China student as mistress

[betta]

U will be surprise tat some of them own more than I house back in China. Mine best galfriend is a PRC and she has a group of friends working in Spore ktv. Tats why I noe all tis true stories. Lucky for me mine is a true friendship cos I am not rich, dont even own a car. Mine friend enjoy telling me all these stories of her galfriends encounter with Singapore men and how these men willing part with their money. So I just listen lah.
Mine PRC gaLfriend, her friends and I usually have a gathering when I visit China during the CNY, tats when I see their houses, husbands, toyboys and withness their lavish lifestyle.
ALL IS POSSIBLE THANKS TO CONTRIBUTION FROM SINGAPORE MEN. A BIG THANK YOU FROM THESE PRC GALS.

[pusslover66]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear Bro,

Laugh as you wish! Just make sure you would not fall into the same trap . I can tell you are a new comer to this forum. While you are laughing out loud, do try to learn from the experience from those bros who are willing to share, to be laughed at, and then at the same time, still write constructive postings.

My 2 cent worth.

the point i am trying to make is that once shes lying
her words cannot be trusted
one cannot be so conceited as to think she will lie to others
but not to oneself

[funfox]

Its all a game bros.
Just an exchange like barter trade..........its simply her pussy for your $.

In reality, promises are made to satisfy your moment lust and her desire for your $. Dun take it at face value. Afterall, both know what each is after.

Paiseh, teng kui.......jus my 2 cts though.

[virginboy926]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Totally agree. If a woman is out to sell herself, there's no point talking about romance. It's clear that money is their primary motive. It's also true that quite a number of PRC women (the 'statistical population' as described by Bro PuTonRen) we are dealing with belongs to this category. Hence, most of the time they give PRCs a bad name.

There was one day that I had a casual chat with a middle-aged auntie. She commented that all PRC women are all-out money cheaters, relationship destroyers or prostitutes. Personally, I felt that she has stereo-typed PRC women, this is not unlike some of us categorised Thai women are prostitutes and Banglas are road sweepers etc.

In fact, I have known some very intelligent PRC women, they are professional engineers and fellow researchers. I would say they are equally good, if not better than us, in terms of technical knowledge. Conversely, I have known some northern-east PRC women with little education and knowledge, working as WLs. It's different strokes, different life. Everyone has her own story. It their upbringing or choice of path that led to what they are today. Likewise, it is any man's choice or ability to get a PRC woman as a mistress.

China is a big country, cannot 1 pole hit all the people on 1 boat. definitely there are some "black sheeps " here and there. We just have to be careful to those people that dealing with us.

I have encounter on PRC woman keep pestering me for having sex with them. But in the end.. they just want ur $, Example, they will ask u to buy this and that or sponsor them this and that .

i am in mid twenties. perhaps, they just want to suck our energertic spirits dry.

All these times, if i want to play with PRC girls, when they demand something, i will remember this rule.
"Silence is Golden, if make noise, mean u got to buy a diamond."

[Durex_69]

Originally Posted by virginboy926

China is a big country, cannot 1 pole hit all the people on 1 boat. definitely there are some "black sheeps " here and there. We just have to be careful to those people that dealing with us.

Yup ... There will always be black sheeps, regardless of nationality. PRC out to get $$$ with whatever means; Sillyporean f*** liao run without paying; drug KTV girl then rape and rob; etc ...

[Kingtut]

Boss, thanks for upping me. I think we have many bros here who are
very experience with PRC girls and can offer good advice.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear Bro MHS,

Have not heard from you for a while even after remaining in home land for almost a month already. How have you been?

As I have said "Unless you have the look of Tom Cruise, they are here to earn as much as they could, but not to seek romance in a foreign land. Many PRC people have already laughed at us for being stupid, and easily conned. But I feel that the real reason is really we are too kind hearted, and that we are not united enough. What do you expect the foreigners to respect us when we even laugh at each other?

Many brothers here like to throw comments at their own country men, lamenting them of being stupid, and making fun out of their postings (even though they were willing to share their own experience) which were meant to warn others. They have forgotten that in future, when they happen to fall into the same situation, they will defend themselves by coming up with a lot of reason, without mentioning that they had once laughed at others for their mistakes.

"If you do not have your own kid yet, please do not complain that others' kids are naughty."

I choose to remain humble and will keep quiet from now on.

My 2 cent worth.

PTR

Hi Bro PTR..

It is not a matter we r laughing among our own fellow country men..is just tat every1 wanna outdo one another..to prove they r able to hook up a PRC gf..but it seems like marjority of the cases i seen is not long lasting..

Some r laughing at others mishap..while they themselves do not know that they r walking into the same trap as others..

The ego within ourselves cause the downfall in such r/ship...

mhs..

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by shengge

Dear Bro mhs,
they see you very handsome mah, obvious they got motive....
btw, where are these PRC gals from? (i mean in term of occupation)

i totally agree with bro ptr and you that we are too soft-hearted and that's why we were being exploited.

Cheers!

Hi bro shengge..

i m definitely not handsome..and i doubt i looked rich in order for them to take notice of me..

most of the PRC gals i noe is from KTV joints..though i still noe quite a bit of PRC holding normal jobs such as sales gals, OLs...

Overall, the WL and non-WL have different sort of thinking...but in the end they still share 1 common interset..i.e. a better living for themselves.

Well, i hv got to noe a guy..who was holding a white collar post in singapore, he got to noe a shanghainese gal (working as an asst manager in one of the 4 star hotel in china)..the gal is educated overseas and is fluent in both languages..Love blossom, as the guy return to singapore..the gal chalked up high hp bill while communicating wif him daily (tat time IDD card still not popular)...one day they decide to tie the knot in singapore..and the gal gace birth to a baby boy after their marriage..and soon she got her PR status..but 1 fine day..she just tell her singapore usband..she has enough of their marriage life..and she decide to split wif her husband..and bring the child wif her..

this show tat PRC gals (no matter what line they r in)..just wanna get themselve a better living..

I did told a PRC gal b4 when she commented tat singapore guys r so generous and to some extend they r foolish..i jus explain to her either they r desperate or soft hearted..there is no such thing as they r foolish..they spend on u..and wan sex in return (they r desperate)..they spend on u without any commitment (they r soft hearted)..

i always think tat behind their 'kindness', 'sweetness' and 'gentleness'..there is always an agenda..is jus a matter whether the agenda they hv will cause a damaging impact on our lives..

cheers!

mhs

[durex]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

The ego within ourselves cause the downfall in such r/ship...

mhs..

Well said bro mhs,i saw our own country man fighting among themself without realising is a game that set out by the girls,one thought he has the control over everything(the girls looks innocent and loving enough towards him)and he do have a bits of money,the other well just see who can throw the most money
I was thinking OMG one pussy made of gold,no jokes is coming to half a million that the girls win from the man,she might be richer than them now and the man are still throwing

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by durex

Well said bro mhs,i saw our own country man fighting among themself without realising is a game that set out by the girls,one thought he has the control over everything(the girls looks innocent and loving enough towards him)and he do have a bits of money,the other well just see who can throw the most money
I was thinking OMG one pussy made of gold,no jokes is coming to half a million that the girls win from the man,she might be richer than them now and the man are still throwing

yah quite true...it shows tat singapore men..want to go all out to impress..but never did they realized the gals r just making use of us...

i will not be surprise tat marjority of these gals r earning much more than me...

[shengge]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

this show tat PRC gals (no matter what line they r in)..just wanna get themselve a better living..

I did told a PRC gal b4 when she commented tat singapore guys r so generous and to some extend they r foolish..i jus explain to her either they r desperate or soft hearted..there is no such thing as they r foolish..they spend on u..and wan sex in return (they r desperate)..they spend on u without any commitment (they r soft hearted)..

i always think tat behind their 'kindness', 'sweetness' and 'gentleness'..there is always an agenda..is jus a matter whether the agenda they hv will cause a damaging impact on our lives..

Dear Bro mhs,
Sad to hear another sad story, feel bad for him. Hope he is well now.

Agreed totally with what you have said. I must said WE are really soft hearted. Why we are all like that?

Like my friend always say, wthether in biz or dealing with ladies in China, must try to verify what they say, don't take thing at face value.

I ever heard her mum talking to her daughter (abt 8~10y/o) after she had came back from a gathering with some other kids. Her first question to her daughter was, how do you find xiaoli (another kid character)? I was a bit shocked as I think normaly parent would ask whether the kid was happy about their outing. Well, I guess they are being brought up in a very competitive environment, parents got to teach them the survival skill at very young age.

Prob our thinking are too "logical" and too much "common sense", due to our education? sigh........

Cheers!
Shengge

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by shengge

Dear Bro mhs,
Sad to hear another sad story, feel bad for him. Hope he is well now.

Agreed totally with what you have said. I must said WE are really soft hearted. Why we are all like that?

Like my friend always say, wthether in biz or dealing with ladies in China, must try to verify what they say, don't take thing at face value.

I ever heard her mum talking to her daughter (abt 8~10y/o) after she had came back from a gathering with some other kids. Her first question to her daughter was, how do you find xiaoli (another kid character)? I was a bit shocked as I think normaly parent would ask whether the kid was happy about their outing. Well, I guess they are being brought up in a very competitive environment, parents got to teach them the survival skill at very young age.

Prob our thinking are too "logical" and too much "common sense", due to our education? sigh........

Cheers!
Shengge

Hi Bro Shengge,

Actually i dun really understand about all these PRC ladies..the men in China treat them a bit like 'dirt'..they fool ard behind their women's back, when they r drunk they will threw temper and sometimes even resort to violence on their spouse..yet when they met a kind hearted local singaporean..they took us for granted..as concluded, we never hold a place in their heart, as compares to their compatriate..

Agreed with you totally that they r street smart and actually my gal did told me b4..so wat if i m educated, etc..she says we r lacking behind in the skills for us to survive in this cruel society...which make us look and behave in a naive manner..in PRC, most of the young kids oredi now how to 走天下...while we r still immersed in our sch txt book. the kids in the street know how to swindle and get the better out of unsuspecting adults..

cheers!
mhs

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

i always think tat behind their 'kindness', 'sweetness' and 'gentleness'..there is always an agenda..is jus a matter whether the agenda they hv will cause a damaging impact on our lives..

This is definite. Come on, even for us guys, don't we have an agenda when we are nice to a girl?

I always hear about all this "treat KTV girls with respect", "must know how to be nice to them", when end of the day, all the guy really wants is free bonk. Otherwise, would he bother?

EVERYONE has a motive. Whether they admit it or not.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by newbadass

This is definite. Come on, even for us guys, don't we have an agenda when we are nice to a girl?

I always hear about all this "treat KTV girls with respect", "must know how to be nice to them", when end of the day, all the guy really wants is free bonk. Otherwise, would he bother?

EVERYONE has a motive. Whether they admit it or not.

Hmm..i definitely agree on what u have mention...

who do not hv agenda? whenever we spend $..on food, exp gifts, sch fees (for students), rental, etc..wat we wan at the end of the day...Bonk, Bonk and more Bonk..and some extend GFE Bonk..

But i did see some cases..whereby guys give and give yet the gal still refuse to give him any 'benefits'....

First time posting here and would like to share my experience about PRC gals.

I was in China for a couple of years and have had some experiences with the gals there. We cheong quite a bit when in China and knew the gals mostly from our weekly ktv sessions. Most were hostesses but we also go after the mummies and waitresses.

My first experience was with a pretty and solid chick from Anhui. We started off with a holiday to Huang Shan and had our first FJ there. Thereafter she would come and stay with me during weekends (so that I won't go bonking other gals) and we got on pretty well. I paid her nothing except for the dinners, massage sessions and drinks when we go out together. I started to get suspicious when she started to tell me that his brother had arrived from Anhui and she had to support him while he look for a job and asked me for some money to help her out. At first it was just RMB200-500 once in a while then it was a couple of thousands every fortnight. Still cheaper than if I were to spend outside anyway, so I was willing.

The red light start flashing when she told me one day that her brother was arrested by the GongAn for theft, and needed RMB20,000 to settle. I told her that I have some friends in the Gong An and can help her settle if she give me her brother's details. I haven't heard from her since.

My most pleasurable experience was with this very "angpai" hostess, every mother's son seems to be going after her and she's quite selective too. One nite I was in the ktv with a group of govt officials and they have asked for her, the boss called her and she LL came to our room. Through the night I got to know her and use the oldest trick in town to date her out. We roll dice and whoever lose kenna buy dinner for the other within the next 7 days. Whichever way it goes, I will have a date with her. We talk quite abit during the dinner and she revealed to me the inside of a ktv. Turn out that most bros here are correct. She is supported by 3 guys, a Taiwanese who is paying the rent for her exclusive apartment + some $$$ and 2 singaporeans giving her monthly allowance of RMB30,000 each. These 'supporters' are always away and she only needs to be with them when they come for business. She said that her line is very competitive and therefore would cream anyone who wants to be creamed. I thought I got no chance with this gal and just TCSS wif her. A few weeks later she called me and asked me to meet for coffee. When we met she said she wanted to ask for my opinion about her becoming a mummy. Told her not a good idea as her client support her cos they got her to sit with them, if she's mummy she'll be running around and hve no time for her customers unless her gals are as +++ kong as her. She asked if I can support her by bringing clients to entertain at her place and also bring friends during weekends. I said no problem. Turns out that I was correct and business at the ktv went down and also her customers found newer joints to go to. She turn to me more and more and on days where she got no bookings she would even join me and my friends at other joints.

We became quite close and she slept over my place a few times and we even went for a short holiday together. This went on for a few months then one day she told me that the Taiwanese is giving her an apartment and asking her to quit her line and will provide her with a substantial monthly allowance and an imported car. She said that though reluctant she has to be realistic that such offer is rare. She take it as a business transaction with no emotion involved. She confessed that though she didn't get anything from me, she appreciated my assistance when time was bad and had some real love for me. With that we had a last bonk and parted ways.