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23-09-2008, 08:00 AM
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23-09-2008, 08:38 AM
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Part 12:
The few days in Shanghai is packed with meetings and discussions.. At nite.. still have to entertain those Shanghainess Clients... Niteclubs was visited almost every nite... but everytime i would decline getting any girls for company... Jason: Bro.. for Goodness sake.. do get yrself a girl... surely u r nt a monk rite... Bro: Nope... i dun have the mood... u guys go ahead... Frankly speaking... after the departure of my ex... i really dun have the mood for bonking... at times.. i would wonder whelter i am still a man... but i know it is normal... after all... who would still have the mood to bonk at this moment of time?.. Most of the times... i would choose to drown my sorrow... The working trip soon ended and i look forward to going back to Spore again...Guess who i saw when i reached Spore... Yes.. Shirleen was waiting for me at the airport... Shirleen: r u k?.. Me: yup.. Shirleen: r u avoiding me?.. Me: Nope... but i still want to remain as friends with u.. that is all... The two of us shared a cab together... The journey to my office seem to be very long... Again... we kept quiet and dun dun tok much on the journey.. Me: u should nt have wasted time in coming to the airport... Shirleen: i am worried abt u and i miss u... Quickily i turned my face away from her when she said that... Back to the office.. handed in my stuff and headed off straight to home for a rest...All the recent events have worned me out already.... I was having my nap when i received a phone call from Shirleen again.... Oh no.. i debated with myself whelter i shd ans the call or nt... Finally i decided to ans it and expain things clearly to her once and for all though i am nt gd at expressing my feelings... Me: Hello Shirleen: r u sleeping.. can tok now?.. Me: Sure cos i need to tok to u too... Shirleen: y r u still wearing the ring?.. Me: Cos though she is gone.. she still lived in my heart... Shirleen: Cant u just forget her and move on with yr life.?!!!... Me: Nt till i have found that special someone... but that someone is nt u... Shirleen:Y?... didnt we get along well?.. Me: I am comfortable with u as a friend and a collague... but other than that... i have no special feelings for u.... She paused for a moment... and i paused too.. Shirleen: is that all u want to tell me?.. Me: u r still young and pretty... there r better guys who would love and pamper u... Shirleen: Most men are flirts... Me: nt all of them... Shirleen: At least u r nt... i feel secure whenever i am out with u... u r nt those kind of creepy guys... and u r a very sentimental person... Me: Thanks... but i dun feel anything for u..... let remain as friends...K?... Shirleen: She is crying... Me: Sorry... With that we ended the phone call... and i cant sleep well after that... Sigh how to face her again at the office 2mr?.. We r in the same department...
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23-09-2008, 10:22 AM
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Bro, you have touched me with yr stories. At least you got to accompany her for a period... u should feel comforted. Me and my brother are not as fortunate. Anyway, it's tough ahead but let's stay strong.
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23-09-2008, 05:01 PM
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Silly girl, this Shirleen. Has really poor sense of timing and do not know how to exploit a situation to her advantage.
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26-09-2008, 12:55 PM
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To Bro Rangers,
Though I do not know you in person, but your story do bring my attention and also my respect. I'm touched by your story and also sorry for the departure of your ex. I know I'm in not position to console you or whatsoever, but nevertheless, I do hope you can walk out and live again.... You do have support from all bros here... and of cos, my support... Take care. * Too many threads here but this thread is one of the best I read...
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26-09-2008, 06:27 PM
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26-09-2008, 06:29 PM
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26-09-2008, 07:41 PM
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Bro Rangers believe or not my tears flow out while reading. nv believe myself reading a story in SBF can make me cry.
Take care and stay happy
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#86
09-10-2008, 01:23 PM
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In one man's life, there are either two or may be three things we should do and do with all our heart.
1. Love that someone we found and give her with our all. 2. Not to let down anyone in our lives, while tryng to fulfil pt 1. 3. To do great deeds and make the whole a better, in either small or big ways, may include taking good care of one's family. Its tragic, but (many a time), not many of us can do all 3 well. In many cases, point 1 happens at the wrong time and at the wrong place. Worse... point 2 comes to you, after all is too late. Seems like... Point 3 comes to many, after years of setbacks. I always like to read this thread, because it reminds me of how we strive to do so many things, but fail to realise what was (and is) most important to us, in the first place. Failing to realise and do what should ve been done. May be, its just God's way of teaching man a lesson that man is fallible and prone to mistakes. Sigh.
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09-10-2008, 03:07 PM
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Bro Ranger, my heart is very touched by your story, just hope that it's all TRUE else all the fucking tears that came out from my eyes that shocked my secretary, my GM & Managers were all in vain!
It's a very painful episode of your life but all i can say is karma. You reap wat u sow.....she pulled out before the wedding bells, it was her choice so she paid for it. God does things to us that we wont understand till its revealed. To me, her pulling out was a gift, not a curse for you. As for you, 你已经不欠她了 Wat you have done allowed her to leave this realm with a smile, and that, the heavens will reward you and also, its through your love that she finds forgiveness and peace. It's stupid to get advices such as forget about her...no way. You wont and cant, so keep her in a very sacred place in your heart like a shrine. But look, you r alive and she's gone to another world. If fated to be, one day when the calling comes for you, you may just reunite wif her. Your grief will fade slowly but surely this i can appreciate and understand. People not in your shoes can tok alot but only when they're in your shoes can they only realise your pain....that's worst than being chopped by a knife. But you must, and must remember, if you really love her, live well for not just you but her. Imagine her in spiritual self now looking at you, seeing you in so much pain and grief, tink she can cross in peace? Answer is no. Release her my friend and live. Embrace life......love it wif all your energy for what she lacks you can also give her through your spiritual energy. Then she can really be totally released from this mortal life of pain and suffering. The Lord be wif you my brother, and may she find eternal peace in the land of the Lord.
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09-10-2008, 03:14 PM
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As for this Shirleen, it could also be a gift.
Not as a lover, but as solace to you. For now that is. The one that can help you the most is the one that puts their heart forward for you. Decide on this and tell her in advance that you're not ready for any relationship thus no promises. If you are, then it's an outright lie and you treasure her as a friend thus wouldnt wanna do that. But do not deny the fact that you're very broken hearted n need a very close friend and a shoulder to cry on. This i know she'll do very well. Do consider this option and dun be surprised, like i said in many of my posts, everything happens for a reason. Take 2 steps back and look over everything like an eagle soaring in the skies, and you'll see the hidden answer you've been seeking. Cheers 
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的，就是你的。 不是你的，不要抢！ 人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
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09-10-2008, 04:15 PM
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Try your best to move on... especially with relationship... with new relationship, it will be easier for you to move on.... trust me...
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09-10-2008, 04:33 PM
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Feel so heart pain for you, the trauma that you went through is too much to bear. Time will heal you and rediscover yourself. Hopefully the special one will appear soon.
Currently am facing a near broken relationship, trying my best to salvage it, if not i will regret for the rest of my life. You take care ya.
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