Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[analog]

Originally Posted by ffuckoff

My colleagues mentioned to me about this thread in this forum recently and told me that many Singaporean men are complaining of not getting enough sex from their wives. I decided to register for an account and check out the truth for myself.

Since this is a commercial sex forum, it naturally draws on like-minded men to visit the site.

In a way this forum is a good platform for many sexually-deprived men to voice out their frustrations and those men who are facing or have faced similar problems naturally will inevitably unite as one. Like the saying goes: "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so this is understandable.

As far as I can see, those men who have flocked together with the same feathers have already done serious damage in the relationships with their wives and instead of introspecting, many are just pointing the fingers unfairly at their wives. To these men who are not getting sex with your wives, don't just point the fingers at your wives. It is mutual.

By ranting your sexual frustrations here, your sexual problem back home is still unresolved. Some even put up the bravado and dished out your purported "wisdoms" but I suspect that in real-life at home, you are unable to confront your relationship problem head-on and blame it all on your wife only. Some may not even have the resolve to put your relationship problem right in the first place.

The problem with such a forum is that it can provide a platform for like-minded people to congregate and eventually start forming an unfair view of certain issues and without you realizing it, everyone suddenly believes that this is the fact.

As a happily-married woman and with many happily-married friends, I want to say that the views of the many in this forum does not represent the all of the Singaporean men. My husband is sitting beside me while I am typing out this message so he does not represent the majority here.

yes, yes, yes....blah, blah, blah, you have the penis, its you're fault, blah, blah, blah. "I'm happily married so all women are like me and you have the penis so its your fault", blah, blah, blah.....

Sis, put a cork in it. You sound like a Cosmo magazine from the states. All the pap you spewed about is boiler plate feminest dirge.

So sis, if you're so smart, why don't you talk like a counselor? Because they don't spew the feminest garbage that you just did they are blunt and honest because they are dealing with real life, not a chat board.

If your wife is not having sex with you and you go to councelling, the counselour will calmly adress the wife with the question, "What's wrong?". She will NOT tell the husband he's a pervert for wanting sex. Of course he wants sex, he has a pulse, what do you expect? Did your mother not have this little talk with you? And under the law and EVERY culture on earth, its wife's responsibility. Its not optional, ITS A REQUIREMENT!

So sis, in spite of your Feminist bend on all this, primarily that "Sex is Optional" in a marriage, in Singapore "refusal to engage in sexual relations with your spouse without a valid reason is grounds for divorce", period, full stop, chapter and verse, done.

Now, for Catholics, its even better. When you marry your body belongs to your spouse, refusal to surrender your body to your spouse is a mortal sin, PERIOD! I preferred the old catholic marriage vows to the new ones...."With my body I thee worship..." Straight to the point, lovely, kinds of romantic even. But even romance has responsibility and obligation.

No sex, no kids no society no future. Fairly simple sis.

Sorry, i call bullshit on everything you wrote.

Cheers and you have a wonderful day,
Jim

[tantan1234]

Originally Posted by ffuckoff

As a happily-married woman and with many happily-married friends, I want to say that the views of the many in this forum does not represent the all of the Singaporean men. My husband is sitting beside me while I am typing out this message so he does not represent the majority here.

U think both of u conclude that yr marriage is a happy one, when u wrote to this forum and yr husband sitting beside u, he might be thinking behind yr back:

"ignorance girl, i fucked so many while u think u are in a blissful world."

Yr this statement is like: When a girl ask her hubby: "dear when i grow fat will u still love me?"

The ans, girl, will be YES. ANd u think gosh. My man love me forever.

Try grow as fat as possible and see what happens

[Canoneos]

I am in my mid forties and having sex with my wife around 3 times a week. We have been together for almost thirty years and have kids. What is our secret?

1. No financial problems
2. Both are fit
3. Wife does not work so no stress
4. My job is highly paid but with little stress
5. Both love to watch porn
6. We both know our roles and duties
7. Wife was very conservative but now adventurous (anal, cim, swallow)

I know that I'm fortunate but of all the points above, I think no stress is the most important. I am not wealthy by any means but we have enough and are contented. Stress is the biggest killer of sex.

[Gixer]

Originally Posted by ffuckoff

As a happily-married woman and with many happily-married friends, I want to say that the views of the many in this forum does not represent the all of the Singaporean men. My husband is sitting beside me while I am typing out this message so he does not represent the majority here.

Hahahahahaha, how dumb can you be? You sure about your husband? Ignorance is bliss, just because you don't know does not mean it doesn't happen.

Maybe your husband is one of the rare ones, but unless you are still in shape and fucking his brains out every night, he is still looking around, and one day, in a moment of weakness, he will do it. He will fuck some sweet young thing and get his rocks off. He will get some other chick to suck him off before he reams her out.

Only thing is will he respect you enough to keep it discreet......

[ffuckoff]

As expected, my post will evoke a lot of shallow and defensive responses because I hit right into the root of your problem and many just simply cannot accept that you have also to be blame for a sexless life with your wives.

In fact, I am already prepared for all these emotive remarks which is understandable considering the fact that many of you are sexually deprived by your dear wives for so long and therefore will speak against anything that your infantile minds construe as a woman not understanding a man's needs.

Futhermore, many of you losers here cannot tolerate the reality of a truly loving couple enjoying a fulfilling marriage life because you have fucked up your marriages and therefore will go all out to post negative and cynical comments should anyone tells you that her marriage is a happy and satisfying one. In English, there is a word to describe this state of feeling: it is called jealousy.

The moment I decided to speak for your dear wives, I know that I am a lone voice standing tall against a group of sexually-deprived male whiners here and I do not come here to please you by parroting what you hope to hear.

No apology, men, but you better do a lot of introspection about your fucked-up relationship with your wife first and start taking corrective action today. Don’t just push all the blame to your poor wife. Relationship is mutual. And this leads to good sex eventually.

There could be many pages of posts in this thread but it could give the illusion that most Singapore men are sexually deprived because of their wives’ faults. But 99% of the posts here are shallow and self-centred whines and rants let out by a group of like-minded losers who are ineffective husbands in truth and in real-life (go and read DH Lawrence’s “The Secret Life of Walter Mitty). Ouch! Truth hurts but I am not going to apologize for my honesty.
So losers, stop whining and start winning!


My nick says it all.

[Metzloff]

Dear ffuckoff

D.H. Lawrence wrote many things e.g. Lady Chatterly's Lover, The Rainbow etc but he didn't write "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty". James Thurber wrote that. And if you had actually read the latter, it's actually very amusing and touching with, of course, zero sexual content.

[ol'coyote]

Originally Posted by Metzloff

Dear ffuckoff

D.H. Lawrence wrote many things e.g. Lady Chatterly's Lover, The Rainbow etc but he didn't write "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty". James Thurber wrote that. And if you had actually read the latter, it's actually very amusing and touching with, of course, zero sexual content.

ouch !!...
hehehe...

[tantan1234]

Guys,

no point losing our cool here.
She is just another one "high class" lady with alot of BOMB BLAST TIC vocab.
Where she stood up high, we swimming in the dirty pool of sex and lust.
Where she uses good english and we using our hokkiens.

Ok u win. FOr sure. Let u win.
Join other TAI TAI's forum, those "happy life forum", or "happy little girl".
Just like TAI TAIs going to hawker and say place and food is dirty.
Then? Go to your high class restaurant.
Coming here and post some english only shows u lacking attention in yr real world.

[Brainstorm]

Why bother arguing with her if she only wants to preach and not engage in a 2-way discussion? Let us all calm down and deal with this matter in a truly SBF way ok guys? We are all matured adults here.

To the husband of ffuckoff, can you set up a new nick and pm me? I will pass you the contact of this wonderful fl. Try it and then decide which girl is more heavenly. Your stuck up wife or this fantastic fl. Don't worry, confirm above 18. You won't need to go to court as a result. Haha. I am sure your wife is not as loving as Howard Shaw's wife who stuck with him through his trial. Isn't this a more sbf way to settle this matter?

Who else got lobang to share with her husband?

[ferragamo]

Originally Posted by ffuckoff

My colleagues mentioned to me about this thread in this forum recently and told me that many Singaporean men are complaining of not getting enough sex from their wives. I decided to register for an account and check out the truth for myself.

As a happily-married woman and with many happily-married friends, I want to say that the views of the many in this forum does not represent the all of the Singaporean men. My husband is sitting beside me while I am typing out this message so he does not represent the majority here.

The fact that you bother to register a nick to post in this thread means that this topic bothers you

why it disturbs you so much only you yourself will know

The fact that your colleagues are talking about this thread, means that they feel that it is an issue to be aware and discussed about.

Please do not claim to have many happily married friends, only the actual person knows what happens inside their own family.

Your husband may be getting enough sex from you, but from the way you talk/write , I am guessing that he does not appreciate your "I am always in the right" kind of attitude.
and your shitty way of arguing with people - you are the loud, boastful and vexing type of 'cannot lose' character

Good luck to your husband, and if he is reading this I offer my deepest sympathies bro

[analog]

Originally Posted by Canoneos

I am in my mid forties and having sex with my wife around 3 times a week. We have been together for almost thirty years and have kids. What is our secret?

1. No financial problems
2. Both are fit
3. Wife does not work so no stress
4. My job is highly paid but with little stress
5. Both love to watch porn
6. We both know our roles and duties
7. Wife was very conservative but now adventurous (anal, cim, swallow)

I know that I'm fortunate but of all the points above, I think no stress is the most important. I am not wealthy by any means but we have enough and are contented. Stress is the biggest killer of sex.

Bro!

Absolutely well done, happy for you for sure.

I'm thinking that number 3 has most to do with it. I think that is my problem.

I enjoy hearing of couples like yours bro, it gives me hope.

Cheers,
jim

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Brainstorm

Who else got lobang to share with her husband?

I think no need to worry for her hub cos she probably didn't realized by directing him to this website, she has actually opened up Pandora Box. Now he is probably having a field day surfing this site behind her back and looking up the different fl and wl. She should be so worried, for all you know while she is busy at work now, he could just probably be happily bonking away from the kang tao he got through SBF.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

I think no need to worry for her hub cos she probably didn't realized by directing him to this website, she has actually opened up Pandora Box. Now he is probably having a field day surfing this site behind her back and looking up the different fl and wl. She should be so worried, for all you know while she is busy at work now, he could just probably be happily bonking away from the kang tao he got through SBF.

actually i think it's good to know her point of views as her thoughts may be the answer y many sg woman are not into sex after marriage.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by HCKing

actually i think it's good to know her point of views as her thoughts may be the answer y many sg woman are not into sex after marriage.

Well perhaps I should pass her contacts of MILF that are cheating behind their hub back and ask these women why they are doing it, She will be in for a shock when she learns that for the same reasons why we men cheat, the women folks are no different. For the same accusations that its our men fault, I wonder if she would have a different view of these women. One did it cos hub couldn't do it anymore due to ED, another haven't got it from hub for the longest time, so what has she got to say in their defense I wonder?

[seoseo]

She talk so much behind a hidden identity.... who knows the truth?

I also can say I very happy, everyday different women suck my dick and my wife happily accepts it. Anyone can prove otherwise?

If she is really happy as it is, what is there to prove? Need to reply to this thread meh?

The shit people like this dumb life's perfect wannabe says, makes me LOL.