Can you accept your wife's Ex-bf as frz?

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by primalhunter

i got a situation for bros here. say a and b are good buddies... sworn bros. b has a gf for more than 10yrs but treat her like dirt. b always go around screwing behind her back. a has always told off b about his ways and ask b to treat gf better but b never listen, always boast about his 'fun' with other gers.

a only ever loves d in his life but somehow, no luck with her. a always around d when she needs help.

finally a and d got together. but d decide to come clean, told a that she and b had underground relationship b4 just after she broke off with her ex. usual modus operandi, go sian ger when she is hurt most. best part is, during that time, b told a that his new 'project' is the most shiok one so far! a was hurt knowing this but love d too much to let go but damn pissed with b now.

all the while b is the only one of a's buddy to tell a not to give up on d. always say got chance one(nah beh, for who!!!). CCBKNN he go behind and up her at the same time. fucker, b not only 2 time his gf but oso make a fool out of a, his best buddy.

Now a and d are married but a still cannot forgive b eventhough b regret like hell, really regret like hell. change his ways and married gf, now with kids aledi.

a oso once in a while feel pain thinking that 2 of his most intimate friend betrayed him but must go on, cos love d too much.

4 yrs have past, a n d has a child aledi, but a sometimes still feel pain to think that d was with b b4. a console himself by saying that when d was with b, a was not in the picture yet. true, but try telling a that. to a, he and b can never be friends again.

ok now.... bros, what is ur take on this situation? i think quite a few of bros here in same situation b4. wanna share ur toughts.

Sorry I have to quote the whole post. Damn complicated if I dun. Will you guys stop using A, B, C, D? Very confusing. Can use fake names instead?

By the way, you mentioned that 2 of his most intimate friends betrayed him. But the story is all about A, B and D right? So who's the other intimate friend not mentioned? u(as in you) ah? U see lar, even I am using alphabets.

[yanki1]

hmm so far nev happen to me leh. all my gf dun contact their ex one.

[primalhunter]

two of a(ALfred) most intimate friends are b(Buddy), his best buddy and d(Dina), Alfred's wife.

Sorry if it was confusing bro......

[primalhunter]

to the treadstarter, dun mean to hijack ur thread but tot bros here could give me some input on this situation. Frankly, Alfred is no angel too. Really a true blue cheongster but all the cheonging meant nothing to him. There was a time when his then gf broke off with him because he left in the middle of the night for penang when he got a call from dina. dina just broke off with her ex and was crying on the phone.

and yes i m alfred....

actually all things considered happily married now but just can't shake the tot of them being together b4. hate myself for that.

[whitegals]

Originally Posted by Magpies

Haha..juz sme stoopid tot..imagine on ROM or wedding day, the ex comes to u and whisper into ur ear...'How?gt smell or taste my cock when u kiss her?'...wat will u do nxt?keke...

Then say,

"I dunno, I've not kissed her yet, she's got some open cold sores in her mouth, doctor say quite infectious, kena leow, cock also will rot, better dun play play."

See wot his face is like.....

[HayHot]

Y not ?
At least you aready have a common interested/topic to talk abt.
HER.

[JPimp]

I would have no problem. I think it would be my woman feeling more paiseh than me.

Actually I thought it would be women who do not want to associate themselves with their ex's.

[foolish_]

I think the answer depends on what kind of person that is.

For me it was the opposite. Fred and me were close frens frm sch and was in the same army unit. I then got to know this girl, Cindy. We dated for about a year and of course were Fxxking frequently. All this while, Fred also like her but could only admire her frm a distance. After I broke off with Cindy, he approach me about 3 mths later and told me he really liked her and said he was going to woo her now. It was only then that I finally realized why he usually felt sad whenever I talk about what I did with Cindy. I encourage him to go ahead and was careful to stay clear of talking about my past with Cindy.

Today they are married with 2 kids and we all are still frens. I guess it took 2 hands to clap. Fred had to be open-minded enuff and trust me and Cindy. As a fren, I had to be sensitive.

[Magpies]

Haha...Tats a gd one...

Originally Posted by whitegals

Then say,

"I dunno, I've not kissed her yet, she's got some open cold sores in her mouth, doctor say quite infectious, kena leow, cock also will rot, better dun play play."

See wot his face is like.....

[sexbabi]

Originally Posted by foolish_

I guess it took 2 hands to clap. Fred had to be open-minded enuff and trust me and Cindy. As a fren, I had to be sensitive.

nicely put

[primalhunter]

hey thanks bro foolish for ur reply. I guess u r right. but for me, i just hate the way buddy play dumb behind my back telling not to give up and then go have underground relationship with dina. he has always been the type who run away from problems, same here when i found out about it from dina, he dun dare show face. that makes me even more angry with him being so spineless......

but u r right, the past is the past....

[XX26]

Originally Posted by XX26

Why do you want to shake hand with someone who once fuck your gf/ wife?

somehow, someone zap me after posting the above question w/o reason.

Just want to add, be honest, Do you feel like having your ex-gf again? Keeping as a friend status is definatly a good door opening for this to happen someway down the road, ya?

I believe most or all guys would love to re-visit the love paradise we once had before. Just that this time round, there's no more commitment.