Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 406

Hurricane88 · #**6076** 14-09-2009, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by chen_zhen

Any bros here whom their viet mother-in-law r saying together with them. KNN my wife had invited her mum to stay in our new flat...

I thk my new flat will become a viet contingent soon.

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Originally Posted by chen_zhen

this statement i very strongly agree with u. my wife's 'monster cousin' is always the troublemaker, always advising my wife how to deal with me, and act like a big shot ordering my wife to do alot things for her....

Good luck to you...better start planning before the whole flat is like Vn...dun know if you still in time to brain wash your wife...

SingViet · #**6077** 14-09-2009, 02:12 PM

Logged on to ICA website a few days ago and applied for 90 days extension for my sister-in-law. Next day, check status and was told to ask my wife to go down ICA with her sister-in-law to produce evidence of kinship. We went down this morning, officer checked birth certificate, and i was told to check status in 2 hours time. Paid $30 and my sister-in-law got the extension successfully. Easily done. What ICA wants to see is BLACK AND WHITE. No BLACK AND WHITE, say until cow comes home also no use.

Hurricane88 · #**6078** 15-09-2009, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Logged on to ICA website a few days ago and applied for 90 days extension for my sister-in-law. Next day, check status and was told to ask my wife to go down ICA with her sister-in-law to produce evidence of kinship. We went down this morning, officer checked birth certificate, and i was told to check status in 2 hours time. Paid $30 and my sister-in-law got the extension successfully. Easily done. What ICA wants to see is BLACK AND WHITE. No BLACK AND WHITE, say until cow comes home also no use.

Singapore besides a fine country oso a black an white nation...honesty, integrity, proof, law by law...

SingViet · #**6079** 15-09-2009, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Singapore besides a fine country oso a black an white nation...honesty, integrity, proof, law by law...

`black and white nation, honesty, integrity, proof , law by law'... all these are for normal people like us

Honey Boon · #**6080** 15-09-2009, 04:43 PM

the only good thing from getting your mother-in-law to stay with you in singapore... can deduct 5k from your chargeable income when filing your annual personal income tax return ....

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Originally Posted by SingViet

hahha, wait till your wife gets PR and she apply for her mother to come here for 5 years. By then, you can sleep in the living room and hand all your salary to your wife and she will hand it to that viet old lady. Your life will be like HELL

Honey Boon · #**6081** 15-09-2009, 04:47 PM

so are you happy with the approval of the extension?

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Logged on to ICA website a few days ago and applied for 90 days extension for my sister-in-law. Next day, check status and was told to ask my wife to go down ICA with her sister-in-law to produce evidence of kinship. We went down this morning, officer checked birth certificate, and i was told to check status in 2 hours time. Paid $30 and my sister-in-law got the extension successfully. Easily done. What ICA wants to see is BLACK AND WHITE. No BLACK AND WHITE, say until cow comes home also no use.

SingViet · #**6082** 15-09-2009, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Honey Boon

the only good thing from getting your mother-in-law to stay with you in singapore... can deduct 5k from your chargeable income when filing your annual personal income tax return ....

I will rather that $5k be in my assessable income

SingViet · #**6083** 15-09-2009, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Honey Boon

so are you happy with the approval of the extension?

hahhah, am i happy? that goes without saying, i am.... NOT so happy

cashier · #**6084** 17-09-2009, 09:55 PM

just now while shopping at a shoe shop i saw a 7mth pregnant woman bending down on her knees to help her hubby try the shoes, she was helping her hubby wear the diff shoes while the shop lady was standing next to her.

well of course the woman is not a local and so is the man but i dun think i can find and local womans doing that for her hubby. the man doesnt look fierce or abusive, in fact he is quite a MAN but not handsome type.

is this what vietnam woman will do for her hubby?

naemlo · #**6085** 17-09-2009, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by cashier

is this what vietnam woman will do for her hubby?

yes, but I won't let my pregnant wife to do this.

silent killer · #**6086** 18-09-2009, 02:00 AM

Hi every 1 i m kind of new here. i have been thinking about marrying a Vietnamese wife when i save up enough in the near future when i turn 28. my education n income r not good enough 2 win the hearts of local girls n i don't wanna be alone when i grow old so i thought of this. can any 1 give me some advise on this matter i really need some help here. i read some posts from this thread regarding the wife family asking u for $ n vietnam girls place their family first, i don't really know what 2 do now

SingViet · #**6087** 18-09-2009, 06:10 AM

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Originally Posted by cashier

just now while shopping at a shoe shop i saw a 7mth pregnant woman bending down on her knees to help her hubby try the shoes, she was helping her hubby wear the diff shoes while the shop lady was standing next to her.

well of course the woman is not a local and so is the man but i dun think i can find and local womans doing that for her hubby. the man doesnt look fierce or abusive, in fact he is quite a MAN but not handsome type.

is this what vietnam woman will do for her hubby?

i will not let my pregnant wife do this too, its just too tiring. This is in fact some of the things that local gals will not do even when they are not pregnant. Just too much pride involved for local gals.

SingViet · #**6088** 18-09-2009, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by silent killer

Hi every 1 i m kind of new here. i have been thinking about marrying a Vietnamese wife when i save up enough in the near future when i turn 28. my education n income r not good enough 2 win the hearts of local girls n i don't wanna be alone when i grow old so i thought of this. can any 1 give me some advise on this matter i really need some help here. i read some posts from this thread regarding the wife family asking u for $ n vietnam girls place their family first, i don't really know what 2 do now

You are still young and marrying at 28 is also considered young. Besides finding negative points about vietnamese spouse in this thread, you will also find lots of positive points too and how some brothers managed to `brain-wash' their vietnamese spouse to give majority of their attention to the husband and child.

Hurricane88 · #**6089** 18-09-2009, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by silent killer

Hi every 1 i m kind of new here. i have been thinking about marrying a Vietnamese wife when i save up enough in the near future when i turn 28. my education n income r not good enough 2 win the hearts of local girls n i don't wanna be alone when i grow old so i thought of this. can any 1 give me some advise on this matter i really need some help here. i read some posts from this thread regarding the wife family asking u for $ n vietnam girls place their family first, i don't really know what 2 do now

I think the positive points and advantages for having a Vn spouse outweighs the negative points and disadvantages...

You dun seem like a silent killer if you post like that...I propose you finish reading the whole thread or at least read 75% before you understand the merits of this thread...

silent killer · #**6090** 18-09-2009, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

You are still young and marrying at 28 is also considered young. Besides finding negative points about vietnamese spouse in this thread, you will also find lots of positive points too and how some brothers managed to `brain-wash' their vietnamese spouse to give majority of their attention to the husband and child.

thanks SingViet for your advise