Gers Are Still Gers - Page 44

lament · #**646** 25-01-2005, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by cuntarow

well its posible lah anyway one of my friends got married in riz carlton and the total angpow he collected was 80000k and he told mi still earn 10k frm dinner

like that huh ..... think if i marry 6 times a year then i will make 60K ...not a bad job huh ..... anyone wanna be a professonal groom ......

but then what about the other expenses thats comes in ...marriage is the meeting point of 2 hearts and is so god-damned commercialised this days .....

#**647** 25-01-2005, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by lament

well then ur gal will complain that she is not worth it ......
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excuse me i m a ger...u tink all gers r that materialistic meh

newae my stand is...weddin banquets r a waste of money...u can use the money on other things more worth it. dat's it

lament · #**648** 25-01-2005, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by uglyger

excuse me i m a ger...u tink all gers r that materialistic meh newae my stand is...weddin banquets r a waste of money...u can use the money on other things more worth it. dat's it

sorry but not targetted on u ...but the vast majority that is out there ....

#**649** 25-01-2005, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by lament

sorry but not targetted on u ...but the vast majority that is out there ....

marriage is the celebration of life of the 2 persons involved...y do pple need so much face ? u dun c em celebrating divorce do u?

waypastprime · #**650** 25-01-2005, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by uglyger

newae my stand is...weddin banquets r a waste of money...

Gal, most of them earn from wedding banquets.

#**651** 25-01-2005, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by waypastprime

Gal, most of them earn from wedding banquets.

it sucs .....i hate commericalised weddings

lament · #**652** 25-01-2005, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by uglyger

marriage is the celebration of life of the 2 persons involved...y do pple need so much face ? u dun c em celebrating divorce do u?

yes .... i agree but then what i am saying is that most of the gers i know wants a wedding dinner to show off that they are getting married ...sometimes all this i feel is something that is very unnecessary ....

i would prefer a simple ROM followed by some meals with the family and i believe this is more than enough ..... the problem is that many gers this days are very much influenced by their friends and what they see .... they just wanna be the same like others .... i for 1 is different from the typical Sillyporeans .... i dun really prescribe to the ways of Sillypore .....

as for celebrating a divorce .... i have a friend whom recently throw a banquet for some family members and close friends to celebrate their divorce on amicable terms ...... think this is very rare cos in most cases divorces are due to other things and usually ugly ....... the 2 decide that its best to go separate ways then to go on without any more feelings .... does that answer your question .........

love is what brings 2 people together, responsibility is what compel most people to marry each other ..... love in most marriages i know is long gone and dead and buried .....with that 2 person becomes locked in a shared responsibility for most of their lifes not that love is not there but it becomes a mere concern of looking out for each other and not that hot loving romance that brings the 2 together ....

i believe in romance and love and the reason i chose to be single is that i have yet to find a woman whom i think i can love 4ever .... i did find that someone b4 but its all gone dead and buried within my heart ......

lament · #**653** 25-01-2005, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by uglyger

it sucs .....i hate commericalised weddings

face it ger ...its the sad truth out there this days ....

cuntarow · #**654** 25-01-2005, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by lament

face it ger ...its the sad truth out there this days ....

well frm what i saw to the reply u sent to most is u may have a bad life or bad experince during or maybe after ur wedding .......lets put it in this way i think like marriage is a sacred thing and it is a daring thing to do as 80% of couple relationship will sour after maybe 2-3 years as everyday u will be seeing her ,u will be eating the same old things and facing the same shit finance problem monthly you can never have those courtship things again but think back man are not stupid too why do they wanna risk breaking off in maybe 2-3 years time or stressing themselves up with problem when they decide to get married it is a mutual thing its not a respondsiblitily i believe most ppl marry their wife is not in exchange of getting peace frm friends and relative as ppls will keeps going" har so big liao ar when getting married huh " so marriage is mutual btw 2 imho

OceanEleven · #**655** 26-01-2005, 09:20 AM

When a couple date for some time, did most of the things, the next thing they wanna do is to get married.

jackylee · #**656** 26-01-2005, 10:00 AM

its ok to wanting a nice and big wedding..

who don't?

once in a lifetime leh (provided u not havin 2nd marriage lah or you can predict you going to)

just dont make it too much can oredy...

OceanEleven · #**657** 26-01-2005, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by jackylee

its ok to wanting a nice and big wedding..
who don't?
once in a lifetime leh (provided u not havin 2nd marriage lah or you can predict you going to)
just dont make it too much can oredy...

Bro, I've come to realised that "Once In A Lifetime" is the password to one's tomb. Seen too many such cases already. I agree if the wedding is within one's abilities, then it is fine but more often than not, the couple tends to overspend.

cbjuiceyumseng · #**658** 26-01-2005, 09:08 PM

A nice wedding is also a way for me to show my appreciation to my in-laws for allowing them to marry their daughter also....other than the socialising factor as mentioned earlier.

No doubt a simple wedding can be nice, but there is the matter of "face" also. The last thing i want is to "lao kui" in front of friends and relatives. Sigh, perharps the matter of "Pride" is too high on my agenda....

Call me a romantic or call me silly but i always thought of the day when i will walk down the aisle looking my best and slipping the ring into the fingers of my most gorgeous princess. Its a once in life time thing. I am going to make the best of it when it happens.

#**659** 26-01-2005, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by cbjuiceyumseng

A nice wedding is also a way for me to show my appreciation to my in-laws for allowing them to marry their daughter also....other than the socialising factor as mentioned earlier.

No doubt a simple wedding can be nice, but there is the matter of "face" also. The last thing i want is to "lao kui" in front of friends and relatives. Sigh, perharps the matter of "Pride" is too high on my agenda....

Call me a romantic or call me silly but i always thought of the day when i will walk down the aisle looking my best and slipping the ring into the fingers of my most gorgeous princess. Its a once in life time thing. I am going to make the best of it when it happens.

remember to invite uz samsterz along when u get hitched ha ha ha...hope to hear weddin bell ring soon from u

cbjuiceyumseng · #**660** 26-01-2005, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by uglyger

remember to invite uz samsterz along when u get hitched ha ha ha...hope to hear weddin bell ring soon from u

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