my affair with my sis in law

[NastyThaiboy]

I really like this story!

setting up my tent here for more updates.

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by diputs1269

I think J is still single becoz she just buried herself in her work, therefore she had risen to svp in short span of time. More updates please.

Since we parted 10 years ago, she only had one boyfriend.. And they were together for less than 3 years

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by Zax51

Or maybe short cut her way to SVP? 😏😏😏

If you work hard coupled with working smart, I think you will be successful in any field.

Then again, of course there will be ppl doubting her accomplishments just because she is rather young for a SVP and also quite attractive looking.

Just like... not all young ppl they drive a merc/bmw/porshe etc. are taking handouts from their parents or comes from rich background.

There are many young and successful ppl who worked their ass off to get to where they are.

[sunshots]

Nice story bro, camping for more updates

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by seowlang

Since we parted 10 years ago, she only had one boyfriend.. And they were together for less than 3 years

Thanks for your reply, maybe her heart is waiting for someone....that is you?

[Flyingcane]

Originally Posted by diputs1269

Thanks for your reply, maybe her heart is waiting for someone....that is you?

Quite possible too, I was thinking in the same direction

[Zax51]

Originally Posted by seowlang

If you work hard coupled with working smart, I think you will be successful in any field.

Then again, of course there will be ppl doubting her accomplishments just because she is rather young for a SVP and also quite attractive looking.

Just like... not all young ppl they drive a merc/bmw/porshe etc. are taking handouts from their parents or comes from rich background.

There are many young and successful ppl who worked their ass off to get to where they are.

True that! Sometimes working hard and smart is all that matters. Din mean to doubt, just meant a joke since we're in this platform. 😬

[seowlang]

Part 4 Back to Singapore
 
J didn’t answer my question even though I was quite sure my voice was audible in the silence of the night. I repeated a second time. She finally replied that she is single without looking at me.
I stifled my reaction and acted nonchalantly. We said our goodbyes and parted ways. The flight back home was a long bitter sweet one…
 
Its ironic and in a cynical way, how life will always throw curveballs at you. Memories do fate and pain eases.. out of sight, out of mind works to a very large extend. But when I saw J again, my clock turned backwards, and I was stuck in that limbo state for a while. Except that this time, I felt free and not bounded by any restrictions since I was already divorced. I was able to function as normal at work, not think about it in the gym… but against the breeze at night in my balcony with a drink on one hand and a cigarette on the other, my mind went into overdrive. Flashes of good times came flooding back fervently, as my mind selectively sensor out the unpleasant stuff and only savouring the good ones. Do I still have feelings for J?
 
Yes.
 
My mind, as usual, played the devil’s advocate. “One dinner and you are infatuated. How many times does it take to smack oneself in the face to wake the fuck up?” Crowded Houses’ “Don’t dream its over” reverberated in my mind, my head singing the 1 st verse of the chorus.. “hey now hey now, don’t dream its over..”
 
Then, as if in protest, my heart sang the next lines of the chorus in retort…  
 
“Hey now, hey now, when the world comes in.
They come, they come to build a wall between us
We know they won't win”
 
My heart still had the final say. I decided to ask J out for dinner about one week after I came back. She outright rejected me 3 times within the space of 2 weeks. I wasn’t about to give up though… One night after several drinks, I decided to send her a message.
 
Me: Do you only eat when you are on biz trip?
J: haha of cos not
Me: Dinner tomorrow?
J: tomorrow I can’t. I have con call at 8pm  
Me: No worries. I will wait for you
J: It will take more than an hour  
Me: One day you will run out of ideas to reject me
J: its not that
Me: I take that as a yes to meet up tomorrow then?
*She read the message and was online but took a long while to reply
J: Why not we just do drinks? I have a watering hole just a stroll from my office
Me: Sounds like a plan. I will be there at 8pm. Join me when you are done
 
I was still in awe that she finally agreed to meet up with me!
I couldn’t wait for the day to end even before it started. We are supposed to meet up 8ish at the earliest, but I arrived at 7pm and ordered a bottle of scotch. Nursing drinks for at least 2 hours before J arrived.
 
J: sorry, I am late. And I should have told you to start with my left-over bottle first.
 
J spoke to the waiter and asked to serve the left-over bottle to us. She was still chatting to the waiter when the bottle came. I picked it up and read the label. The bottle was reserved not under J’s real name but a variant of her name in her own hand writing. This nick name was given by me when we were together, just like she had also given one to me. My hair stood on ends and I had goosebumps as I placed the bottle down. We had made a pact back then that the nicks shall never be used by anyone. Nobody, except ourselves. Why would J hang on to this given name after so many years?

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by Zax51

True that! Sometimes working hard and smart is all that matters. Din mean to doubt, just meant a joke since we're in this platform. 😬

No worries mate

[SerflySGR]

Originally Posted by seowlang

J spoke to the waiter and asked to serve the left-over bottle to us. She was still chatting to the waiter when the bottle came. I picked it up and read the label. The bottle was reserved not under J’s real name but a variant of her name in her own hand writing. This nick name was given by me when we were together, just like she had also given one to me. My hair stood on ends and I had goosebumps as I placed the bottle down. We had made a pact back then that the nicks shall never be used by anyone. Nobody, except ourselves. Why would J hang on to this given name after so many years?

Excited for you Bro seowlang.

I hope that she won't reject you because of 'girls' honor' or some 'rules of engagement' that disallows a sister to be together with the ex-husband of another sister.

All the best, brother!

[DrumQueen]

Fantastic story TS, thanks for sharing!

[seowlang]

Part 5 That long night
 
I stared at the name J wrote on that bottle for quite a while. I was heartened and at the same time, inundated with emotions. I turned and looked at J. The manager of the establishment came over and was having small talks with her together with the waiter by then. Somehow, I was staring at J unknowingly even after they have walked away from the conversation. J snapped her fingers in my face to catch my attention.
 
Me: You are still so beautiful..
 
That caught both of us off guard. My mouth moved faster than my brain.. one of those times….
 
J: Sprouting nonsense after drinking too much is it? *rolling her eyes
 
Me: No, I mean it. You still upkeep so well with such a big portfolio, regular travelling plus irregular and long working hours
 
J: I know right. I hardly eat or sleep well because work is ridiculously heavy. Frankly I have no time left for anything else
 
Me: Not even time for a relationship?
 
J chose not to answer my question and swirled her glass without looking at me.
 
J: Don’t just talk about me. What’s up with you besides work?
 
Me: I am swarmed with work only. My life only revolves around work and exercise. Nothing else. But what to do? Life hasn’t been the same.. Hows your sis?
 
J: You all don’t contact each other at all?
 
Me: Not really
 
J: She is doing ok. Got married earlier this year, not sure you know about it?
 
Me: Really? I don’t know
 
J: It was just ROM and a small luncheon for the immediate families
 
Me: I am glad she found her happiness. From the bottom of my heart. We may not have ended amicably but at least one of us found happiness after going separate ways.. rather than both of us staying unhappy in a marriage forever
 
Somehow, I could feel J simply refused to ask anything about my relationship or love life. I decided to volunteer info myself.
 
Me: Its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. I never once regretted the past. Have you?

Again, J didn’t want to answer this leading question. I decided to excuse myself for a smoke outside and came back after a while.
 
J: I don’t remember you smoking so heavily in the past
 
Me: You know what they say about cigarettes? It meant for people who thinks the world is moving too fast.. and that 5 minutes put everything at a standstill
 
It was a long pause before I continued.
 
Me: While your sister has moved on, I have not. I am trapped. Every time I take one step forward, I would take 2 steps back
 
J finally asked: You seeing someone now?
 
Me: No. I wasn’t in a relationship all this while. I guess I will never fall in love again…
 
J: you have to move on
 
Me: Move on? Then what about you? Have you moved on all these years? If only..
 
J: Stop it. Please. Can you? I don’t know what you are trying to drive at but whatever it is…
 
Fuel with the alcohol on an empty stomach, all these years of pent up emotions suddenly surged through me. I could feel my eyes reddened and the whole upper torso heating up.  I caught J by the wrist and pointed my finger at the bottle with her nick given by me.
 
Me: Then what is this?
 
J: please stop. Please. You know why all these while I try not to meet up with you alone face to face? Its because I know you only too well!
 
Me: Ya, you know well my feelings all these…
 
J: Lets stop this. I wanna go home now
 
Me: that’s the problem with you! Why are you avoiding problems?
 
J: The only problem is you. I gotta go
 
Me: Look, I am sorry for bringing up the past. Can you stay with me?
 
J: No sorry, I have to go
 
Me: Please, J. I will stop talking about the past. I promise. Please sit here with me for a while. Its been years since I have a close friend to talk to.. (playing the sympathy card)
 
Some how I think J took pity from my words and she decided to stay. We didn’t speak for a few minutes before she spoke again.
 
J: You have to move forward and think about the future. You can’t be on this downward spiral. Get a grip of your emotions
 
Me: The past doesn’t define the future. But the past shapes a person’s view of the future. Experience is the hardest teacher; it gives the tests first and the lessons later
 
J: you told me this before
 
Me: I am not in such a bad state as you think. But it reaches a stage in your life where you have been through highs and lows, ups and downs.. and you finally come of age to know what you want, what you need… and what not to give a fuck.
 
J: And your point is?
 
Me: I care about my future and I know what I want. I want you to give me a chance
 
J: I warned you already, I will walk out right away if you…
 
Me: Come on J. your sis and I have already ended. Why can’t we think for ourselves and not lead a life defined by others? I am only asking for a chance, nothing else
 
J: Shut up!
 
J stood up and left. I didn’t want to stop her as I felt I have finally made my feelings known and my points across to her. There was a certain closure I was seeking all these years.. and that night, I found it to a large extent.
 
I snapped a picture of the nick on the bottle and left.
 
One thing is quite certain, I know she still has feelings for me…
 

[SerflySGR]

Originally Posted by seowlang

One thing is quite certain, I know she still has feelings for me…

Wish you all the best bro seowlang

[StaminaIsKey]

Originally Posted by seowlang

Part 5 That long night
 
I stared at the name J wrote on that bottle for quite a while. I was heartened and at the same time, inundated with emotions. I turned and looked at J. The manager of the establishment came over and was having small talks with her together with the waiter by then. Somehow, I was staring at J unknowingly even after they have walked away from the conversation. J snapped her fingers in my face to catch my attention.
 
Me: You are still so beautiful..
 
That caught both of us off guard. My mouth moved faster than my brain.. one of those times….
 
J: Sprouting nonsense after drinking too much is it? *rolling her eyes
 
Me: No, I mean it. You still upkeep so well with such a big portfolio, regular travelling plus irregular and long working hours
 
J: I know right. I hardly eat or sleep well because work is ridiculously heavy. Frankly I have no time left for anything else
 
Me: Not even time for a relationship?
 
J chose not to answer my question and swirled her glass without looking at me.
 
J: Don’t just talk about me. What’s up with you besides work?
 
Me: I am swarmed with work only. My life only revolves around work and exercise. Nothing else. But what to do? Life hasn’t been the same.. Hows your sis?
 
J: You all don’t contact each other at all?
 
Me: Not really
 
J: She is doing ok. Got married earlier this year, not sure you know about it?
 
Me: Really? I don’t know
 
J: It was just ROM and a small luncheon for the immediate families
 
Me: I am glad she found her happiness. From the bottom of my heart. We may not have ended amicably but at least one of us found happiness after going separate ways.. rather than both of us staying unhappy in a marriage forever
 
Somehow, I could feel J simply refused to ask anything about my relationship or love life. I decided to volunteer info myself.
 
Me: Its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. I never once regretted the past. Have you?

Again, J didn’t want to answer this leading question. I decided to excuse myself for a smoke outside and came back after a while.
 
J: I don’t remember you smoking so heavily in the past
 
Me: You know what they say about cigarettes? It meant for people who thinks the world is moving too fast.. and that 5 minutes put everything at a standstill
 
It was a long pause before I continued.
 
Me: While your sister has moved on, I have not. I am trapped. Every time I take one step forward, I would take 2 steps back
 
J finally asked: You seeing someone now?
 
Me: No. I wasn’t in a relationship all this while. I guess I will never fall in love again…
 
J: you have to move on
 
Me: Move on? Then what about you? Have you moved on all these years? If only..
 
J: Stop it. Please. Can you? I don’t know what you are trying to drive at but whatever it is…
 
Fuel with the alcohol on an empty stomach, all these years of pent up emotions suddenly surged through me. I could feel my eyes reddened and the whole upper torso heating up.  I caught J by the wrist and pointed my finger at the bottle with her nick given by me.
 
Me: Then what is this?
 
J: please stop. Please. You know why all these while I try not to meet up with you alone face to face? Its because I know you only too well!
 
Me: Ya, you know well my feelings all these…
 
J: Lets stop this. I wanna go home now
 
Me: that’s the problem with you! Why are you avoiding problems?
 
J: The only problem is you. I gotta go
 
Me: Look, I am sorry for bringing up the past. Can you stay with me?
 
J: No sorry, I have to go
 
Me: Please, J. I will stop talking about the past. I promise. Please sit here with me for a while. Its been years since I have a close friend to talk to.. (playing the sympathy card)
 
Some how I think J took pity from my words and she decided to stay. We didn’t speak for a few minutes before she spoke again.
 
J: You have to move forward and think about the future. You can’t be on this downward spiral. Get a grip of your emotions
 
Me: The past doesn’t define the future. But the past shapes a person’s view of the future. Experience is the hardest teacher; it gives the tests first and the lessons later
 
J: you told me this before
 
Me: I am not in such a bad state as you think. But it reaches a stage in your life where you have been through highs and lows, ups and downs.. and you finally come of age to know what you want, what you need… and what not to give a fuck.
 
J: And your point is?
 
Me: I care about my future and I know what I want. I want you to give me a chance
 
J: I warned you already, I will walk out right away if you…
 
Me: Come on J. your sis and I have already ended. Why can’t we think for ourselves and not lead a life defined by others? I am only asking for a chance, nothing else
 
J: Shut up!
 
J stood up and left. I didn’t want to stop her as I felt I have finally made my feelings known and my points across to her. There was a certain closure I was seeking all these years.. and that night, I found it to a large extent.
 
I snapped a picture of the nick on the bottle and left.
 
One thing is quite certain, I know she still has feelings for me…
 

I assume that you and J finally got together in the end?
If you two really got together, how did the two of you face your MIL and SIL/Ex-Wife...? Really curious

[manualo]

OMG such a touching story. Great share bro!