Dating a Vietnamese ktv girl

[Farfaraway888]

Thanks bro. I think that it wouldn’t last beyond the time she goes back Vietnam. So hopefully this support won’t continue. There would not be any GFE
and bonks for me when she goes back so hopefully I know where to stop.

Originally Posted by tankawen

I think $2k a month doesn't sound like it'll be a huge financial burden for TS, as long as it lasts for just a couple of months. Anyway it sounds like TS mind is made up, and he is aware that this is not guaranteed to be exclusive, so he is doing this with eyes wide open. So I say just go for it, be as happy as you can during these 2 months, enjoy the GFE, bonk as much as you can, and then end it when the time is up and be happy with the experience.

The danger is if it continues after she goes back to Vietnam, and you are still asked to continue supporting her. Then you may end up digging a hole that you can't get out of. So know your limits and all the best to you.

[Farfaraway888]

Haha woh then it’s gotta be tough for me as I don’t think I can stop going to that ktv as I enjoy the drinks and also the teh nei nei 🤣🤣

Looks like should meet up with you to share some experiences together. 😁😁

Do hope it will be sweet memories and doesn’t turn too ugly in the end.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

It will not be your last if you never stop pubbing and/or going ktv
You will grow wiser and mentally stronger in the KC game, hone your skill with the next target

In my days of pubbing and going ktv, this is the game played as I got a lot of time to spare... but not $2k
Fallen several times, got up and move on. Truthfully, no matter how you hone your skill, there are time when real feeling were put in and it will hurt badly. Just enjoy the ride because it will be sweet memories.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Farfaraway888

Looks like should meet up with you to share some experiences together. ����

Do hope it will be sweet memories and doesn’t turn too ugly in the end.

Good if bro KT willing to meet up with you...he speaks tieng viet well and also sings well...his knowledge on Vietnam culture excellent...

[Marmots]

Wait.....wait....wait.....

I think I just self-snooked myself with that post ?

Originally Posted by Marmots

On another note, just don’t expect 2k to be exclusive, should be taken as granted that there are others beside you. Doing what you doing.

So, you pay 2k to do something, which is no different from what you are doing now, without paying 2k.

When you ask her out, do you not give her any sort of compensation/monetary benefits ?

There's a cow there, I pay whenever I want to squeeze some milk each time.
Others do the same thing.
So now I pay a high lump sum to do the same thing, while others can still continue to pay piece meal ?

I am a bit confused myself, don't mind me, only slept 4 hours in past 48.

[benjm85]

Originally Posted by Marmots

Wait.....wait....wait.....

I think I just self-snooked myself with that post ?



So, you pay 2k to do something, which is no different from what you are doing now, without paying 2k.

When you ask her out, do you not give her any sort of compensation/monetary benefits ?

There's a cow there, I pay whenever I want to squeeze some milk each time.
Others do the same thing.
So now I pay a high lump sum to do the same thing, while others can still continue to pay piece meal ?

I am a bit confused myself, don't mind me, only slept 4 hours in past 48.

True, its like paying gym membership u pay lump sum can go unlimited times or u pay per entry haha..

[airman]

Originally Posted by Marmots

Wait.....wait....wait.....

I think I just self-snooked myself with that post ?



So, you pay 2k to do something, which is no different from what you are doing now, without paying 2k.

When you ask her out, do you not give her any sort of compensation/monetary benefits ?

There's a cow there, I pay whenever I want to squeeze some milk each time.
Others do the same thing.
So now I pay a high lump sum to do the same thing, while others can still continue to pay piece meal ?

I am a bit confused myself, don't mind me, only slept 4 hours in past 48.

Reminds me of the recent case of this boomer uncle who gave 15k to his favourite ml and she cut contact with him after receiving the money

[Chua Soi Lek]

Originally Posted by Farfaraway888

…. There would not be any GFE
and bonks for me when she goes back so hopefully I know where to stop.

The keyword is HOPEFULLY …you think you can ?

[Farfaraway888]

Haha woh. Looking forward to see him then.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Good if bro KT willing to meet up with you...he speaks tieng viet well and also sings well...his knowledge on Vietnam culture excellent...

[Farfaraway888]

When you say squeeze some milk you mean having sex with the girl right ? Haha

I do buy some bags and treat her to meals here and there. Haha but now I guess it’s the 2k plus all this which is much higher costs ?

Originally Posted by Marmots

Wait.....wait....wait.....

I think I just self-snooked myself with that post ?



So, you pay 2k to do something, which is no different from what you are doing now, without paying 2k.

When you ask her out, do you not give her any sort of compensation/monetary benefits ?

There's a cow there, I pay whenever I want to squeeze some milk each time.
Others do the same thing.
So now I pay a high lump sum to do the same thing, while others can still continue to pay piece meal ?

I am a bit confused myself, don't mind me, only slept 4 hours in past 48.

[Farfaraway888]

Hahaha I will come back to the bros here for more advice when it happens hahah

Originally Posted by Chua Soi Lek

The keyword is HOPEFULLY …you think you can ?

[East]

Originally Posted by Farfaraway888

I do buy some bags and treat her to meals here and there.

I think for working girls like her, money is the most practical, unless you get discount from buying the gift itself. Maybe 1 or 2 item as momento, but cash most of the time will still be better for you and her.

take care and not fall too hard.

[Chua Soi Lek]

Originally Posted by Farfaraway888

Hahaha I will come back to the bros here for more advice when it happens hahah

Sometimes humans are funny, you know you will be hurt badly at the end but then still want to pursue it ...

.... such is life...

[SirLance]

Originally Posted by Chua Soi Lek

Sometimes humans are funny, you know you will be hurt badly at the end but then still want to pursue it ...

.... such is life...

Process of growing up.

[Offline]

Originally Posted by Farfaraway888

Hahaha I will come back to the bros here for more advice when it happens hahah

I think it has already happened.
I've been down the road before, with a PRC.
Went to China a few times even, screwed non stop.

But easy money thinking got to her, her initial thinking of coming sg to work ktv and to look see play changed.
She got a lot of branded and expensive gifts, watches, necklaces, iphones, ipads as she told me of the people that gave her gifts.
I held my ground and did not try to compete, I was like, I will only do so much, take it or leave it.

I did not get hurt emotionally(I think, pretty long ago) but sure was fucked up tiring and exhausting, and looking back at it, at least I went to China a few times to look see look see.
Otherwise, it would have been total waste of time, energies and effort.

I could have had so much more fun at ktvs if I had not restricted my efforts to her.

Something for you to consider.

[KangTuo]

I think this is a good piece of relationship dvise towards FL/ML.

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSN1d5weE/