Here's to the people who dont know me who dont know my story.

[demonhunter]

[demonhunter]

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

excuse me, this is what. sharing your youtube playlist is it

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by fion.18

excuse me, this is what. sharing your youtube playlist is it

cos I'm stuck on you .....

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

cos I'm stuck on you .....

can concentrate ah. multi task? 👅

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by fion.18

can concentrate ah. multi task? 👅

You are so naughty .....

later I will punish you !

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

You are so naughty .....

later I will punish you !

as long as no purple i'm not scared

[ExBros]

Originally Posted by fion.18

don't come here romance me. this is emo thread okay 💋💋

but! miss you leh!

Jealous leh!

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by ExBros

Jealous leh!

jealous what leh

[iloveu4ever]

Originally Posted by iluvjuicytits

Sorry but we need to tell you the truth and the truth usually hurts.
You are a low self esteem psychotic girl. You think that by inflicting such wound cuts or pain will take away all your troubles and worries and have a solution to your current issues. Dream on! You are a grown up and do not have the brains of a young naive child.
It is all in the mindset and your life is determined only by you. The brothers and sisters in here have only that much to help you. If you do not get yourself up on your feet and continue to spiral into further mess, God can't even save you much less us.

Your method of fucking someone to wake up his/her idea is not applicable here. U dun noe a shit abt her. U honestly think it will make her wake u? Naive...stupid...sounds more like u bloody fucktard

[Jebuschris91]

Cutting is a form of self-harming that is done with no intent of suicide. People who resort to multiple episodes of cutting are usually those who fall in the category of people experiencing loneliness, emptiness in the heart, those having difficult or dysfunctional relationships. People who cut themselves may also have an inability to cope with stress, an inability to express feelings and emotions owing to inadequate communication skills, have had traumatic experiences, or may have undergone abuse of some kind, which can be sexual, physical, or emotional at some point of their lives.

Make sure you are in a place to help. If you really want to help a loved one who cuts, it is important for you to be mentally and emotionally strong before you start. When you help someone who self-harms, you might have to listen to and witness very taxing and traumatizing events. You have to commit to doing it from the beginning. You cannot decide to pull out of it half way through. You could make it worse for them if you turn your back on them after they share their pain and experiences with you.

Approach your friend with ease and compassion. If you notice that your friend has cuts on their arms, if you notice a change in clothing where they are covering their skin even when it's hot outside, or if you have any other reason to think that your friend is cutting themselves, you should try to help. When you approach your friend, do so in an easy, gentle manner. Don't try to accuse them of keeping things from you, yell at them for their actions, or be combative in any way. They need your support and understanding as well as your help, so accusing them or being aggressive is not going to get you anywhere. Instead, approach them with compassion and understanding and let them know that you are there for them.

Acknowledge their emotions. Since most people who cut do so to release inner emotions, letting your friend know that you acknowledge and understand her emotions, or at least empathize with them, will help them. You need to connect with them on a personal level in order to help them, get through to them, and be part of their recovery process. Tell them you understand how overwhelming emotions can be and that you sometimes get overwhelmed too.

Be consistent. Do not bounce back and forth with your approach to their self-harm. Do not act as if you are suspicious of their intentions, emotions, and behavior. If you in any way feel you cannot trust them or what they say, don't let it show. Be there to support them and let them know you are there. Gaining their trust fully may take time. If you approach them with a helpful attitude some times and at other times displaying an I am not concerned attitude, you may do more harm than good.

Don't take charge. Do not go about helping your loved one or friend by acting as though you are in control of their life. Although you want to change their self-harming behavior, you do not need to take charge of everything or control your loved one. Don't be extremely strict or controlling. This could frighten them to such an extent that they could find you unapproachable.

As much as you want to help your friend or loved one, you cannot make your friend recover or change the behavior. In order to truly overcome cutting, your friend must find a way to accomplish this themselves.

Keep the connection open. You may not be able to reach your friend. If they are not yet in a place where they want to be helped, you can't force them to be ready. Make sure you leave the lines of communication open and let them know that you are there for them, but don't push them to listen to you if you have tried your best to talk to them. If you push too hard, you could push them away and then you won't be able to help them at all.

Don't lecture. Pandering to her will not make her want to change her self-harming behavior. Do not try to drill the person with lectures and sermons that go on for a long time. Keep your talks small and simple. Let the person take in and digest whatever it is you told her. Give her the time to contemplate.

[XoXoVERA]

I dare you show your face here too (: may all the spirit of this 7th month haunt you <3

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by XoXoVERA

I dare you show your face here too (: may all the spirit of this 7th month haunt you <3

This guy using clone to F**k you. He no ball to using his actual nick
Another scumbag

[XoXoVERA]

Life is getting back on track slowly. Im able to wake up at 7am now. Hopeful to be back to work soon. Got too depressed with everything. Lost my job meanwhile. Got into hospital. Many episodes of trying to struggle. Im thankful for people being patient with me. Im even thankful for people who put me down. Because of your criticism, it kinda made my day. To think of how shallow and how ugly a person heart can be made me thankful of who I am as person. At least 我缺的是钱，别人是缺德。钱可以赚，缺德的心im not too sure 可以换吗。thank you bro and sis <3 im listening tho im not replying. Ive read each and every of your messages. 选择沉默是为了吸收，反省。I lost myself pretty badly. Im finding me back. Thanks for your patience <3

[XoXoVERA]

Not sure who is sis ongtammy but thank you so much babe. You know you've did a fair bit here. I honestly am not too mindful about the points just that life went spiralling down. All those encouraging messages from various samsters mentioned about you. Thank you babe <3 May life prosper for you too.