .. even gd guys need sex .. true relationship need both hand to clap .. cheer man

[ch33zy]

after reading through this thread so far.. tempted to add in my comments here.. hopefully they dun offend anyone here..

first of all, sis eve.. i think you are still young in life and you have plenty more to learn in life.. life is all about learning, the only difference is the process of learning.. some people learn about life the hard way, some through other ways.. ultimately its all about yourself and your life.. no doubt, you might have a comfortable life but you seemed like you lack of friends who can be around you.. perhaps it might be good for you to expand your circle of friends and befriend people who can be there for you regardless of what..

as for the rest of the comments here, just take it as learning pointers for you in your life.. whether are they useful to you in your current life, that depends very much on yourself.. main thing is not to disappoint your family members and to enjoy the life that you are leading.. remember you only live your life once and it can be a short one as you know from your own experiences.. so cherish your life and enjoy it to the fullest..

there are always people out there who will enjoy having you as their friend.. so go out there and make new friends..

[lasivious]

Stay together if happy. If not just go separate ways.