Been single for more than 10 years

[Dogmatix]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Hi bros and sis,

This year I am 35 years old. I have been single since June 2002 until today. After the breakup did tried several attempts to court gals but unsuccessful. Either one of us did not like each other or we both have high demand. In summary no love destiny for us.

To release the stress of broken heart I also tried cheonging at Thailand, watch porn and have almost everyday PCC at home. I also visit spas, MPs and freelancers for their sex service, about few times in a year.

The older I get I just feel marriage is starting to become obsolete as more and more couples are getting divorce. I got to know two ex-classmates (one male & female) already divorced. This for me influenced me in certain ways and make me look more on negative side on marriage.

Actually I am doing fine in my everyday life. Working and sleeping alone. And in my free time I also go walking at park alone. Not really expecting or chasing anyone. Marriage is unthinkable for me now. I just feel single life give me more freedom and independent life that I truly enjoyed.

The purpose of this post is not to find new gf thru SBF or gain sympathies from members here. I just want to know humble opinions from single bros and sis on how they cope with their everyday single life.

Thanks for reading this and sharing your opinion.

You'll be surprised that you're not the only one in this position.

For example, I haven't had a serious relation in ages that I got cobweb on my d**k.



Jokes aside, there are pros & cons either way - single or attached.

Most important for me is not to force the issue.

You do what you can & thereafter let the unseen forces decide.

When the time comes and the stars are aligned, things will just fall into place very naturally.

On the other hand, if it's not right time or mismatch, no matter what you do, things will always go wrong.

Better just enjoy singlehood when possible.

So many things to do, which includes screwing with the ladies.

[doomday123]

Originally Posted by jnudes

I mostly PCC after watching porn. Save me lots of money from commercial sex industry. On average I cheong less than 10 times per year.

Wow, your 10 times per year is equal to my 10 times per month...................................

Guess I really need to cut down my FLs activities.....................

[furritales]

Being single has its own headaches.....

Being attached has its own heartaches.....

Being attached and yet feels like single (cos partner not interested in sex) is both heart and headaches......

At the end of the day it is up to you to choose which aches you think you want.

[Jamester999]

Originally Posted by doomday123

At least u all ever have a relationship before but moi never have 1 before and I am coming to 50........................................

There is PRO and CON being single and marriage...................

I was about to post myself saying i'm 34 this year and no have single GF before in my whole 34 years of life, then saw ur post.
hahaha make me feel like small potato lol.

you know in the eyes 99% of people out there, we're the weirdos. in the majority people's eye, only weirdos or problematic or gay people are like that.
Im sure you know what i'm saying here.

even the bros that are single for long time (but have relationships before)
will not understand also.

we're in another 'league'.

[muscleboi]

if you wanna a girl to support you emotionally, get a girlfriend but she may bring you more emotional torture than emotional support.
if its physical needs, WL will do the job and she will definitely do the job (with gfe or not is another thing)

whatever you do, make an informed decision

[peanodood1337]

(Posted in another thread. But same topic. So cut and paste lol)

First, you have to accept that its perfectly ok being single. What's so bad about that? Do ONS or go GL when you have urges. Save money that you would have spent on wife and kids to be a filial son. Treat your parents well.

Then when you grow old, check yourself into a nice old-folks home with your savings. Play chess everyday. Talk cock with fellow uncles. Watch TV. Oogle at chio nurse. Sounds ok right?

I have seen too many peers/relatives in unhappy marriages/divorces. Marriage is overrated. Don't get peer-pressured into settling down just because "its time to settle down".

Get a FB. Go into casual dating. Not difficult if you have decent finances and don't look utterly shite. See what develops from there.

Be happy. You owe it to yourself to be happy.

Take care bros.

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

(Posted in another thread. But same topic. So cut and paste lol)

First, you have to accept that its perfectly ok being single. What's so bad about that? Do ONS or go GL when you have urges. Save money that you would have spent on wife and kids to be a filial son. Treat your parents well.

Then when you grow old, check yourself into a nice old-folks home with your savings. Play chess everyday. Talk cock with fellow uncles. Watch TV. Oogle at chio nurse. Sounds ok right?

I have seen too many peers/relatives in unhappy marriages/divorces. Marriage is overrated. Don't get peer-pressured into settling down just because "its time to settle down"

Get a FB. Go into casual dating. Not difficult if you have decent finances and don't look utterly shite. See what develops from there.

Be happy. You owe it to yourself to be happy.

Take care bros.

Great minds think alike! cant be closer to the truth.

[Jamester999]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

if you wanna a girl to support you emotionally, get a girlfriend but she may bring you more emotional torture than emotional support.
if its physical needs, WL will do the job and she will definitely do the job (with gfe or not is another thing)

whatever you do, make an informed decision

LOL "but she may bring you more emotional torture than emotional support"
too funny !!

[Jamester999]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

(Posted in another thread. But same topic. So cut and paste lol)

First, you have to accept that its perfectly ok being single. What's so bad about that? Do ONS or go GL when you have urges. Save money that you would have spent on wife and kids to be a filial son. Treat your parents well.

Then when you grow old, check yourself into a nice old-folks home with your savings. Play chess everyday. Talk cock with fellow uncles. Watch TV. Oogle at chio nurse. Sounds ok right?

I have seen too many peers/relatives in unhappy marriages/divorces. Marriage is overrated. Don't get peer-pressured into settling down just because "its time to settle down".

Get a FB. Go into casual dating. Not difficult if you have decent finances and don't look utterly shite. See what develops from there.

Be happy. You owe it to yourself to be happy.

Take care bros.

agreed
marriage is overrated. just knew of a friend just divorced also.

btw 'check urself into old folks home' ? lol
interesting, never thought of it that way before lol

what is the rate ? how much ? lol

[ddog]

having GF = $ drain + bitching
single = No commitment, swinging fun

[peanodood1337]

Originally Posted by Jamester999

agreed
marriage is overrated. just knew of a friend just divorced also.

btw 'check urself into old folks home' ? lol
interesting, never thought of it that way before lol

what is the rate ? how much ? lol

I did some rooting around for the info. Seems like the cheapest rates would be around $800/mth for Category 1 (i.e. able to function independently, no crippling physical disabilities):

http://$$$$$$$.com/ctlmstz

With inflation, not sure what it'll be like when we retire lol

[SiliconVibrator]

talkin abt being single, im one of the bro.... 37 liao lo, although sometime may feel loney but it beats having problems frm r/s or marriage. cheers...

[ziwan]

Hi bro,

I have the same age as you and single too.
I been cheonging, visit spa, KTV overseas all these while. I think sometime its a torture not to have someone to tok to.
So i think is important for single to have a number of friends/khakis who can meet up for coffee, drinks or cheonging.

Originally Posted by jnudes

Hi bros and sis,

This year I am 35 years old. I have been single since June 2002 until today. After the breakup did tried several attempts to court gals but unsuccessful. Either one of us did not like each other or we both have high demand. In summary no love destiny for us.

To release the stress of broken heart I also tried cheonging at Thailand, watch porn and have almost everyday PCC at home. I also visit spas, MPs and freelancers for their sex service, about few times in a year.

The older I get I just feel marriage is starting to become obsolete as more and more couples are getting divorce. I got to know two ex-classmates (one male & female) already divorced. This for me influenced me in certain ways and make me look more on negative side on marriage.

Actually I am doing fine in my everyday life. Working and sleeping alone. And in my free time I also go walking at park alone. Not really expecting or chasing anyone. Marriage is unthinkable for me now. I just feel single life give me more freedom and independent life that I truly enjoyed.

The purpose of this post is not to find new gf thru SBF or gain sympathies from members here. I just want to know humble opinions from single bros and sis on how they cope with their everyday single life.

Thanks for reading this and sharing your opinion.

[Jamester999]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

I did some rooting around for the info. Seems like the cheapest rates would be around $800/mth for Category 1 (i.e. able to function independently, no crippling physical disabilities):

http://$$$$$$$.com/ctlmstz

With inflation, not sure what it'll be like when we retire lol

800 per month. so it's like they will take care of ur 1)food 2)lodging 3)msic things 4)medical ah ?

wah .. let's say 30-40 yr from now, the cost maybe at least 3-4 times .....
around 3000 maybe.

die lah

anyway that link is what ? cant access ..

[Jamester999]

Originally Posted by SiliconVibrator

talkin abt being single, im one of the bro.... 37 liao lo, although sometime may feel loney but it beats having problems frm r/s or marriage. cheers...

really wish all the bro and sis who got r/s all the best.

it's pain to see some of my friend with unhappy marriage..