woes of a tirak

[free]

Originally Posted by sex maniac

you are such a loser!

From your perspective, Yes, I am a loser, and many times over too. But there will be times when I will chose to lose, that I (and others) may attain a goal that is bigger than myself, one that benefits others, except perhaps me. For Life to me is not just about "I, me and myself", it is much more.

Before you shoot off your hips again, I hope u will use whatever left over of the heart you are born with and medidate on the larger meaning of my post. It is written in a way that not many will see the truth behind the words I write. Only those that look within themselves will find the meaning in what I say, if it has not already jumped out at them. I urge u to go look for the book "Why Knock Rock?" and read it with an open heart. Perhaps...perhaps it may change yr mindset altogether, like it did for me years ago.

U would probably not imagine that I can even understand what u are doing now, but it is is pretty clear, really. All your "dog & pony" shows tell me that you feel the need to be accepted by the "larger" group, and therefore you twisted and turned to get there, perhaps losing yourself in the process. U somehow feel u need to show that you are worth something and deserve respect, and therefore do things to show u are better or at least as good in the perspective of the ppl u want acceptance from. U tot u started out wrong and now perhaps u are doing ok, cos u now seemed accepted. Think again. Maybe u will see that you are worse off than before.

I too desire acceptance, love and respect, but I looked for it within myself. And I have found it. Then I found it in the hearts of others who would love me inspite of my failures, my mistakes, my weaknesses, and not those who love me only cos I brought them benefits (or rep points, ).

There is much much more to the meaning of life than WLs and/or a few bonks.

[free]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

U witnessed many failed marriages in SG, but have you been to thailand to witness the amount of failed relationships and marriages? Which country do not have failed marriages or high amount of failed marriages?

When Sammyboy was/is lambasting PAP, don't tell me he was living in a perfect governed country so-called Australia? Please!!

Back to the topic on TG making a better wife. Are you trying to say that the TG that you know now will make a better wife in your opinion?

When a cheat is caught and published in the newspapers for preying on old women of their life savings, the readers lambast and hope he get a heavy sentence. And when a prostitute cheats another men, some will say she is driven by circumstances. C'mon, if today the cheat is not poor, you think he like to cheat and prey on old women for a living? I am not saying that the cheat is correct. HE IS WRONG. But I realised that the same amount of sympathy shown by many doesn't apply in all cases. Different type of people, different amount of sympathy.

Your opinion has been swayed towards the TG liao. You are trying hard to be neutral, but in actual fact, you aren't.

SC

I can't speak for everybody. Only for my own personal experiences. From the mojority of cases that I have come across, marriages in SG tend to fail from different reasons very different from the men. I think it is better to analyse the data to get the correct info, else the data don't mean very much. In my own case, the reason why I failed here is so different from why the several women I talked to failed in theris.

All I can say that I've known quitre a few women in thailand who would be so happy to love and build a family with the guys many of the SG gal are dissatisfied with. Guess it is a mismatch of expectations. And I am not putting down the SG gals for in general they may be great for somebody else but not me. I prefer to do my fishing in a different pond.

[free]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

But important is be with the one you love and don't compare with our local SG women.

Because when you compare, you complain.

SC

SC, wonder if u realised that before we can chose, we have to compare. Heck I not only compared the SG gals to the TGs, I even compared amongst the TGs when I had the opportunity to choose from 4. After that, I stop comparing. But I still got complain leh, but in areas I was already making noise about since we met. And so does she, And rightly so, for we promised to help each other be a better person for the other.

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by BANGCOCK_MASTER

i think your nose getting longer and longer....

jai yen yen na.....i understand how you feel.

I think your points also getting lesser and lesser.....

jai yen yen na.....i understand how you feel.

[Bangkok Master]

BANGCOCK_MASTER
Samster (M) Join Date: May 2005
Location: Thai College Hostel
Posts: 34
Reputationoints: 0 / Rep Power: 0


Cant 1 on 1 with me? Must ask your friend for help?? :P

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Bwahahahahaha what a loser.
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If you cant beat him, zap his points.

SM, to set the record straight, I had not asked anyone to help me, if I had want to, long ago you would had vanished! I had always taken you by myself, it's the ppl here detest u like what Bro Free had said. Anyway thanks for registering all your clone nicks on the polls and we can sammy to wipe it out once for all.....That's why you are damm stupid, who will go and release all the evidence of his crime.....for once your stupidity kill yourself....... hahaha

Btw, who's the one who always ask for pts or help? You need me to dig up the old files again?

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by BANGCOCK_MASTER

great story (nevermind if it's made up). we want more. ....

Made up stories? The only made up stories are those that you made of the "success" stories that you claimed to have. Now that all your made up stories have been uncovered, you are too scared to post using your original nicks and now are using clones of others. It is now for sad fucks like you to own up.

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by BANGCOCK_MASTER

sianzzzzz, all my efforts wasted......

Cant 1 on 1 with me? Must ask your friend for help?? :P

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Bwahahahahaha what a loser.
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If you cant beat him, zap his points.
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Ha ha. That's so typical of SM. Got no fren or kakis. Even the only one who SM confessed and pour his heart out to, Bro Too Fast, betrayed his trust and circulated his PM exchanges for all to view.

I have kept those files and once in a while when I feel bored, I will open them up and have a good laugh.
Bro Bangkok Master don't need to ask. I will help also. You are so pathetic. ( I have PM exchanges of your private life that you discussed with Too Fast),Accodring to what you two have PMs, you never had gfs b4, no family, staying all alone in Toa Payoh. Have a lousy job with no future and a ugly apperance too. I felt so sad for you. You are really a born loser. Even a WL dumped you! And now, you even feel ashamed using your SM2 nick cos you are afraid that the other samsters will laugh at you for being dumped by a WL that you can now only live in the shadows of others by using your clone nicks. How pathetic and low can you stoop to?

[toothbrush]

Originally Posted by sex maniac

yes i am such a sad fukk. i need social help. please help me please.

Maybe can seek help from your clone

Originally Posted by toothbrush

Maybe can seek help from your clone

wah toothbrush, you come back liao ah. Thought you batam PR liao, kekeke....

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

...Because when you compare, you complain. SC

not that i enjoy comparing or complaining, bt cos some1 asked how sure was I that the TG makes a better wife. Hence, for justification it takes a little cross referencing to substantiate the opinion.

i'm not basing on now, bt basing the stats for the upward trend in Sg. in fact, given the ratio. the steep upward trend is surprisingly 1 area of concern. y i say so, very soon we're gonna be out-bred by the foreign migrants who come here to snatch our rice-bowls. ultimately, causing steeper inflation rates, slashing of salary etc. which means though we're a better developed country in this region, we'd soon top-out like wats happening to HK & JP. alot of singaporeans r still ignorant to such issues n so reamin contented that they can enjoy their luxuries here.

watever it is.. its the ppl's choice.. to continue grazing on barren soil, n chew on dried up manure glazed topsoil, or to move on to greener pastures.. i shant probe on these issues any further.

gotta lead by example n stick to my topic for the thread, b4 ppl start flaming n zapping again.

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by BANGCOCK_MASTER

Both are good story tellers and great LIARS

Ha. You are the best lair of them all. According to what you had PM Too Fast, you had Raw with that poor WL several times and yet you have the cheeks to advise all and fuck others who did raw in other threads. What a loser and hypo! Come on lah. Wanna to flame, flame using your SM2 nick and not with your clones. You were once banned when you hurled abusives at other ppls' mothers. So are you scared of PF, that's why you don't dare to use your own nick?

Come to think of it. For a loser like you who has no real life frens, no family, looked ugly, had a lousy job, betrayed by cyber "fren" and lastly dumped by a WL, this SM2 nick maybe the last thing that keeps you going on in life. That's why you are scared of using SM2 nick and instead used your clones. You are scared that you will be zapped into moderation or even banned. You are nothing but a pathethic cockroach.

[free]

Originally Posted by sex maniac

can your postings not be so long winded? i dun even bother to read what you wrote. keep it concise. u think u testing for A levels GP?

Apologise for my long windedness. I old man liao, easier for u to adapt than for me to change. Wonder why my GP examiners never tell me leh? Gimme an A somemore . But probably I changed over the years oso.

If u are looking for answers, u will take the trouble to read. Many have pmed me to tell me they enjoyed my posts, rode my highs and felt my pains with me. For some it was a good read, for others, what I shared had implications in their own life journeys. Interestly, most of these bros dun post very much not do I ask them for rep points. For rep points are meaningless to me, and I posted cos I know that some will appreciate. The Pms I got told ne the "Some" is a lot more than I expected.

If u want quick fixes or worse guaranteed solutions, I am not the one nor do I have the solutions for u. For mine is the long slow, but worthwhile road. Like I told the few who pmed me for WL/FL leads, I told them I am the last guy they should ask. Cos my contacts if I kept any would all have retired by now.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by free

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If u are looking for answers, u will take the trouble to read. Many have pmed me to tell me they enjoyed my posts, rode my highs and felt my pains with me. For some it was a good read, for others, what I shared had implications in their own life journeys. Interestly, most of these bros dun post very much not do I ask them for rep points. For rep points are meaningless to me, and I posted cos I know that some will appreciate. The Pms I got told ne the "Some" is a lot more than I expected.

If u want quick fixes or worse guaranteed solutions, I am not the one nor do I have the solutions for u. For mine is the long slow, but worthwhile road. Like I told the few who pmed me for WL/FL leads, I told them I am the last guy they should ask. Cos my contacts if I kept any would all have retired by now.

No pun intended in anyway here

Some who pmed you, probably are in a tight rope situation themselves. And many a times these people felt "motivated" at how your relationship goes and feel likewise they can do the same like you. "Hope" is what they are hoping. But many of them are still ignorant of the harsh facts that they haven't see.

Maybe like what the movie says, you bring the balance to the force

SC

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

...Some who pmed you, probably are in a tight rope situation themselves. And many a times these people felt "motivated" at how your relationship goes and feel likewise they can do the same like you. "Hope" is what they are hoping. But many of them are still ignorant of the harsh facts that they haven't see.
...SC

SC, i think u're too quick to generalize la, ppl old enuff to go for commercial sex should alraedy be mentally, physically, emotionally (& more importantly) financially prepared for their respective preferences for the cat that they cheong.

Hope is definately wat any1/every1 work towards, as the chinese saying goes: ren wang shang pa, shui wang xia liu (translates: man strive for greater acheivements, water only can flow downwards). who wouldnt hope for a better tmr? who wouldnt want a better future? if 1 can lose this will for acheivements let alone success... then i think the person should just die (dun waste resources - some1 somewhere deserves the resources more)

ppl more often than nt have tendency to share woes cos they need enlightenment, comforting, consoling, councelling etc. harsh facts n truth intended for their gd is well appreciated, bt u shouldnt condemn every single tirakship to the abyss. though some been burnt b4 dun mean those who can suffer the same fate, will suffer the same.

my suggestion: try being a lil more neutral/diplomatic next time na~

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

..."Hope" is what they are hoping. But many of them are still ignorant of the harsh facts that they haven't see...SC

actually i've learnt quite abit from your previous posts n the obstacles presented. however, every puying still is unique, regardles of profession, province, educational status etc.

as i always say, if cheong wanna cheong for TRCR, then by all means go ahead as long as u're kam-guan. afterall, all paying for sessions - huahee jiu hoh!! if think its nt ur cup of tea then mai bpen rai...continue to be the hua-ngoo/jao-chuu.

lets be reminded of 1 thing: in this TRCR, not only WL play KC w patrons, sometimes its the other way round. kindness be-gets kindness...tic for tac, butter for fred... ghandi once said: "an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind"

its not just the WL who're trained to play KC, bt there've been cases when cheongster play KC n start living off the WLs too. gotta spare a thought for the WLs, cos KC is their livelihood - they're human n not robots, hence also vulnerable to be caught in their own trap. surely u do know that there r cases when spiders get caught in their own web.

WL will also have guilt for milking the "tirak" until nothing left... dun be too quick to slaughter the goose that lays golden eggs. i hokkien: jia-gin long pua wa! translates:"eat too fast will break the bowl"

so dun be too quick to conclude that WL n their KC game is 1 sided. KC to me is always been a double edged sword. i pain only cos of 1 puying, bt the WL pain cos of all her countless puchais, peurn saneet, gig, faen/tirak, peechai or even samee.