Gers Are Still Gers

Originally Posted by naemlo

1 advice to u, break up...

nah i dun wizh to nehow brk up ...n i luv him too much...unlezz he realli realli brk my heart

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by blurqueen12

nah i dun wizh to nehow brk up ...n i luv him too much...unlezz he realli realli brk my heart

So u can tahan his character?? If u think u will be happy n tolerate him then by all means stay with him.

I always advice my friends when they told me their 'story', n I gonna tell this to u n the rest. Good friends can always be there to lend u a ear, shoulder n advice u. In the end of the day, it's still up to individual to choose the path... if it turn out to be good then he/she has make the correct choice but if it turns out to be bad, he/she cannot blame others but just himself/herself, dun go KPKB. Accept the fact he/she make the wrong choice n life still goes on as normal n dun think of stupid stuff.

[axeman24]

Hi guys, just want write what I saw yesterday,

Yesterday night as I was walking back after I went for a swim, as I was passing this couple, I over heard the guy telling his gf saying, " When I tell you I was not looking at girls, you don't believe me so what you want me to do?"

As I walk pass them I was like laughing my heart out inside me man. Don't you think its so ironic that sometimes when we are really telling the truth women simply don't believe us??? It happen to me so many times when I was telling the truth to my ex she simply don't want to believe me. Then I got fed up I told her lies then she starts to quarrel with me and give me a cold shoulder. Well in away it was good for me as I have a few days of peace

Originally Posted by naemlo

So u can tahan his character?? If u think u will be happy n tolerate him then by all means stay with him.

I always advice my friends when they told me their 'story', n I gonna tell this to u n the rest. Good friends can always be there to lend u a ear, shoulder n advice u. In the end of the day, it's still up to individual to choose the path... if it turn out to be good then he/she has make the correct choice but if it turns out to be bad, he/she cannot blame others but just himself/herself, dun go KPKB. Accept the fact he/she make the wrong choice n life still goes on as normal n dun think of stupid stuff.

if everione has the same thinkin like u ...everi family will brk up once the rought patch comez

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by 180sx

Bros
After reading the thread, I do agree with wat most bro said here. There is one thing I dun understand. Why is it always the guys fault when in a quarrel? It seems like no matter wat I always got to be the one to apologise 1st. So guys when is the last time ur gf/wife apologise to u 1st after the quarrel? Seems like they are so perfect and have no faults like that.

For me, I never in my life quarrel with my gf. I will let her nag n nag, make a big fuss n so on... After she has finish n I know she has cool down then only I will reason with her, if I'm wrong I will apologise.

[axeman24]

Originally Posted by naemlo

For me, I never in my life quarrel with my gf. I will let her nag n nag, make a big fuss n so on... After she has finish n I know she has cool down then only I will reason with her, if I'm wrong I will apologise.

Bro I salute you at least you can tahan her nonsense I bet you are immune to the noise already. For me thought I must say I am quite patient but i still have my limits

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Argue, you lose, dont argue you also lose, in the end LL you still have to do it......

What to do? Only guys can LL mah... woman don't have lan so cannot LL. Like that just kept quiet and LL do it lor...

Originally Posted by 180sx

After reading the thread, I do agree with wat most bro said here. There is one thing I dun understand. Why is it always the guys fault when in a quarrel? It seems like no matter wat I always got to be the one to apologise 1st. So guys when is the last time ur gf/wife apologise to u 1st after the quarrel? Seems like they are so perfect and have no faults like that.

What's there to understand? The answer very simple mah.. she can ask you to go sleep on the couch tonight but you can't ask her to do that mah...

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

It seems that guys have to be gentleman at all times, no matter the gal do to us or say about us such as calling us bastards insulting our mothers, we also cannot raise our hands, lay a finger on them, cannot use vulgarities on them etc so what is so much about apologising...........

Look on the bright side lah... you can't scold her "fuck you" but you can actually do it mah... kekekekeke You cannot raise hand, fingers on her, but don't forget you are the one "fingering" and "poking" her kekeke, give and take lah.. some you win, some you lose...

Originally Posted by blurqueen12

plz la...in my case i haf to do the oppozite...i m the ger n yet i haf to give in to wat me bf sae...everithing........i alwayz kenna scolded.....but i never scolded him b4. he take me for granted too much.

Sis, you different mah... like you say your character more like guys mah... so have to have some guys disadvantage for you too lah.. kekeke

Originally Posted by Tomahawk

But seriously, I wish I had a gf like you. Kekeke...

Bro, grass always "look" greener on the other side lah...

Originally Posted by naemlo

1 advice to u, break up......

Bro, wrong advice... you don't even know the full story leh... so its dangerous to advise leh...

My 2 cents worth

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by axeman24

Bro I salute you at least you can tahan her nonsense I bet you are immune to the noise already. For me thought I must say I am quite patient but i still have my limits

Pssst, bro, (whispering), he only know his gf one week leh... wait he know his gf one year lah... then see the difference lor, kekekeke

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by axeman24

Bro I salute you at least you can tahan her nonsense I bet you are immune to the noise already. For me thought I must say I am quite patient but i still have my limits

I learnt to control... cos I know when she's 'boiling' there is no point trying to reason out or quarrel with her. She keeps asking me a question when she making 'noise'. "Y dun u quarrel with me?", my reply "I rather reason out with u".

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by blurqueen12

if everione has the same thinkin like u ...everi family will brk up once the rought patch comez

I dun get u, my previous statement was wat happen to a couple it all depend on themselves to THINK. Friends can be there to advice only.

[axeman24]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Pssst, bro, (whispering), he only know his gf one week leh... wait he know his gf one year lah... then see the difference lor, kekekeke

Bro you funny lah hahahaahaahah. Hmmm.......but I have to agreed with you lah

heck bout theze bgr stuff alwayz gimme headache...i dun wan to tink of nething liao...i juz wan to be carefree n happie dat'x all

Originally Posted by naemlo

I dun get u, my previous statement was wat happen to a couple it all depend on themselves to THINK. Friends can be there to advice only.

sometimez i tink i a bit like a plaeger...lol...i change bf like change clothez lol... so paiseh tell my friendz they will sae wat...u change again ah...lol...newae i m stickin wif my current one hopefulli he'z the one for me. lol sometimez i tink i like a guy like dat

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Pssst, bro, (whispering), he only know his gf one week leh... wait he know his gf one year lah... then see the difference lor, kekekeke

Hahahah ya my whole life a week of gf only.... :P

[axeman24]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I learnt to control... cos I know when she's 'boiling' there is no point trying to reason out or quarrel with her. She keeps asking me a question when she making 'noise'. "Y dun u quarrel with me?", my reply "I rather reason out with u".

Bro thats why i told you I really respect you lah