Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by tikokeong

Not trying to defend for her as far as my knowledge before i know her yes after i know her she stop working.Issit it the only way is to try to appeal?

Marry her...fixed the rom date...you need to be her sponsor...you must have a good income with at least 2 years or more cpf contributions....but you must be patient to go thru a long journey...or you can go to vietnam to live...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by tikokeong

HMakes me feel like vietnam is not human and as and when they like to give what as they wish.

I mentioned a word earlier, "clean".... Have a good talk with your gf.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I have a bad feeling that your gf hide from you.

Bingo... I was thinking of this.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Hmm...you are defending her...all samsters here who have WL gf all think the gf will be the odd one out and will never betray you...but for me, i will not trust even 20%.

There is a saying from them, "Every WL has her past. Now she knows me, she dun work as WL, she good ger now"....

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Marry her...fixed the rom date...you need to be her sponsor...you must have a good income with at least 2 years or more cpf contributions....but you must be patient to go thru a long journey...or you can go to vietnam to live...

Stay in Vietnam will be good. A decent apartment 80sqm, abt 72000USD, river view in Binh Thanh with facilities.... Ride a bike, petrol 16500dong for 92. Everydays eat big fish, big meat and a can of tiger is only abt 10k dong.

[tikokeong]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Marry her...fixed the rom date...you need to be her sponsor...you must have a good income with at least 2 years or more cpf contributions....but you must be patient to go thru a long journey...or you can go to vietnam to live...

Yes these is our planning these year nov to get married I know it is short time that i know her and viet girl like to xao nhieu nhieu but so far i can see what she try to do for me i .. Well also but have to wait for my divorce to be total end now still waiting for the lawyer to file and to give me the Decree Nisi Absolute should be around 2-3 weeks then i will get it then i can arrange the ROM date and appeal letter or not i don't have a good reason or is there a better reason to wrote in the appeal letter?

[zichuan]

Originally Posted by tikokeong

Yes these is our planning these year nov to get married I know it is short time that i know her and viet girl like to xao nhieu nhieu but so far i can see what she try to do for me i .. Well also but have to wait for my divorce to be total end now still waiting for the lawyer to file and to give me the Decree Nisi Absolute should be around 2-3 weeks then i will get it then i can arrange the ROM date and appeal letter or not i don't have a good reason or is there a better reason to wrote in the appeal letter?

bro word of advice, ICA knew more things on ur gf then you knew.

gd luck to you just dont be a victim

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by tikokeong

Have wen down ICA in the afternoon the reply they give me it the same under the immgration policy they can't even explain to me. Wierd they told me it cannot be review.

I do not know why so many bro like to waste their time going to ICA to clarify things. Answer from any government agency is the same.... cannot review.

Originally Posted by tikokeong

5.Since starting of of these year only only 2 weeks in jan

Contridicting the para below.

Originally Posted by tikokeong

2nd time she come is during dec and got extend until jan and went back then i when there to see her.

This must be it... extended stay. I guess she can wait awhile more before coming in if she is 'clean'

Originally Posted by tikokeong

No, that is for sure her 1st passport she came to sg 1st time on somewhere in august 2009 yes she is a WL i know her since some where later

1st time here in Aug. Probably stay till Oct. Then come in again in Dec till Jan.
Try to come again in Feb.... I guess with this pattern of travel to Sillypore, ICA will not profile them as tourist, so they have right to suspect and send her back.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by tikokeong

During jan i was the 1 that sent her to airport cfm that she no xao. CFM no tio caught before And CNY i was with her all the time even now and everyday i was on the phone with her every time call every time answer. Now she is helping at her mum stall everyday.

If you send her to airport and she has her passport on hand, that means she never kana caught. But how can you confirm never kana checked passport?

Unless from Dec to Jan she stay at your house 24/7 and never appear in GL/JC.

Most WL do nothing back in vn or help out in the family only. Till money runs out, you will then get the taste of it. Either you give or approve her to work.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by tikokeong

Yes these is our planning these year nov to get married I know it is short time that i know her and viet girl like to xao nhieu nhieu but so far i can see what she try to do for me i .. Well also but have to wait for my divorce to be total end

About same case as me... but I dragged 3-4 years.
While you can't ROM with her now, this is a got time to step back and observe before really commiting.

[tikokeong]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

If you send her to airport and she has her passport on hand, that means she never kana caught. But how can you confirm never kana checked passport?

Unless from Dec to Jan she stay at your house 24/7 and never appear in GL/JC.

Most WL do nothing back in vn or help out in the family only. Till money runs out, you will then get the taste of it. Either you give or approve her to work.

yes ,during dec to jan she is with me all the time. when sent her to the airport i was the 1 that had her ticket and passport on hand & i was the 1 that help her check in in the airport counter.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by tikokeong

yes ,during dec to jan she is with me all the time. when sent her to the airport i was the 1 that had her ticket and passport on hand & i was the 1 that help her check in in the airport counter.

Good since she has clean record in ICA. But base on the pattern of travel, ICA still can suspect and disallow entry.

I know of many bros whose galfriend has frequent short trips to sillypore, travel till they get tired of it. I never hear any problem from them.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Fifth, she has not been staying here for more than 90 days in one year.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

1st time here in Aug. Probably stay till Oct. Then come in again in Dec till Jan.
Try to come again in Feb.... I guess with this pattern of travel to Sillypore, ICA will not profile them as tourist, so they have right to suspect and send her back.

She had been residing in Singapore for more than 90 days in a short span of 6 months. See my point 5 above.

Sure rejected to come in for at least one year unless has other reason to come in. Example: 1) Medical examination include hospitalisation, 2) Business conference (short trip up to 1 week), 3) Valid work permit with sponsorship, etc.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by tikokeong

Yes these is our planning these year nov to get married I know it is short time that i know her and viet girl like to xao nhieu nhieu but so far i can see what she try to do for me i .. Well also but have to wait for my divorce to be total end now still waiting for the lawyer to file and to give me the Decree Nisi Absolute should be around 2-3 weeks then i will get it then i can arrange the ROM date and appeal letter or not i don't have a good reason or is there a better reason to wrote in the appeal letter?

Not sure why you want to jump into another marriage after your divorce...think you haven learn the lesson...

I quote Boss Sam said "are you mad, you want to marry a whore"..."whore are meant to fuck and no contact after that..."

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SureScore

She had been residing in Singapore for more than 90 days in a short span of 6 months. See my point 5 above.

I failed to understand why many bros are so in love with their galfriend that they want their galfriend to stay long long long in sillypore then face a problem of coming in again.

[SingViet]

Bro tikokeong, after reading yr posts, i am sure you are still a newbie in the world of Viet WL. Do not hurry to get married, take some time to observe and ponder. Their world is not as easy and straightforward as singaporeans.

[rainlouren]

i need help advise

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by rainlouren

i need help advise

What u need??? U need "help" or "advice"?