She's gone .

[hugs]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Mai lah. Mai buay lah. Donch want to buy. Don't follow me to here lah. This is my secret hiding place. Away from those small boys. Here I want to ohmmmm......and listen to Hurricane88's wisdom. Ohmmmmmmm

Haiz. Sometimes I also agree that there come a time we all want to ohmmmmm. ...ohmmmmm...and Zzz. .ok I go Zzz already tomorrow need to work..I want to geng it's Friday liao.

[PPGirl]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Mai lah. Mai buay lah. Donch want to buy. Don't follow me to here lah. This is my secret hiding place. Away from those small boys.

not following u. I am always here way b4 u lolz
Anyway ts cheer up! Time will heal d wound. Easier say than done. Just do things that u enjoy doing, go out with frds more.

[Fuckster]

Ts, be thankful that NS still providing you with 3 meals in cook house and a few hundred bucks of allowances per month, don't blame them lah.

If you were in my shoe now, above 40, unemployed for more than 6 months and unable to find a job, savings slowly fading away, you will then understand that in life;

GF dumps you, Wife dumps you, painful but won't die, Lost your job and no MONEY, EVEN MORE PAINFUL AND SURE DIE!!!

[thickhead]

Hi,

Go WDA in Jurong to look for a job. Or some CDC have job-matching schemes ...

Don't stay unemployed for too long ...

BR - TH

[urgg]

[wayne23416]

TS...my advice is to get back on your feet fast..the air is thinning man...

I similarly have a pass like u...but mine is slightly different...

I went to USA to study..fell in love with a Taiwanese girl..went steady..came back had a long distance relationship with her so Sg-Tw was pretty frequent..then i fucked up..we dragged the rs for abt a month with sobbing and crying over the phone.."Y u do this to me? I loved u" that kinda stuff..i was 25 then..took me 2 years to get over her and now in my late 20's..closing 30's haven't found someone...

The dating pool at this point is starting to thin where the good ladies are hitched or attached..Single ones are either Single Mothers (who will just go for anyone..no offence) or Crazy Ones or Self-centered ones...at 23...i'm thinking that your dating pool is still relatively young...quite a fair share of good ones..prob 1 or 2 of your friends are married but not most of them..so u still have a fair chance to find some hidden gems, diamonds in the rough that jus need abit of polishing or nice sweet ladies..

No one will replace her..No one will b on par with her..take it as a lesson..it is better to have loved and lost than to never to have loved at all..this pain is hard to describe..your heartaches..u'll still cry from time to time..but take me as your future self warning you that the air is thinning...go out and find another lady to love and who loves you back...i'm sure there are tons of ladies who would love to meet a guy like you..just watch out for the bad or crazy ones.. =-)

[PatrickCowboy]

Originally Posted by wayne23416

No one will replace her..No one will b on par with her..take it as a lesson..it is better to have loved and lost than to never to have loved at all..this pain is hard to describe..your heartaches..u'll still cry from time to time..but take me as your future self warning you that the air is thinning...go out and find another lady to love and who loves you back...i'm sure there are tons of ladies who would love to meet a guy like you..just watch out for the bad or crazy ones.. =-)

Great courage to stop when you knew you had to. No point dragging your feet in any tough to maintain relationship.

[anontraveller2]

I have nothing more to add, just hope TS does not blame NS; it is an all too easy target board to blame for all things not going one's way during NS..

Good luck in getting over this, many more of such setbacks is the future, good if you have learnt from this experience, if not, life has a funny way of teaching you the same lessons over and over again.

[sicknasty]

She wrote on her blog that she still love me, and wish thing didn't end up liek this.

Guess her new r/s doesnt work out and realise i was real to her and other guy was just trying to get in her pants.

Oh well... girls.

But i'm not turning back, will look forward. no contact for 2 months already, will keep it up.

[Atta]

Keep it up. Next one will be better.

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by sicknasty

She wrote on her blog that she still love me, and wish thing didn't end up liek this.

Guess her new r/s doesnt work out and realise i was real to her and other guy was just trying to get in her pants.

Oh well... girls.

But i'm not turning back, will look forward. no contact for 2 months already, will keep it up.

I give u a virtual pat on your back . WELL DONE!

Girls who turn against their BF , generally has a new love in her life .
their hearts are not that strong .

Esp when they are not even reading or replying your text , they are focused on the new guy's text instead

Just like how she regretted on this new guy ...so she needs someone there for her now ... she regretted her decision and wants to turn back the clock .wishing it was only a dream .

Never ever go back to her . History might repeat .

Consider her as stale meat and list her as another one of your collection .

go bang some fresher ones and repeat the cycle !

[senters89]

Originally Posted by wayne23416

TS...my advice is to get back on your feet fast..the air is thinning man...

I similarly have a pass like u...but mine is slightly different...

I went to USA to study..fell in love with a Taiwanese girl..went steady..came back had a long distance relationship with her so Sg-Tw was pretty frequent..then i fucked up..we dragged the rs for abt a month with sobbing and crying over the phone.."Y u do this to me? I loved u" that kinda stuff..i was 25 then..took me 2 years to get over her and now in my late 20's..closing 30's haven't found someone...

The dating pool at this point is starting to thin where the good ladies are hitched or attached..Single ones are either Single Mothers (who will just go for anyone..no offence) or Crazy Ones or Self-centered ones...at 23...i'm thinking that your dating pool is still relatively young...quite a fair share of good ones..prob 1 or 2 of your friends are married but not most of them..so u still have a fair chance to find some hidden gems, diamonds in the rough that jus need abit of polishing or nice sweet ladies..

No one will replace her..No one will b on par with her..take it as a lesson..it is better to have loved and lost than to never to have loved at all..this pain is hard to describe..your heartaches..u'll still cry from time to time..but take me as your future self warning you that the air is thinning...go out and find another lady to love and who loves you back...i'm sure there are tons of ladies who would love to meet a guy like you..just watch out for the bad or crazy ones.. =-)

it is true brother, some people are some r/s is really hard to replace

[MacDD]

[Annabelle93]

Originally Posted by MacDD

the song like old but nice ~

[MacDD]