Feeling desperate and suicidal. Need advice and help.

[cowtory]

Originally Posted by pantomime

Exactly what I want to say.

I was about to say that too.

[fuckwannacry]

Originally Posted by FOMO

You still have phone ha?

For me, I dun even have 10 bucks.

Ya, I believe

[salmen]

Originally Posted by FOMO

You still have phone ha?

For me, I dun even have 10 bucks.

You still have an asshole …. after a few entries, should have 10 bucks

[Slaveatwork]

So many posters here talking asking TS to take a service job but he simply refuses to acknowledge them.

There's always a million excuses for those who refuse to keep an open mind.

Please all, Nobody should "lend" him any money at all!!!!! Even if you have so much extra money you don't know what to do with it, use it as toilet paper rather than give him. It'll only encourage him to come back asking for more.

[fallen69angel]

Care to share predicament via pm?

I’m not in the best of situations, but if you’re hungry I planja a meal or 2? I’ve been through some tough spots. But mentally you have to make sacrifices. Years ago, there was a time when I had only a dollar left. Took a bus to meet a friend to return me money.

Called my friend with the last 10c but kena makan. My friend said he steady will appear but I ended up kena aeroplane. Bad terms with parents who aren’t home always. I walked home from orchard to Jurong.

I will always remember that walk.

You just have to be willing to climb up.

[hellothis555]

Originally Posted by Slaveatwork

There's always a million excuses for those who refuse to keep an open mind.

True.... days past and still not moving forward but indulge in SBF. If I am desperate for money, I won't waste my time reading and replying. I will work hard for money. No money to eat, no money to do this and that, yet wasting time here?

I remember those days I worked as banquet waiter in a hotel and Mc.. Day time in Mc. At about 5pm plus in hotel setting up the function room... after function, setting up the room for next morning breakfast function. Reached home about 1 or 2am, tired, showered and slept. Have time to SBF?

[camoman]

Originally Posted by Slaveatwork

So many posters here talking asking TS to take a service job but he simply refuses to acknowledge them.

There's always a million excuses for those who refuse to keep an open mind.

Please all, Nobody should "lend" him any money at all!!!!! Even if you have so much extra money you don't know what to do with it, use it as toilet paper rather than give him. It'll only encourage him to come back asking for more.

I already said im looking at those options via pm and here. And if you had read properly above I already said I never asked for nor received any financial help except for a really small 2 digit sum from one guy.

I hope you don't hit rock bottom next time. What goes around comes around.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by camoman

I feel better after airing out my problems despite the hate I get for reasons I don't even know why. But I guess its inherently human to want to watch others suffer as a form of self validation towards their own insecurities and issues. I mean, if I'm doing well for myself I might behave the same way for I'm as human? I don't know.

feeling better is the first step to moving forward. And I've also been looking out for opportunities.

And I did not receive any other financial assistance from anyone else aside from your small sum despite what some think. Neither did I pm anyone for any assistance. So I don't know why some said I'm asking for financial help.

Thanks bro.

for a person who is relatively verbose you write well, articulate fine and the only reason I can conclude for your state is mental strength

you are just weak in your mental strength, you don't lack skill you lack will. And I did recommend you go listen to those speakers to boost your mental strength because life is 80% psychology 20% ability, wallowing in self pity does nothing. Neither is blame. Take responsibility and prove those who speak bad of you, WRONG.

you live in your world, you definitely don't have people to take care of, because if you did, you would get off your butt and go do what it takes to make it happen. If there are people depending on you, a gf, or wife or kids, my friend, you are not adding value to them.

[Thumbtacker81]

Dear Camoman,

You do sound younger than many of us here- a certain typical millennial who has been educated by today's society to blame others first, than upon yourself.

And you seem choosy with the jobs suggested by many fellows samsters here. You used the word desperate; people here suggested the right jobs to match your choice of vocab - simple and highly employable jobs to meet your basic needs (food & water; sex is arguably also a basic need but your hands work wonders) In this world, there are only a few rare fairy tales of poor people who could clear their desperate situation within a very short time.

It's all about being realistic & adjusting your own living standards against the state you are in. Something's not right? Make It Right by being REALISTIC.

I am also speaking from past experience. Your situation is really nothing. You at least got your roof covered.

[Slaveatwork]

plenty of good advice plus astute observations in the last few posts by Thumbtacker, shadow warrior, $$$$$$$$, and hellothis.

I'm very happy to see many smart Bros here!

[deadpool2]

Originally Posted by Slaveatwork

plenty of good advice plus astute observations in the last few posts by Thumbtacker, shadow warrior, $$$$$$$$, and hellothis.

I'm very happy to see many smart Bros here!

Exactly what I wanted to say.

[nuckfuckle]

Originally Posted by deadpool2

Exactly what I wanted to say.

Looks like we are the same.

[Bangster]

Bro Camoman

Like many mentioned, you are articulate in your writing and therefore I view you as someone with a reasonably good education, or at least have come from some respectable schools

I did not read all the pages so I do not know what got you in this predicament

But, the important thing is you yourself got to know the reason(s), the cause(s) that led you to this shithole

And if I may, I would guess pride has a rather high place in your life.

And pride is a tricky thing - she either makes us the most stubborn survivors in times of despair, calamity or she hinders the down-to-earth Mr Humility who tends to plan sensible routes for us.

And the job of finding solutions to quickly end your dire situation has been made easy by the many kind hearted bros here who gave suggestions of menial work positions (and trust me there are plenty of those) you can easily source

For once, ask Pride to take a backseat
She has no place now whatsoever in your life

[draven78eric]

Make a criminal case, have a long sentence, 2-3 yrs or above.
have 3 meals a day, and free counselling provided and free medical and can work inside also.
After which link to the "So called" Yellow Ribbon to help you if you are Lucky or even its a real deal to help the Ex convicts. But can try lah...
The 2-3 years inside, get to know as much people as you can.
Inside is "Wo Hu Chang Long" place...(Hidden Tiger Croaching Tiger)
Inside you can see guys with higher IQ than some really successful biz people out there now. Just that the way they make money is so different that the gov dont like lah...

Good luck

[draven78eric]

But also ah...if "Die" is the only way out for you, go do it in front of a MP or any ministers....make sure to have a great impact in their whole life after you pass on. Make a great favor for all of the rest of us in SIngapore. Make it a International Headline..
Make full use of own self when still possible. Just like how many hero die last min in War movies..
Just an out of the box suggestion lah
If and may as well mah...tio boh...